SUNARIES
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Some Advice Please!
Posted by Arietteheart
This guy doesn't sound very stable and this isn't really typical Virgo behavior. The criticizing is lol but the rest is crazyness. Usually Virgos will bow out gracefully and keep their dignity.
Yes, you're definitely right! He isn't stable. In the beginning, he was a totally different person. Everyone loves him and thinks, he's a all around great guy. I just saw and experienced the dark side of him. I just can't tolerate it. How can I get him to back off?
He's exhibiting the signs of a man who is abusive.
The prince charming guy in the beginning, but then sudden changes of character. The constant criticizing. The constant downing of your family in hopes that he can isolate you from them so that he can have you all to himself. The "I love you's" 1 minute & the "You're a sl**t" the next minute. The invasion of your privacy. The downplaying & minimizing of his own bad behavior. The shrugged off excuse that you are just over-exaggerating when in fact you are right on the money. The disregard for your right to privacy & a heads up when he shows up unannounced. The sudden obsession of you the minute you're out of his sight & the minute he feels he's lost control.
Yep, all signs of someone who is abusive. Just b/c he hasn't gotten physical yet doesn't mean that it won't get to that point. Not trying to scare you. Just saying that these are the moments when women mess up b/c these are all red flags & warning bells! And if you don't take them seriously or acknowledge that these are even red flags to begin with, then you'll find yourself regretting your decision to go back to him years down the road when you've been used, hurt & abused.
I get that he may have started off as prince charming but so do most guys. Who the guy turns into when sh**t gets real is who they REALLY are. So pay attention & follow your instincts. If your instincts are telling you to run, then do so!
The prince charming guy in the beginning, but then sudden changes of character. The constant criticizing. The constant downing of your family in hopes that he can isolate you from them so that he can have you all to himself. The "I love you's" 1 minute & the "You're a sl**t" the next minute. The invasion of your privacy. The downplaying & minimizing of his own bad behavior. The shrugged off excuse that you are just over-exaggerating when in fact you are right on the money. The disregard for your right to privacy & a heads up when he shows up unannounced. The sudden obsession of you the minute you're out of his sight & the minute he feels he's lost control.
Yep, all signs of someone who is abusive. Just b/c he hasn't gotten physical yet doesn't mean that it won't get to that point. Not trying to scare you. Just saying that these are the moments when women mess up b/c these are all red flags & warning bells! And if you don't take them seriously or acknowledge that these are even red flags to begin with, then you'll find yourself regretting your decision to go back to him years down the road when you've been used, hurt & abused.
I get that he may have started off as prince charming but so do most guys. Who the guy turns into when sh**t gets real is who they REALLY are. So pay attention & follow your instincts. If your instincts are telling you to run, then do so!
Your problems with this guy are way beyond astrology honey
You need to run like hell!!! People will show you who they are & you do yourself a huge disservice when you refuse to believe it the 1st time!
RUN!
You need to run like hell!!! People will show you who they are & you do yourself a huge disservice when you refuse to believe it the 1st time!
RUN!
Posted by CluelessCancer
he sounds like a typical Virgo wtf, go on the virgo board, you just didn't have the patience to handle him, and he probably does love you, but virgos are critical breed.
totally misunderstood him.
...worst advice ever!
He clearly is an unstable, destructive guy. Just stay away from him.
Kryrenee7,
I thought the exact same thing when he first flipped, but I stayed in the relationship. It wasn't until I started feeling stressed being around him that I decided to leave well enough alone. You are right all of the signs are there. It doesn't matter what I say to him, he won't back off. That's the problem I'm dealing with now.
I thought the exact same thing when he first flipped, but I stayed in the relationship. It wasn't until I started feeling stressed being around him that I decided to leave well enough alone. You are right all of the signs are there. It doesn't matter what I say to him, he won't back off. That's the problem I'm dealing with now.
Posted by scorpioglitterPosted by CluelessCancer
he sounds like a typical Virgo wtf, go on the virgo board, you just didn't have the patience to handle him, and he probably does love you, but virgos are critical breed.
totally misunderstood him.
...worst advice ever!
He clearly is an unstable, destructive guy. Just stay away from him.click to expand
When I left two weeks ago, that was it for me. He just won't stay away from me and I truly don't want to get a restrainer order, but...
+1 krys and everyone that said leave....
Restraining order is something you should consider and tell your family, the men in your family should know about this deranged psycho so they can protect you.
I don't advocate violence at all but be prepared, I dunno if you pack heat but definitely consider pepper spray and a good ass whooping might be in order.
Restraining order is something you should consider and tell your family, the men in your family should know about this deranged psycho so they can protect you.
I don't advocate violence at all but be prepared, I dunno if you pack heat but definitely consider pepper spray and a good ass whooping might be in order.
Posted by tiki33
+1 krys and everyone that said leave....
Restraining order is something you should consider and tell your family, the men in your family should know about this deranged psycho so they can protect you.
I don't advocate violence at all but be prepared, I dunno if you pack heat but definitely consider pepper spray and a good ass whooping might be in order.
I agree, tell your friends and family...if he shows up at your door call someone or if you can stay at a friends house. If he realizes you have a support system he will probably back of.
Posted by scorpioglitterPosted by CluelessCancer
he sounds like a typical Virgo wtf, go on the virgo board, you just didn't have the patience to handle him, and he probably does love you, but virgos are critical breed.
totally misunderstood him.
...worst advice ever!
He clearly is an unstable, destructive guy. Just stay away from him.click to expand
Actually, CC has it right ... it is typical Virgo behavior, and she lacked the patience to handle him. He probably does love her.
I know Virgos well enough to know that they will indeed act like that .... IF .... they are being lead on. Though, your tongue says you are trying to get ride of him ... I doubt your honesty in that because a Virgo would rather clean a dirty toilet than be where they aren't wanted.
Posted by SUNARIES
I've actually been a lurker for a while and I've often enjoyed the post.
I've been dating a Virgo guy for about a six months.
Here, your tongue, which must be forked, is saying you've been lurking, which means you already know all about what is said on the Virgo board, about Virgos .... wait, unless, your tongue is now saying that in all that lurking you did, it was never on the Virgo board, even though you were dating one.
If a person were to hang out on the Virgo board, then this question would never have to be asked. So, this means one of two things ..... either you're lying, or you're lying.
It's time to stomp your foot and make the bitch leave.
Posted by SUNARIES
When I left two weeks ago, that was it for me. He just won't stay away from me and I truly don't want to get a restrainer order, but...
"but" what? You like the attention and drama?
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