Not to long ago I started talking to her, I had known her from friends of friends when we were in school but we never talked because she was "hung" on a guy who mistreated her. I never really saw any interest in finding out more about her until recently. I've been away for several years. Im also accross the country now because of my job. I found her on Facebook so I struck up a conversation, one thing leads to another and I find myself amazed by how much I had been missing out on! I'm simply head over heels for this girl. Being a Libra I do tend to fall easily but with her it was as if someone tied a 10 ton boulder to my ankle and pushed it off mt. Vesuvius! We have so much I common, the way we think, act, feel and even our body language. She's everything I've wanted because she understands me so well and I assume that she's telling me everything I want to hear. At first we both started off blunt with each other, we agreed that we both wanted a serious relationship because we were tired of giving our time and affection to all the wrong people. We talk for weeks unable to meet and hold each other but we make due with what we can. We are both reserved for the fear of being hurt, but seemingly enough I'm falling way faster than she is...to the point where she has told me twice to slow down. This makes me start overthinking, as always I fear of being hurt or rejected so I ask if she's sure and this and that. She reassures me that if she didn't she wouldn't waste both our time, that she would have ended it if she wasn't interested. I'm the first to dive in and say the "L" word....she responds with silence... then with the question "are you sure?" I obviously say yes and begin to describe all her qualities and how I know its not lust because we haven't seen each other other than pictures. Eventually I ask her to be my girlfriend and she quickly said yes, but not before teasing me with some humor. Everything is going beautifully, until one day for some erratic reason I feel really insecure and at the first sign of her absence I jump to the conclusion that she is avoiding me. This goes on for a whole weekend and on the last day I finally blurt out my frustration. She continued to tell me she "adores" me but that she can't attend to me as often as I'd like. Somehow I always manage to do something to ruin my chances is all my previous relationships. That appears to be the one this time. Ever since then we had a deep lengthy discussion about how I really need to slow down, she continued to tell me that I need to cut back on all the "L" word things I constantly remind her of. Thinking Libra women love to be put on a pedestal I do it constantly telling her how lucky I am and how happy she makes me. After that conversation I've noticed her "avoiding me" to where she used to call me and text me every opportunity, now I've noticed her on social media for hours and then reply to a text with simple replies. She is being cold and seems to be pushing me away. Why?
