Hey Leo women why do you not like virgo men

I was just thinking about this in my life time I have had 3 Leo women hit on me and everything was cool and than out of no were they ask what my sign is and I say virgo. Than there face change and no more talking to me this has only happen with Leo women, so I want to know what's the deal. Give me the bad and the ugly I can take it_—_??

I don't think I've ever any Virgo gents, so I can't say specifically if I've had positive or negative experiences with them.

I do have a couple Virgo ladies in my life though, and while I really enjoy and respect them as friends, I couldn't imagine ever wanting to date them. Why? They tend to have a certain amount of nervous energy, and easily wound up. On the plus side they are very detail-oriented, but the down side to that is they can get so caught up in details they lose sight of the big picture. They care a lot about what other people think, which isn't always a bad thing either, but there is a lot of self-doubt I've found and it can take forever for a decision to be made.

I've never experienced any other negative aspects, and I seem to mellow them out, but I can't imagine wanting the nervous/wound up/stressed out energy in larger doses >.>

They nag too much. I know that virgos way of showing love is to critizise but Leo's don't like that. We are a very happy positive sign and we like people to be happy around us and show us love, not critizise. That kind of energy is something we stay away from. :/

Posted by capricornmoon
Too much negative energy, nagging, narcissistic sense of self, and just overall chaotic. I mean look on this forum alone, all the drama and chaos is with water and earth people, petty arguments and petty fights because they are negative minded signs, devoid of positivity and light. A virgo man will literally drain the sunshine out of Leo's.

Lol I can see that my ex wife is a virgo go figure lol very negative I'm not like that but some virgos I know are like that and they can be a pain lol even to me. You have a cap moon we can be friends I hav a cap moon thanks for the input.

Posted by UntamedLeo
I don't think I've ever any Virgo gents, so I can't say specifically if I've had positive or negative experiences with them.

I do have a couple Virgo ladies in my life though, and while I really enjoy and respect them as friends, I couldn't imagine ever wanting to date them. Why? They tend to have a certain amount of nervous energy, and easily wound up. On the plus side they are very detail-oriented, but the down side to that is they can get so caught up in details they lose sight of the big picture. They care a lot about what other people think, which isn't always a bad thing either, but there is a lot of self-doubt I've found and it can take forever for a decision to be made.

I've never experienced any other negative aspects, and I seem to mellow them out, but I can't imagine wanting the nervous/wound up/stressed out energy in larger doses >.>

I here people say that a lot but I could care less what people think of me.. But I do not
Iike people in my business maybe people take that as caring about what people think I don't know. Thanks for the input all the same. But I forgot to say that the Leo women objection to dating virgos was because they say they are crazy lol. I wanted to see if you guys thought the same way.

I'm a Leo.and my dad's a Virgo. I have a cappy moon, so I think that aspect sort of.diluted the Leo/Virgo tension. Bit it was definitely thete. He was nitpicky, and exacting. He was an engineer, and I was an artist. There were some things that just never gelled with us. He absolutely couldn't help me with my homework, and he constantly made me repeat chores that weren't done to his standards. But at other times, he was warm and caring, and he NEVER let me down. I was a daddy's girl, and we were extremely close. I still hear him repeating some of his "mantras" in my head when doing certain things. He infuriated me sometimes, and there were some real knock-down, drag out flights but as an adult now, the love and closeness is what remains.

Personally, I get on quite well with Virgos.

Though they are often critical, over-analytical, neat fanatics, they're pretty nice deep down.

The difficult part is having the patience to work your way past all the shizzle.

I'm not a Leo female, but a Leo who is extreamly into astrology seem to follow the fake relationship compatibility rule.

It's because the psyche of a Leo wants a perfect mate, and since the Internet told them Virgo isn't the perfect mate their psyche actually believed it without even trying.

Women seem to believe in astrology more then men period, and tend to fall for the sign compatibility more often. At least from what I've noticed.

I'll admit I'm no saint, and pass up conversations from earth and water signs constantly on okc. If she's an Aries, Scorpio, or Capricorn however its a whole other story.

call me crazy but when i meet a virgo especially a dude i am f u c k i n g PSYCHED

love you ViroKing

Leo's like praise and attention and you will critics them and purposely make them lower their expectations.

If your moon sign compliment eachother than it could work.

My venus is in virgo I nitpick and critique when I like a person lol but my Leo moon wants praise 😛

Posted by leolady89
call me crazy but when i meet a virgo especially a dude i am f u c k i n g PSYCHED

love you ViroKing

lol that's good to know lol I love you to how have you been

I love me some leooo... being a virgo, I don't give negative critique. I give lots of praise. Maybe it's my leo venus 🙂

Posted by virgoking

Posted by leolady89
call me crazy but when i meet a virgo especially a dude i am f u c k i n g PSYCHED

love you ViroKing

lol that's good to know lol I love you to how have you been

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sameo sameo baby. seeking attention. getting rejected.

Call me crazy too. There is a Virgo that I was quite interested in. He seemed very cool, but he won't let me in. I am not sure if he didn't really have interest and it was all game or if he does, but something keeps him from me.

From the time we met we connected so it seemed fairly easy. Next meeting I got a foot massage out the deal. Next meeting dance partner all night, even paid for a party that he knew I was going to. 1 good phone convo. And another meeting pretty much had his arm around me and seemed to enjoy my company. However, never went on a date. Won't call. I won't believe in the intimidation theory that some women like to throw out there. I am just going to go with he lost interest if there really was any. Can't explain it, but I won't let that turn me off from all Virgos.

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Posted by leolady89
call me crazy but when i meet a virgo especially a dude i am f u c k i n g PSYCHED

love you ViroKing

lol that's good to know lol I love you to how have you been

sameo sameo baby. seeking attention. getting rejected.

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Why do you think your getting rejected _??

Posted by capricornmoon
@virgoking, yea we can be friends., my dad is a Virgo., I know them inside and out but for intimate relationships? Hellll no...but for friendships,Virgo males have really good qualities.

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Posted by capricornmoon
@virgoking, yea we can be friends., my dad is a Virgo., I know them inside and out but for intimate relationships? Hellll no...but for friendships,Virgo males have really good qualities.

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You guys are too critical. Bruises our tender leo pride. Not the best for intimate relationships. :-)

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Posted by capricornmoon
@virgoking, yea we can be friends., my dad is a Virgo., I know them inside and out but for intimate relationships? Hellll no...but for friendships,Virgo males have really good qualities.

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why what did we dooooo_—_—_—

You guys are too critical. Bruises our tender leo pride. Not the best for intimate relationships. :-)

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See this is what I mean. I personally have never met a Virgo who was too critical or bruised anyone's pride.

They normally very down to earth, yet fun to socialize with. Maybe its my 1 degree Virgo merc, but I really like them and never feel threatened around on irl.

I'm not a leo, but maybe i can say my experience with virgo men.

my first guy is a virgo with many virgo placements and apparently i'm too easy for him and it turns out a disaster, i can only blame myself. lol. but from that experience/him, i learn alot and grow myself.

And then i met another guy, have some interest in him on our first meeting, but upon knowing he's a virgo, i step back. He's sweet but he wants something else. Has a virgo colleague, fun to be with but is super careful with his money(more towards stingy, but he's very willingly to teach.

So far those i came across are a charmer, but all have communication problems in some level and they will used you if you are weak. For me, nice friends to have, that's all.

Sorry if i shouldn't comment since i'm not leo. 🙂

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Posted by capricornmoon
@virgoking, yea we can be friends., my dad is a Virgo., I know them inside and out but for intimate relationships? Hellll no...but for friendships,Virgo males have really good qualities.

_—_—_—_—_—_—_—_—_—_—_—_—_—_—_—_—_—
why what did we dooooo_—_—_—

You guys are too critical. Bruises our tender leo pride. Not the best for intimate relationships. :-)

See this is what I mean. I personally have never met a Virgo who was too critical or bruised anyone's pride.

They normally very down to earth, yet fun to socialize with. Maybe its my 1 degree Virgo merc, but I really like them and never feel threatened around on irl.

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I'm only speaking from my own experience with the only person I know who is a Virgo. Not a romantic relationship, since it was my Dad, but I think 20+ years living with him taught me a lot about intimate relationships between Leos and Virgos. To others outside of the family, he was charming, incredibly intelligent, diplomatic, and many women found him very attractive. He was a great dad, always showed his love, and was a devoted husband. But he nearly drove my Gemini mom crazy, and he was so extremely nitpicky and stubborn (his way or the highway) that my adolescent years consisted of daily fights between him and me.

He had this way of letting you know that he loved you, but would be so much happier if you were his version of perfect. One of his mantras was, "if a job is worth doing, it's worth doing right". Not that I disagree (and it instilled in me the appeciation of hard work and attention to detail), but as a Leo kid, the lack of.appreciation for what I HAD done, even if it wasn't perfect, messed with my head in a big way. It was a rare thing for me to do a chore as simple as cleaning the dinner table and not have to redo it because a couple crumbs were left behind. He was never an asshole about it, but he just couldn't let it be "good enough".