Sagittarius women with Gemini Man

So Im trying to figure out how do I know this Gemini man with mars in Aries, venus in Taurus that I am seeing really likes me or just playing with me...

We met through a friend and connected from the start. Hes an hour away
We talk (text) everyday and on the phone maybe once a week, its been a month
He has come to see me and I drove to him during the weekend and on the weekends, my car broke down once near him and he drop me home
He tells me a lot of information about himself I feel a "player" wouldn't say like:

1. He use to love making girls fall in love with him and fall in love back but he got hurt so much he basically grew up
2. hes very sexual and is trying to hold that side of him back with me
3. He doesn't fall into "like" very often and im making him care

Im not the type of girl that's all googlie eyes for someone and I don't like bullshit so I don't feed into it
BUT one side of me feels like hes being honest BUT the other side says hes a little much and watch out

Is that a Gemini way to show he likes me or something else...

Also we stayed in the same room in a hotel for July 4th and he was VERY respectful, didn't try anything but kiss
He doesn't say he likes me (only once #3^) but he will use words like, Im deep, I intrigue him, I making him curious that he wants to know more about me

Im not rushing into anything, but websites I seen say: To know a Gemini likes you is if they talk to you A LOT and I think that's too broad lol

********* I want to see what peoples experiences are like with Gemini men ? ********

Thanks from: Sag sun, Sag Mars, Scorpio venus