Will Aquarius Man Come Back to Libra?

Hi everyone. So I dated an Aquarius man for almost 4 months. We broke up November 14. He broke up with me after a big fight. I was drunk during the fight. He stormed out of my house and texted me "have a nice life." Now, the kicker is we have known each other and been friends for a very long time. I know his family and friends well still. I did everything you are not supposed to do after a break up. I kept trying to get in touch with him by texting and calling. I texted horribly mean things first, then I apologized and begged we worked things out. I showed up at his house at one point, and he called the cops on me.

About the relationship. It was great! He always said he had never been so in love and so happy. This was confirmed by his family and friends. We only had 2 arguments prior, which were sorted out. Now, problems kind of arrived after his ex girlfriend started trying to contact him. With our time apart now, (I have not tried to contact him in about 4 weeks) I have realized he is not over the damage of what his ex did to him. He did talk horribly about her quite often. Problems did not exactly arrive, but that is when he started acting different and not as loving as he was in the beginning. He would tell me that me cooking dinner every night, folding his laundry as well as my own, or keeping his house clean was me trying too hard. This pissed me off, but I did not say or do anything. The initial fight was me bringing up his lack of attention. I know this is a mistake to do to an Aquarius, but boy have I learned. Now, I feel as though he took everything bad his ex did to him out on me. Maybe I scared him due to my truly loving him? I am not sure.

Anyway, after everything, and the few times he would reply to my texts it would be stuff like "yes it was supposed to work out but I just went through this, I cannot do it again...yes I still love you but not as a girlfriend." I told him I would stop drinking (which I have, I am not a fun drunk) and he said to call him when I get help with it. Before I went to his house, he said he was thinking of coming back around soon, but he needs another week. I still have received no form of communication from him. His mom had passed away in 2012 (which was horrible) and I have a picture of him, his mom, and his brother that I blew up, framed, and mailed to his house with a nice "Merry Christmas" note as a Christmas gift. He would have received it a few days ago and still nothing. I think I was at least hoping for "thank you" but nothing.

Did I completely blow it? Any chance he'll ever come back around? I am hoping he is taking this time to heal from what his ex did to him in the past. I do not feel like this is supposed to be over and I am hoping it is just a bump in the road.

Anyone?

Hellerrrr

Ahh come on guys I want some outside advice

He said he doesn’t see you as a girlfriend and he called the cops on you after you insisted.

Move on. I don’t think this is going anywhere.

Posted by BathHouseCulture

4 months isn’t long enough for Aquarius to develop lasting bonds.

What’s his mars and moon and yours? I can extend more with the data.

Hello. My moon as well as his is Aries. My Mars is libra his is cap

He would tell me that me cooking dinner every night, folding his laundry as well as my own, or keeping his house clean was me trying too hard.

Instead of getting "pissed off" I would have said with a smile, "You're WELCOME!" A little too late, but your anger got the best of you (a Libra trait).

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva