Hi, I'm "involved" with a Gemini. Once, after we'd been together, he told me, "I am thoroughly enjoying myself. We've done everything; there's nothing left." When I told him that that (i.e., nothing left to do) was boring, he said there were a few more things (left to do?) but wouldn't tell me what he meant. He clammed up entirely. I told him we could go through the Kama Sutra but he said that was small potatoes. I asked him twice to explain what he meant, but he wouldn't tell me. Anyone have any ideas about this?
Maybe he is thinking a bit more "kinky"... Would explain the "small potatoes" comment, as well as him clamming up when you asked him to elaborate. Maybe he just doesn't quite feel comfortable enough with you to suggest the "kinkier" stuff and doesn't quite know how you will respond...
If you are interested in those kind of things, you might try taking the initiative by suggesting something moderately kinky (along that line of what you would be open to) and gauging his reaction. Also, there is always fulfilling each others fantasies... Perhaps you can suggest one of yours and have him suggest one of his. It might help to see where his sexual interests lie... He will probably suggest something mild (even if he isn't into something kinky), if you haven't discussed each others fantasies before, merely because most people like to start "slowly" instead of jumping right into their "true" fantasies. But, atleast it will give you a little better look inside his head and where the two of you might want to go in the future.
That being said, it is boring having done everything already?!? One, I tend to think that there is always something new (christening every piece of furniture in your house and every room, public/semi-public places, toys?!?, etc.). Two, I don't know...I just tend to see the other stuff as garnish. It is fun and changes things up, but it isn't the meal... To me, variety can be fun, but it is the substance behind it (no pun intended) that keeps me coming back again and again (and again and again and again and again and again...). If you can get so easily bored having done everything already, perhaps that is indicative of something more...?
^^^^ - Just to clarify, I was referring to Libras being my kind of men for the adult shop part, not the begging part. Though...begging could be fun, too...on rare occasions.
I'm "involved" with a Gemini. Once, after we'd been together, he told me, "I am thoroughly enjoying myself. We've done everything; there's nothing left." When I told him that that (i.e., nothing left to do) was boring, he said there were a few more things (left to do?) but wouldn't tell me what he meant. He clammed up entirely. I told him we could go through the Kama Sutra but he said that was small potatoes. I asked him twice to explain what he meant, but he wouldn't tell me.
Anyone have any ideas about this?