Help..Gemini/scorpio

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Kygo
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8 Years

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Hi this may be long but just need abit of help and what you think.

So I'm a Scorpio - Aquarius moon - Gemini rising and my boyfriend off over 1 year is a Gemini.. he recently finished me out of the blue and got very emotional when tried doing so.. we decided to give the relationship another go the very next day and now it seems he has a guard up now.. the reasons we split is this....please tell me what you think...

So my boyfriend is one of the most generous/loving/sweet guy you will ever meet...to the point he told me he loved me 3 months into the relationship.. he took me to Dubai and paid for everything for my birthday..he's took me to festivals.. meals..long weekends away etc.. he's a very happy go lucky type of guy.. will cry when I'm feeling low also perks me up and makes me feel better.. I've met all his family and friends.. and he seems to surprise me with all the things I want to do.. I have a bucket list and it's all most like he wants to help me achieve them and some of them he has! He works away a lot and he's been hurt in the past by girlfriends who have just up and left him or cheated on him.. and he's been single for 3 years before me where he became very depressed.. then he met me and I seemed of brought happiness in his life... now there's me.. I too have been hurt pretty badly in previous relationships.. and have a hard time trusting people.. and tend to over think... when my boyfriend works away...I tend to get a little down and start to let of abit of stress and start to re-think the relationship and wether it's worth being in it.. works away (2weeks/comes back for weekend and gone again for 2) and sometimes I have talked to him about this and he gets very scared.. almost starts to cry.. as if I'm going to leave him...I'm not I just have my moments.. anyway I tend to do this every now and again.. and his job is very stressful also.. when he finished me out of the blue...he told me he couldn't cope with it all.. was very emotional and highly stressed out.. we are back together now... but what do you guys make of this.. how he is? You think I should trust him and support him? Do you think he loves me a lot? I self doubt a lot too..and I do tend to need reassurance abit. Any help?
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Kygo
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8 Years

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A 7 year relationship before my now boyfriend ended very ugly.. cheating rumours, then it all came to light he had cheated twice and really messed me up.. around 3 months later I met my now boyfriend and he took me on a whirlwind of love and excitement..the problem for me is when he works away.. he works on different jobs and he's asked repeatedly to trust him 100% because he's not that sort of person.. but when I have my low days he has this feeling I'm going to end the relationship because I'm either feeling down or lonely.. but when we are together everything is absolutely fine.. his job is very stressful and he has to make deadlines and has massive pressure.. and will survive in 4 hours sleep.. and then I'm putting thoughts into his head.. pretty rough