Hi. I am really confused. We are both in college he is a libra male and I am a scorpio woman. I always catch him Looking at me and I know the look of attraction when I see it. I can feel that he wants me, but when we talk I feel that he tries to avoid me. Is he attracted to me or is he not? I am so confused!
Thank you for your reply! I really appreciate it! The relationship is so confusing. I guess what I want is more of a friends with benefits type of relationship. I do like to be in control, but I also like a dominating man who can stand for himself. He is a little too showy for me but the sexual tension is there and it's driving me crazy! He is an athlete and I am an art student but when I am in the gym he is always coming over towards me and "showing off". He is always taking his shirt off and staring at me. It is seriously so obvious! So confused >
I guess so. Thank you again. We have mutual friends and they are always telling me that he is so attracted to me etc. But when we are alone he will just freeze up. I don't know what it is with him. I have never been in this situation. Sorry if it's tmi or in appropriate but all I wanted was to "test drive" him. Just to see if his intense glares led to other intense things. But I'm starting to lose interest. I probably sound like a Crazy person! Sorry!
It's funny. Back when I was in college, I thought this kinda thing was so cute. Now that I'm older, I'm like ugggh! If you want me, tell me! Man up & be a go getter LOL It's kinda like when a guy has to have his friend approach you b/c he's too afraid to approach you himself. I can understand why some would think this is adorable, but as for me, na, a lack in confidence is an immediate turn off for me.
This is why I understand why you're losing interest. I get it. There's something very flattering about a man who is just so in awe of you that he can't bring himself to approach you. But at the same time, depending on the situation, there is also something very immature about stuff like that.
The passive-aggressive stuff will drive you crazy!
But the same goes for you too though. If you want him bad enough & if you feel that your attraction to each other is mutual, then perhaps you should make the 1st move. Have some confidence. Put your pride down & go for what you want if that's who you want. What's the worst that can happen anyways?! Go for it.
@krysrenee7 thank you so much! Passive aggressive! That is the term I was looking for. I would go after him, but please don't judge, I don't want to be in a relationship just quite yet. It's complicated. But with this Libra male I feel sexual attraction. Maybe it was the blood moon making me feel all sorts of crazy but all I really wanted was... Because he really is a good looking guy with a great physique... And what I want is something so awkward to ask for and I am not sure if Libras are down with that.
@Lust Thank you. I hope so! Haha I actually have another guy that I am interested in. He is a virgo, but I don't want to rush into anything with him. I doubt I will fall for the Libra as I don't think we match intellectually, which is really important for me. Friends with benefits is much more what I am looking for. But I guess I should also say never say never.
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Looking at me and I know the look of attraction when I see it. I can feel that he wants me, but when we talk I feel that he tries to avoid me. Is he attracted to me or is he not? I am so confused!