Two Tauruses adults. Why?

Profile picture of Gemitati
Gemitati
@Gemitati
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 2057 · Posts: 38091 · Topics: 1026
Just want to tell you.
I had introduces 2 people and on the first and only date
all seemed fine.
He is 57 and she is 53.

He took her to Dunkin Donuts...(no comments).

After date he kissed her on the cheek and disappeared.

After about 2 month she is still asking me what had happened.
Why didn't he ever contacted her and he won't tell me.

2 days ago I spoke with her and she is still wondering what went
wrong. I had nothing to say.

I saw him yesterday and he asked me to introduce him to
someone else. I almost said 'you've embarrassed me enough'.
Meaning DD date.

I asked him why? He said 'she is not for me. I don't want to tell.'
---------------------------------

I am wondering why can't man just find a way to tell woman he is not into her.
Especially when there was nothing between them.
Is there way to break it to a woman - I am not interested without hurting her feelings?

And how is that mature person can dwell for 2 month on
'what have I done wrong' after just one date? I would be pissed!

I know heart is a muscle but can it be trained?
------------------------------

Also they both are good looking people. She is somewhat into herself.
Could he sense that and hate it?
Profile picture of VenusStar
VenusStar
@VenusStar
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 59 · Posts: 1755 · Topics: 94
Posted by Gemitati
Just want to tell you.
I had introduces 2 people and on the first and only date
all seemed fine.
He is 57 and she is 53.

He took her to Dunkin Donuts...(no comments).

After date he kissed her on the cheek and disappeared.

After about 2 month she is still asking me what had happened.
Why didn't he ever contacted her and he won't tell me.

2 days ago I spoke with her and she is still wondering what went
wrong. I had nothing to say.

I saw him yesterday and he asked me to introduce him to
someone else. I almost said 'you've embarrassed me enough'.
Meaning DD date.

I asked him why? He said 'she is not for me. I don't want to tell.'
---------------------------------

I am wondering why can't man just find a way to tell woman he is not into her.
Especially when there was nothing between them.
Is there way to break it to a woman - I am not interested without hurting her feelings?

And how is that mature person can dwell for 2 month on
'what have I done wrong' after just one date? I would be pissed!

I know heart is a muscle but can it be trained?
------------------------------

Also they both are good looking people. She is somewhat into herself.
Could he sense that and hate it?

It was one date. It would be nice if he told her but he owes her nothing. He might be looking for someone slight beyond his league. Guys always do. He want a 35 -45 year old with an enthusiastic personality.