Want my leo back

So was with a Leo for a month and a half. it was long distance. When we first got together it was amazing. He wanted exclusivity immediately. Was very serious about me and where the rship was going. He wanted marriage and that he would be happy for me to come and live with him as soon as i was able to go and see him again. He was jealous, asked me questions about what i did and who i was with. i understood his possessiveness, the distance made him more so insecure in a way. every morning when he woke he would message me immediately, then messaged me throughout the day. then in the last week he became more distant. messaging less and telling me less where he was and who with. he would wake up and i would see him online whatsapp for a few mins then disappear without reading my messages. then hour or two later message to say good morning. i felt like he was just drifting slowly. when i aired my concerns he listened and promised not to do it again and understood how i felt. but then continued the behavior. he would sometimes ask me for screenshots of my conversations on whatsapp as a way to feel secure about what i was doing. well the other day i asked him to screen shot his convos because i felt as though he was hiding something and that his erratic behavior was questionable. he snapped. said this isnt going to work and hes not screenshotting anything. he said if theres no trust then we cant be together and also that he doesnt want to fix the relationship. i tried calling him several times to talk it out. he blocks me and then goes on to reactivating his dating profile. out of some sort of desperation/hurt i tried to speak to him on other platforms apologizing, saying that ill change and just clinging on even harder. then for some reason and something i now regret i ask my friend to add him on one of the platforms and flirt to see what he does. he talks to her and tells her how hes looking to get married, asking her what her background is etc, asking what shes up to. this really cut and i screen shot the convo and sent it to him. got really emotional and asked how he could do that to me etc. he comes back and says this - stop humiliating yourself, dont you have any dignity? stop calling me im not bothered with you anymore. leave me alone.
i said - i have more dignity than you. i never lied or did anything behind your back. ill find someone whos more man than you. good bye

that was the last of the conversation. i feel what i did probably was an act of desperation but my feelings for him were deep. he always told me how i was his all, how he had strong feelings for me, how he wanted kids with me, how i was his heart etc. everything. he was so loving and adoring and i was exacrlt the same back.
my question - how do i get him back? please no judging, i just want him back.

i was definietely falling in love with him. he said he was falling in love too. said he would kill any person that hurt me etc. very protective. i dont know what happened. how he just switched.

He was playing you.

His M.O is to tell women what they want to hear. See what he did with your girlfriend, he was doing that with others as well.

I hope you didn't sleep with him when you met.

When things go from 0 to a 100 like that and then back to 0 so quickly, you have to question the sincerity of it all.

Learn from this. You'll be ok.

Posted by Gobshite
*smh*

So many classic Leo male red flags in the OP.

Threads like this really make me wonder about the human race...

what would you say the classic red flags are?

oh dear... why do you want someone like that back—

This is so depressing. For your sanity, you MUST forget him, he's a Liar, been lying from the beginning.

Leo men conquer their next quest.....he's a man and knows it! I was dating a Leo. Block him on FB, your phone, whatsapp, etc. When he knows you've done this....he will come back.

Again, like mentioned that is his MO (Method of Operation). Texting you when he wakes up. IF he were interested, he would have kept it up. If he were monogamous, he would have kept it up. If he informed his Little Black Book Dudettes he found someone, he would have kept it up. Guess what? He didn't keep it up. He lost interest...thus he is conquering his next quest.

Forget about him little one. I have! 🤗

Love,

Eva