Should I make the first move with a Gemini?

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RockinLibra
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13 Years

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Well they didn't lie when they said that Libra and Gemini are the best match for each other!

First of all, I'm not the kind of girl to "make the first move" in fact I kind of play "hard to get" but this time I WANT to because I seriously can't be patient this time...

I have been interested in this Gemini guy for quite awhile now and he has shown multiple signs of interest as well. For example he is always complimenting me, calling me beautiful and a bunch of other sweet things, and he says he wants to hang out with me soon. There is just one little problem though. He is a very outdoorsy kind of guy (which I adore because I'm the same way), but he doesn't seem to text much because he is always out doing something (which is perfectly fine with me because I'm always busy too) but when we do get the chance to talk it is fun and there is definitely chemistry there between us. So I guess what I'm asking is, is it alright for me to make the first move sometimes? I normally don't, but the way we connect is great, and I know he sees it too by the way he talks to me. He seems kind of shy at times, so I'm wondering if maybe he's waiting on me to kind of "step up to the plate", but it's hard to tell. I've often wondered if maybe he just wants to be friends, but the things he has said to me have made me second guess that.

We could be the perfect couple if we just gave it a shot, but we can't keep playing this little "tug of war" game with each other. Somebody's gotta make the first move at some point...and right now that someone looks like it might have to be me...
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Saddie
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12 Years

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My current boyfriend is a Gem and he did all the chasing, he was the first to ask about a date, first to express how he felt strong enough about me to want to make official. He is always eager to see me and would probably be with me every night if I allowed it. I really believe no matter what sign it is that if they want to be with you they will make it known. There is probably a reason why he has not made any moves yet, this is something to consider.
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MintSprinkles
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12 Years

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Hmm, well for me I'm only in the beginning stages of talking to my Gem guy & we'd talk casually & be on the phone for 3 or 4 hrs at a time. But I guess in a sense I had to make the "first move", he metioned going to church & I just decided to ask if me & my girls could tag along with him & his son & he thought it was a good idea. He has since then made plans for us to hang out as well. As far as chasing goes in the beginning he did most of the calling & texting. But then it waned a bit, I asked him about it & we had a heart to heart & I know his feelings for me. He wants to take things slow because of past hurts, & he backed off because he knows if we were to hook up now the relationship wouldn't last long & he doesn't want that to happen. I'm saying all of this to say that maybe you should just be upfront with him. Or go out on a limb & test the waters with asking if he wants to go for coffee or something. I'm finding that Gemini men will tell you how they feel good OR bad.

Good luck!