jealousy

what's your op? people are jealous because they are insecure or cause they have a good reason for that?I'm thinking of jealousy in relationships.My ex always accused me for being jealous on other women,but I was right about that because I later found out that he cheated on me.My husband was jealous in his former relations,how he explained to me,because those girls loved to provoke him with other men.When we started a relationship,after a while,I asked him is he jealous.He answered me "No,cause you aren't giving me reason for being jealous"

Posted by blackphase
I tend to agree with what you are saying. I am an insecure person, which leads me to become jealous easily if I feel that my partners interest has shifted elsewhere or if he were to give an abundance of attention to another female. If I can trust someone and know how they feel about me without a doubt (like you said about your husbands response, No, cause you aren't give me reason to be jealous) then the jealous feelings don't arise all that often, if at all.

i agree. for me personally it has a lot to do with my so's behavior and whether they themselves are behaving in a way to attract unwarranted attention to themselves. if they are naturally flirtatious or entertain the flirtatious behavior of another woman. if they are secretive and perhaps in a really sadistic way enjoy a bout of jealousy from you. if my partner has good character and would do what they can in their power not to entertain another womans advances in any way then i would have no reason to be jealous even if they get attention, as long as they do nothing about it.

Without trust there is no relationship..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Without trust there is no relationship..

Nice!
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Posted by blackphase
I tend to agree with what you are saying. I am an insecure person, which leads me to become jealous easily if I feel that my partners interest has shifted elsewhere or if he were to give an abundance of attention to another female. If I can trust someone and know how they feel about me without a doubt (like you said about your husbands response, No, cause you aren't give me reason to be jealous) then the jealous feelings don't arise all that often, if at all.

I was jealous not because I an an insecure person,but because his behaviour was wrong!He was hurting me flirting with other women..if he really loved me,than he wouldn't do that.

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Posted by blackphase
I tend to agree with what you are saying. I am an insecure person, which leads me to become jealous easily if I feel that my partners interest has shifted elsewhere or if he were to give an abundance of attention to another female. If I can trust someone and know how they feel about me without a doubt (like you said about your husbands response, No, cause you aren't give me reason to be jealous) then the jealous feelings don't arise all that often, if at all.

i agree. for me personally it has a lot to do with my so's behavior and whether they themselves are behaving in a way to attract unwarranted attention to themselves. if they are naturally flirtatious or entertain the flirtatious behavior of another woman. if they are secretive and perhaps in a really sadistic way enjoy a bout of jealousy from you. if my partner has good character and would do what they can in their power not to entertain another womans advances in any way then i would have no reason to be jealous even if they get attention, as long as they do nothing about it.

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true!!

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Posted by blackphase
I tend to agree with what you are saying. I am an insecure person, which leads me to become jealous easily if I feel that my partners interest has shifted elsewhere or if he were to give an abundance of attention to another female. If I can trust someone and know how they feel about me without a doubt (like you said about your husbands response, No, cause you aren't give me reason to be jealous) then the jealous feelings don't arise all that often, if at all.

I was jealous not because I an an insecure person,but because his behaviour was wrong!He was hurting me flirting with other women..if he really loved me,than he wouldn't do that.

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I mean,he was doing that because oh my God,he needed the attention so much,like I wasn't giving it at all!!! Ego,ego...and a litlle more ego ...

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I also have never been jealous without a reason. Every time I have became jealous, I have found out sooner or later that something was up.

Isn't that inevitable? One is logical follow-through from the other.

Yes, but I just hate it when a guy tells me I'm being jealous without a reason and then I find out that my instincts (the red flags I saw) were true.

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Couldn't agree more!!!!!

Oh yeah that gut feeling I often let go because I give chances because no on is perfect but damn it's too much energy and effort wasting away but opens up new experiences and what is acceptable or not.