Is this why I can't stop thinking about my ex??

My Leo ex, rising Gemini, Taurus moon, and I were together 4 years. I broke up with him march 2012 for a number of reasons, the main one being me straying.

I'm currently 2 months in a wonderful relationship with a Scorpio sun, aqua rising, Leo moon. I'm very happy with him.

Yet I keep thinking of my Leo ex from time to time, I have to resist the urge to text, "I miss you."

I realized...something that may have a big impact today.

I just so happened to notice that my ex had some of the same placements as one of my best friends of 12 years. I love her dearly and we are VERY close.

I happened to compare their charts and they are THE SAME. Every sign, every placement....even down to the freaking degree and coordinate!

What does this mean?? I'm not still in love with him, I feel myself falling deeper for my Scorpio. But will I EVER be able to get Leo off my brain and erase the feelings I still feel?

Yeah I have libra moon...I hold attachments to many people. Weather friends, or exes. I still think about my Aries best female friend constantly. We were reunited sat after 3 years...I was so happy! She was too. But she hasn't answered my communication attempts since.

I don't talk innapropriately with my ex, in fact I hardly do at all. And I would NEVER see him so long as I'm with Scorp. I like Scorp!

I just find myself comparing my current relationship with my last (good and bad parts). Maybe because I have nothing really else to go on? Leo ex was my longest, we met in high school. Scorpio is the only guy I have been able to call "bf" since the break up. There have only been 2 other men I've been able to call "bf" in my life time. A Virgo I was off and on with for 8 months when I was 16, and an Aries I was with for 5 months (who later died) before I met Leo

No neuro, he's not. He's great!

I'm just trying to figure out why I keep thinking about my ex from time to time and miss him. I know I'm not still in love with my ex, and Scorpio does things a million times better in some aspects.

I'm just trying to figure out if it could be because he has the exact same placements as one of my really longterm good friends, is why I'm having an extra hard time keeping him out of my mind.

It's not so much romantic thoughts as it is nostalgia/memories.

But they are driving me crazy. I really do miss him at times.

Taurus room mate says I'm human.

To him, or me? And don't worry, I won't tell him. I like Scorp, I want to be with Scorp.

I don't still love Leo and plan to go see him secretly, that's not it. Just trying to figure out why I keep thinking about him sometimes. Just memories not longing.

Scorp is attracted to and likes ME.

He has 2 totally platonic female friends. Don't know the other, but one is a cancer. Cancer is supposed to be a good match for Scorp but he says he's not at all intersted in her that way, or attracted to her.

Just like I'm not to my Taurus room mate or fellow gem best male friend.

I don't keep in contact with Leo, wouldn't be fair. Wished him happy bday and that was it.

you obviously want to be with mr leo

your young enough to get yourself what you really want from life

don't wait until you've got 2 kids & a hefty mortgage,it's to late

if mr leo,isn't having it,then shit happens

move on quickly,easier said than done,I know,but it's true

all the best for the future

Maybe you're not feeling connected enough to you're scorpio. They have a way of making you feel unfilled and you're mind starts to travel else where.

He probably isn't mentally stimulating you enough. I know that is big for air signs and is for sags as well. Water signs don't get it really. They try but it's

sometimes just not a fit.


It can feel limiting. You can try and push through it and see if it goes away, if not than spare the scorpio and find something that speaks more to you.

Your boyfriend has a right to know that you are thinking about an ex so much, that you've had to go to a forum so you could soak in the energy of thinking of this other man.

Now, it's just fond memories .... but, a person is what they think about, so the more you think about him, the more you will miss him and compare your current boyfriend to him.

Oh wait .. you already do


Yeah, when the Scorpio finds out on his own .... it's going to be a bazillion times worse than if you came clean like an adult and told him yourself.

However, according to what you've written .. it is assumed you'll take the coward way out.