Ladies : The key to finding your MAN~

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flygyrllchi
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You want to know the key to finding your man ladies?

LOve yourself, fight to find out all your greatest attributes, when you do that you will attract the man that reflects that and reject those that contradict that. Also, focus on what you dislike in relationships or in a man and that will reveal the answer to what you are looking for and what u desire..
If there's one thing I can say, know yourself, love yourself and fight to know what the good things are about yourself, and there will be yours truly ~=
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Totally in agreement with you flygyrllchi when you say one needs to love self first. Reminds me of that very famous Socrates quote, "Know thyself."

I, however do disagree with your statement, "focus on what you dislike in relationships or in a man." Reason being....what we focus on we attract to us. For us to attract what we desire, we must focus on the qualities that we desire in a man.

Happy Attracting!😉
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No , you misunderstood ~ I understand the law of attraction but I think you had a moment of what they call "garble" you took the one word focus and took it out of context. What I mean is , know what you do not want , know that , and you will find out what you want. Dr Phill even says that, I just realized it's true. It's kind of hard to accpet that statement in the beginning, it was for me too in the beginning because of my awareness of the law of attraction. But love yourself, find out what your good qualities are and find out what you dislike in relationships what you dislike and there will be the man of your dreams. Why, because if you know what you dislike , you will soon find out what you do like=
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Well that's real M lady, glad you cleared that up. I feel that, " the right man will attract to you" I feel that, me and you are two singles of one kind, I mean two of the same kind. lol jk . I am a firm believer in being who the hell I be. I really dislike the whole little expectation of women having to change and conform and be manipulated. The bible reads" a wife is a gift to the man" " A woman is far beyond rubies" People, especially these bitch as men and especially these women have forgotten that a woman is the prize, not to say that the man isn't special , ooooh , i love the male gender, i love em , just love em. But if a womn focuses on her good attributes and loving herself as well as being who she is , not allowing herself to fall into traps of manipulation, there Mr. Right will be>>>
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I feel that fox girl, that is true, let your respect grow...>> Men have it so twisted these days , thinking that it's all about them. Thinking that the woman is supposed to jock them and cater to them.. Men have it all twisted. I told myself , " never agian". Yeah I believe that sex does complicate things as well. Hold off will ya , if you can. Back in the days men use to court a woman, now they only send flowers for special occassions. Just look at all the info out today on how to get a man and keep 'em, look at the bottom of the page and you'll see all the advertisements. It's like women are the hunters now days. I feel ya though, respect and grow and you wil most certainly attract what you need... I feel that