Leo Confused About Cap Woman

I've never posted on a message board so if this is long winded I apologize. I've known this Cap woman for over a year. I've always thought she had
a thing for me. We both were seeing other people but recently we dated.
First date: Just simple. 4 hours of conversation over a drink, then a few weeks went by and we got together for date two.

Second date: it was AMAZING. We spent 6 hours talking over drinks, great laughs. However, she kept asking me very straight forward questions, do you want kids, marriage, etc. I'm an open book, but still like to maintain a little mystery. I was honest about everything, my integrity is everything to me and those close to me know that. I told her that I don't pull punches, and she said she liked that. So, she kept saying I really like you, I think your sexy, etc. I asked her questions and she completely opened up to me emotionally. She even told me her biggest secret and said 'I feel so comfortable with you'. we spent the entire night together and most of the next day, just laying together and cuddling, yes we kissed. I haven't felt that happy in a long time and haven't had a connection like that in a long time. We connect on every level and she just kept smiling, and saying how sexy I was and how she really liked me. We exchange a few messages throughout the he next week and I set up another date.

Third date: I had made plans but we decided to due something else due to time restraints, so we ate, talked, hung out, kept saying I was sexy, She really liked me, etc. Now this is where it gets strange. We both had plans later that evening. So I left and she got ready. Well hers fell through and I invited her out but she made other plans. Ok, cool. Monday, everything seemed fine, a few texts. Tuesday, i called her and left a message and she called me back, then said we will have to get together again sometime soon. She knew I would be busy that weekend... I called her after the weekend and left a message saying I wanted to take her out on a specific day. She then just sent this generic message saying hey, we should get totter her sometime soon. Well I haven't heard a peep from her. I invited her out recently but she said I have plans, sorry. No options for another date, nothing. I said ok, no worries.

So, Cap women, what the....— Any advice.

Also, posted this in capricorn but this board seems more fitting.

When a Cap doesn't make you a priority on his Schedule it generally means that you don't have that much of importance for them..
So that's how a Leo man who's into a woman behave ? I should dump mine one day..

We both had plans and she kept saying hey I have to go, so I left.

A few things could've happened here:

1. She lost interest in you along the way (it could've been over something you said/did that was really small or even something you would not have been turned off by if the tables were turned. Instead of being raw/honest & telling you, she'd rather turn down the momentum in HOPES that you get the hint. This saves her from the guilt of most likely hurting your feelings if she's 100% honest with you)

2. There's another man in the mix that caught her interest more than you did. Doesn't mean that you weren't interesting to her, it just means that the other guy stimulated her MORE than you. It could've been 49/51, but if you were the 49, then of course the other guy won the battle of who gets her undivided time & attention.

3. She has something going on in her life that is making her want to emotionally disconnect from you (and maybe even others--but if you don't know those "others" then of course you're gonna think that this sudden disconnection applied to you only). It's not that she's lost interest in you. It's that when she's stressed & doesn't feel like talking about it, her defense mechanism & way of dealing with tough things are to disconnect & go into a shell, until she's ready to come out on HER terms. Women like this usually won't admit this until after they're ready to come out of their shell. Yes, this is selfish & her being inconsiderate of how her actions might affect you

4. She was never that into you. She only made you think the attraction was mutual when the truth was that you were the only one thinking that things were going great. She talked a big/good game (talk is cheap) b/c that's just how she is. She may be the kind of girl who gives never ending compliments & praise to any guys she hangs out with, whether she's really into them or not. A lot of men are guilty of this, which is why some of the ladies dealing with those specific men all tend to be at home thinking THEY are special, without realizing that he's got 5 other chicks thinking/feeling the exact same way.

5. She didn't realize until after you got too close that she doesn't want anybody to get too close lol It's easy and all fun and games when there's no feelings involved, but the minute an attachment starts to form, that's when some people's biggest fears & insecurities come out, hence the reason some people run like hell the minute things start feeling a little TOO good.

I'm a Capricorn woman and at first it really did sound like she was into you. When you go on a date with us, it's much like an interview than anything else haha. So yes, we'll ask you direct questions and mark your answers in our head. It was a little strange that she'd be sharing her inner thoughts about how she feels about you and such. Usually, we're pretty tight lipped about that until we're sure.

Because she kept "making plans", well... I usually say that when I don't want to be around that person. So, you might of said something on the date she didn't like, perhaps? I'm really sorry :/

What you can do is ignore her. Act like you moved on and it'll drive us CRAZY! Capricorns hate to be ignored and we will end up being the ones to chase you.

Thanks for the advice. I won't talk to her unless she tries to contact me. It is what it is

Cap women don't have souls, that's why doors don't open for them. Stay away.