Sag/Aqua vibes?

So i've had an Aqua guy friend since high school, about a decade, and we've vibed since the beginning...flirting like crazy at times, questions about relationships, long random ass conversations and a hookup one time (just making out). Pretty sure I've eluded to having feelings for him after some drinks but I'm not sure he's ever said anything to me. I don't talk about my feelings, I tend to laugh them off...something I'm working on. Anywho, apologies for the ramble. 🙂 Wondering if there's a reason, astrologically speaking, that we vibe and are attracted, on my end at least, to each other?

His chart: Aqua sun/moon

Cap merc/venus

Sag mars

Cancer jupiter

Cap saturn/uranus/neptune

Me: Sag sun/moon/merc

Scorpio venus

Aries mars

Taurus jupiter

Cap saturn/uranus/neptune

Posted by bumboklatt
Yeah Sun/Moon match is good

His Sag Mars just sweetens the deal

Venus signs are good match too

Cap Venus on his end could be a little reluctant to be in a real relationship

Yeah we've never have been like 'hey idk if it's just me but is there something between us?' so I always figured he's just flirty like I am. I also feel like I can be annoying because I could talk all day everyday and that's like the kiss of death for Aquas, or am I mistaken? :p lol...idk, feelings can suck it!

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Posted by bumboklatt
Yeah Sun/Moon match is good

His Sag Mars just sweetens the deal

Venus signs are good match too

Cap Venus on his end could be a little reluctant to be in a real relationship

Yeah we've never have been like 'hey idk if it's just me but is there something between us?' so I always figured he's just flirty like I am. I also feel like I can be annoying because I could talk all day everyday and that's like the kiss of death for Aquas, or am I mistaken? :p lol...idk, feelings can suck it!

dont get me wrong. Venus Capricorns love too lol

its just like a thick wall to break through and not casual at all. Capricorn is just a rock hard and logical sign

For instance I have Aqua Sun/Venus Cap and I rolled my eyes at the idea of a relationship but I still loved

Communicating is awesome to us as long as its exciting and purposeful

But when someone like a Pisces starts talking about relationships/paranoia or "woa is me" then its like torture lol

If you have feelings might as well talk it out, theres no point in being quiet about it, thats just a slow and silent killer lol

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What're u sayin about my Scorp venus huh? lol 😉

I could take or leave relationships, they're good until they're not n then i'm over the drama and run for the hills!

I don't like the 'woe is me' BS either. I wanna talk about ideas, places and the deep what ifs of society. We also both talk music too.

I'm learning that it's a slow killer man, trust me. I've ALMOST gotten the guts to do it several times but then I start overanalyzing it all n chicken out. Haha.

Yeah I don't feel forced with him, we just seem to get along.

Ah snap, I already fled once...the time we hooked up. It was at a party, both had been drinking and our flirtiness ended w/both of us in the same bed, almost bare ass n some pretty heavy making out. We woke up in the AM n neither of us commented on it. I had somewhere to be so I was out...still have never talked about it. Oops haha.

And I'm in a relationship at the moment but if he had feelings for me that changes things...I hate to be that chick who doesn't have her shiz straight but yeah, haha...

What a bummer man! The face tells a lot, and if that Sag girl is anything like me I can just about imagine THE look 😄

@bumboklatt

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Yeah I don't feel forced with him, we just seem to get along.

Ah snap, I already fled once...the time we hooked up. It was at a party, both had been drinking and our flirtiness ended w/both of us in the same bed, almost bare ass n some pretty heavy making out. We woke up in the AM n neither of us commented on it. I had somewhere to be so I was out...still have never talked about it. Oops haha.

And I'm in a relationship at the moment but if he had feelings for me that changes things...I hate to be that chick who doesn't have her shiz straight but yeah, haha...

What a bummer man! The face tells a lot, and if that Sag girl is anything like me I can just about imagine THE look 😄

@bumboklatt

yeah she had sunglasses on so i didnt recognize her and I I thought she was hot for a stranger and we both just stared at each other for like 5 seconds

then a few mins later when I saw her walking on the street and recognized her

I was like oh sh it

then she just pranced away like a gazelle hahahaha makes me laugh remembering

Sags are adorable

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Adorable goofballs or sarcastic sassy pants, maybe that's just me n all the Sags I know tho haha.

@Harruka awww they all look so cute n happy!

@bumboklatt Ahh INXS, I love them! Good song...not sure I enjoy change either hence why I've never mentioned my feelings haha. Why can't feelings just talk for themselves? I don't wanna make an idiot outta myself but my curiosity is getting the best of me.

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@Harruka awww they all look so cute n happy!

Yeah they are...cuz it's a very good match

I love aquas very much ? lol

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You're a Sag too, right? I love Aquas too! They're on my level!

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@bumboklatt Ahh INXS, I love them! Good song...not sure I enjoy change either hence why I've never mentioned my feelings haha. Why can't feelings just talk for themselves? I don't wanna make an idiot outta myself but my curiosity is getting the best of me.

youll figure it out

just be honest. Aqua wont judge you, its just the idea of commitment is scary lol

If only I could go back and settle that thing with that Sag girl just so she would know I really liked her

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Ahhh, opening up is scary though! haha, but yes I know Aquas aren't judgy...suppose I just need to bite the bullet. 🙂

@Harruka aw I miss Ed! *cue the nonstop Ed tunes tonight*

Posted by brandyp
I think this is a good match bc sag and aqua both value and respect each others freedom. You do have intense venus but his cap Venus is very complimentary. He is probably a little more aloof than you, but overall very positive! GL!

So would my venus and extroverted personality scare him off if/when I tell him how I feel? That's what I'm afraid of, losing a good friend...it would just be a bonus if feelings were reciprocated.

Posted by SagiScorp

Posted by brandyp
I think this is a good match bc sag and aqua both value and respect each others freedom.

Our similarities are the problem. Both too "distant" and afraid to talk about feelings, so you end up with decade long friendships that don't really progress into anything due to misunderstandings and doubt. Wondering what if, like OP is doing right now. And how @bumboklatt and his girl didn't really go there even though they're into each other.

Probably lack of trust from both ends too.

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YASS! We get along so well that it's almost a mindfuck trying to figure out any feelings involved...haha 🙂

Aww. I say go forward with it. Be straight to the point & honest about how u feel. What the worse could happen? Never now until u try.

Btw I'm a sag & my bf is a Aquarius. Trust me he will respect your honesty. I agree Aquarius have a hard time expressing how they feel at time. They don't do well with emotions at time or know the right things to say. By u taking it in your hands letting him know how u feel. Will put ease to the situation. Just from my experience. Wish u all the best.

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@Harruka awww they all look so cute n happy!

Yeah they are...cuz it's a very good match

I love aquas very much ? lol

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Awe same here!!I I feel in my heart that the connection between sag & Aqua is a soulmate connection ❤️

Posted by Lovelyx
Aww. I say go forward with it. Be straight to the point & honest about how u feel. What the worse could happen? Never now until u try.

Btw I'm a sag & my bf is a Aquarius. Trust me he will respect your honesty. I agree Aquarius have a hard time expressing how they feel at time. They don't do well with emotions at time or know the right things to say. By u taking it in your hands letting him know how u feel. Will put ease to the situation. Just from my experience. Wish u all the best.

Thanks for the kind and encouraging words! Hope I get the balls to say something soon! 😄

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Posted by Lovelyx
Aww. I say go forward with it. Be straight to the point & honest about how u feel. What the worse could happen? Never now until u try.

Btw I'm a sag & my bf is a Aquarius. Trust me he will respect your honesty. I agree Aquarius have a hard time expressing how they feel at time. They don't do well with emotions at time or know the right things to say. By u taking it in your hands letting him know how u feel. Will put ease to the situation. Just from my experience. Wish u all the best.

Thanks for the kind and encouraging words! Hope I get the balls to say something soon! 😄

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Awe your welcome. You will when the time is right !

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Posted by brandyp
I think this is a good match bc sag and aqua both value and respect each others freedom.

Our similarities are the problem. Both too "distant" and afraid to talk about feelings, so you end up with decade long friendships that don't really progress into anything due to misunderstandings and doubt. Wondering what if, like OP is doing right now. And how @bumboklatt and his girl didn't really go there even though they're into each other.

Probably lack of trust from both ends too.

Any sign has possibility of being distant with another if they are not growing together. You have to find common interests, similar line of work, or mutual friends. Sag and aqua run risk of spending more time apart than together, but if they find things in common personality wise they are very compatible. Air and fire are made for each other.

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we have some similar interests, art/music/nature/etc...and run in somewhat the same social circle although we live in different cities now so we have separate friends but a pretty solid base of mutuals...🙂