help need to understand

I have been talking to an Aries man for some months, we have this great connection and get along really well. We laugh at the same things. he has always been the one to say hello first in the morning and not a day would go by that we wouldnt talk. So lately I had been wanting to ask where things were going etc. So i had a birthday party at the weekend where he bought me chocolate and red roses and in the card he gave me wrote "you have been an awesome addition in my life this year". I mean hello.
however as the night went on i drank a lot and when he was leaving he offered a lift to a lady which I got extremely jealous of. in my drunken and now emotional state I sent a msg to say he should delete my number and anything to do with me and that I really liked him but i couldnt deal with women like the one who hopped into his car. His response that morning was "where is all this coming from? we have never discussed any of this". I didnt reply the whole day until the following night when to be fair I had overcome my cringing and tried to explain to him where is was coming from. Well that was now 2 days ago and he hasnt replied nor called nothing. I have been frozen out. Now I am trying to understand him. Im not sure if I hurt him or made him angry in any way. and what should I do?

@ Op- Aries do have lots of female friends and are nice like that, or he has VIG...

You only been with him a few months... To him that is a major red flag as now he thinks your jealous over tha... and you shouldn't be because he is a social bee....

Did your guy say you were official? They expect people to just trust them..and be loyal to them....

Did he offer you a ride first?

But seems to me you have to have lots of trust and confidence and no insecurities..