virgo depression on libra man

Im in college, and have been dating a virgo girl for a year. Her family makes the pope look like a lazy sinner and has caused her to have that ol' crazy catholic guilt.So our sex life hurts tremendously whenever she visits her family for at least a week afterwards. Shes living with her family for the summer and I havent had sex in 2 months although I see her constantly because of it. Also she now has this feeling that shes worthless because her moms a cookiemonster. How do IO get her out of this funk. If your a virgo and you were being stifled to depression by your mother would there be anything your boyfreind could do?

Ive never had a better relationship in my life besides the sex thing and she really wants to work on it. I saw on here that virgos and libras dont match but I dont know all the ascensions and risings but we are very good together. Its ok to analyze all you want . I am cool with it. It bums me out that astrology says im supposed to be superficial and cheating and what not but it does nail her that shes an overplanner. Spontaneous to her is planning only a week ahead of time lol. But I love her alot alot and she tells me she wants to marry me so i think were doing fine.

Dude....its just a sit and wait, lotion and towel fest for you. Virgos are very critical probably the hardest on themselves.

A chicks relationship with her mom, especially a domineering one is depressing bc you always want to please the family.

I went to a Catholic high school and boy they are strict. I know its hard but think about the bigger things other than sex. Its her FAMILY and having sex before marriage is a sin. She is already mentioning marriage to you because of her Catholic guilt.

Shes not gonna feel good about herself completely till you put a ring on it IMO.

I mean, its what she has known and been taught all her life is to be a good Catholic.

Thats the brakes....I forsee plenty of masturbation in your future.

I like this side to gemtaur

O theres too much masturbation in my future to want to put on anyone. I am absolutely going to try and see if maybe adding more to my already awesome tactics at making sex with me the mind blowing, life changing experience it already islol will work. Although I feel like Ive been kind of trying that from the start maybe its a libra thing. Like theres lots of sweet talking, compliments, i love yous etc. that get thrown in there during when we do it. i dunno. Well I think your right If I try harder Ill come out stronger faster better smarter than ever before!

Well go right ahead and try the "lemme fuck your brains out routine" but the more dirty and mind blowing the sex, the guiltier she gonna feel.

But whatever works amigo.

Actually i got nervous cus what you said about her only wanting marriage cus she feels guilty. I even asked her if that was even a small factor in her wanting marriage. she said no and i trust her. But hey its not like she beleives in catholicism its she feels guilty for betraying her parents trust. But I really dont know what to do besides making it more enjoyable for her. Weve gone too see therapists.I dunno . If you have a better idea then this and I really dont wanna put a ring on her yet. please im not tryin to be an ass at all i really wanna know.