Virgo female needs help w Leo male

So. I have been dating a leo male for 2 months now. I will admit, he has knocked my socks off. When we are together everything is wonderful. We have been out together in public where he was very attentative, I have met his children (he even kissed me in front of his kids), he has jokes around about me being marriage material. but when we are apart I am the one always initiating conversation via text or phone call. We have a mutual friend who says he always is talking about me and likes me a lot but he sure doesn't act like it. Help!!!!!

stop initiating completely.

If he starts persuing, hes into you... if not then you have your answer.

Posted by Southboundon95
Thank you, I deleted his number so I couldn't text him. Although I usually only sent one or two messeges.

Good for you.. If/When he does text you again send only 1 response back at a time (like ping pong), a lot of men these days are overeager to paint women as obsessed and stalkers even if completely unwarranted.

Okay....I do appriciate your reply. After some research, this is a common complaint about leo men.

Posted by Southboundon95
Okay....I do appriciate your reply. After some research, this is a common complaint about leo men.

welcome!

Ive always been attracted to leo sun men (my 8th house). They are very flirtatious, I have had a hard time (in the past) deciphering what is real interest and what is not. They really are good at making you feel like they are into you in such a seductive way, and they are very good at it. Oftentimes they have a lot of female friends and are popular, good looking and fun so when they give you attention it can feel real and intense. But if you take a deeper look at the women they actually fall for (not a member of their harem) they usually take the lead, initiate and persue. If they stop at any point, you need to mirror that back by going silent. If he stopped initiating, he thinks he has you already and hes taking his hunt elsewhere because you've made things too easy for him by persuing. The worst thing you can do is persue when their is silence in the jungle. Cancer, aries women and to a lesser extent Libra women are very good with this. If your a fire sign, following your intuition/gut.

Once they choose their gf they keep the lady whos texting them on a string for attention and slowly portraying her as a stalker to convince the woman he is persuing (and to brag to their male friends about, ego trip).

I'm a Virgo

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by Southboundon95
Okay....I do appriciate your reply. After some research, this is a common complaint about leo men.

Most Leo men take the lead...which really all men should do in my opinion then there is no room for guessing. But there are other women who think some men are too shy to do this.

How do they make it in this world is a mystery?!?

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Ive seen quite a few men use the "shyness" as tactic so they don't have to step up to the plate and it works beautifully on a lot of women, virgo men are brilliant at this. They usually have more than several women persuing them at any given time. Ironically as they grow older they end up settling down with the women they persue when they are older and have matured. I don't think Leo men would last too long with this dynamic, they are to alpha.

LOL @ y'all trying to run game on a Leo male. He's already bored and y'all trying to find out if he's interested. Deleting the number of someone who don't text you first so you don't chase him.

I feel your pain . There's no consistency at all and if you're anything like me it drives me mad .

Chuck it in the fuck it bucket and move on . You can't win them all .

Girl, yeah! Leos love a chase! But then again idk about messing with the ebb and flow already set in a relationship.

My Virgo friend dated a Leo it was a mad drama! Lol they seemed to always be at each other's throats but then love making up and couldn't get enough of each other.

I dated a Leo.. I'm a Cancer. He was so hard to get to text me. But after awhile I learned that if I said something crazy, he would call me a.s.a.p. And then we'd laugh about me being crazy. Lol we had so much fun together. I mean.. We broke up..mostly due to long distance. But he was one of my favorites.

Also, my bro is a Leo and he is the worst about texting back.

Hope some of this helps 🙂