Taurus is Frustating Me!

I guess I should have told him I was ready because I believe this is common of cancers in my experience. If we offer help we will show up without asking again. So I expect that out of others.

But I saw him with her again at lunch and now I think they are a couple. She was seating so close to him...too close.

Posted by InTheCloud
I guess I should have told him I was ready because I believe this is common of cancers in my experience. If we offer help we will show up without asking again. So I expect that out of others.

But I saw him with her again at lunch and now I think they are a couple. She was seating so close to him...too close.

Lol

A closed mouth doesn't get fed often, so when that happens. Everyone shuts down communication and it's a standstill of compromise, adapting, and then eventually pros and cons need to be evaluated by me or the other.. if no communication.. I need and thrive on communication mostly.

It's harder for Taurus to stay around and trying to work out shit.. I have an air moon but a earth Venus, so I need to see alot of compromise, time, and effort. Because well I can be extremely picky, critical, stubborn and detach. If I keep detaching more and more. The more distance I get to analyze everything.. it's more likely not going to work..

I am a Taurus Sun/Gemini Moon.

Open communication and consistency means everything.
I am not always emotionally intuitive, I can be quite aloof and easily distracted, actually.
Especially if the level of verbal communication AND consistency isn't apprarent.
I will always seek greener pastures once I am distracted.
It can be something as subtle as a smile, a laugh..and I am a total sucker for intellectual conversations.
If this offer is on the table from someone else, then the initial person no longer has my interest.

Although this appears insensitive on the surface, it's not what it appears to be on the inside.
Although we love hard, we will abandon a sinking ship abruptly with immediate prejudgement and no clarification.
Call it a defense mechanism, the only way to get over you, is to rationalize whatever it is I'm feeling.
To sit on wasted emotions is a huge sign of weakness, it cripples you, and prevents you from selfishly enjoying someone else.

A Leo Moon wants to be admired, adored and worshipped.
Well, the Lion will have to meet the Twins somewhere in the middle.
Which means the Lion will have to tame the first twin long enough to hold their interest (communication)
...The second twin with consistencyand the promise of longevity.

Do this, and the Gem Moon will think you're the best thing to come along since Moonshine!

Something tells me that you were 'mum' this entire time, expecting to be chased, and to be the only woman who held his interest.

Note: A person who doesn't belong to you can't frustrate you. Open your mouth and solidify your position 1st!

@scorpio19- You should know if a Taurus likes you I tend to just sit back and watch you like a hawk, I also watch your behavior, and when we're on the phone the vibes you portray can be picked up as irrational..I can sense things through your voice...if you have social media be professional about it too.

@InTheCloud- that's advice for you too.. how is your situation?

The Taurus forum has taken the cancer route as of late....

@Hemispheres- And whose forum is preferred then?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Hemispheres- And whose forum is preferred then?

I'm talking about how all the cancers are horrible threads died put and now the my taurus us distant/ignoring me threads are popping up.

Taurus is the new whiners shrine.

@Hemispheres- Haha we don't whine hun you got us twisted. :-) Yeah silence is grand. Haha. Oh congratulations on some noms. You are funny and crazy...

I didn't say Taurus whines... I said the Taurus subforum is the new place to whine.

To be honest I realized even if he is into me my crabby ways are really getting in the way. Because I will say hello one moment and then the next time I see him I just flatout ignore him. As stated by another poster i do prefer being chased to doing the chasing, but I come off super aloof to guys who like me that I like in return.

Part of me wants to stay away because I suspect he is with her and the other part just wants to push through just in case I was reading the situation wrong. Like I said I have never seen them act romantically towards each other. But I have seen them be playful with one another. Because it is a proffessional environment they maybe just keeping things low. If not for the facebook page of the other co worker I would have dismissed any romantic relationship between them due to how they are towards each other.

Who knows, I am seldom sent to his department...so we really do not get to see each other as much.

it sounds like you have a crush and from that have inferred all types of things.

are you friends with him? why not trying to be friends and see how things go from there. you might find he is not the person you imagined, or that he is not in a relationship with your co-worker or that he doesn't have feelings for you. you're running yourself ragged with lots of assumptions and it is before you've even had a chance to get to know him. one step at a time.

So an update...i did discover from another coworker they are indeed a couple and another intresting twist. And how that might have affected his interactions with me...