Its not what u think.. are u that girl that has tons of guy friends, you get along better with the fellas socially, than the girls? Yet with all the male buddy's u have, thats just it they are all just pals, not lovers... Do u joke with them sexually,and take it to the next level as far as u can, but yet they never cross that line.? Do u feel like wow, Im great enuff to be their pal, and we are close, share a lot of things together.. But romantically it never seems to happen, or its avoided. I understand on some level, as I have lost some of these friendships after they became romantic, and some we are arch enemies and don't speak to each other to this day. Its disappointing after haven been such good friends. the worst is when ur pal is attached, and u wanna be with him in some way, but it doesnt happen, but yet your so very close. Is being the good gal pal, second best or the runner up prize..If your so great to be their pal, then why cant u be their gal. Can anyone relate, or share guidance on this..God Bless..
