Virgo man Aries Women, please help

I need some advice with my Virgo. We have been together for 2 1/2 years and they have been some of the best years of my life however, he has recently told me that he is unhappy because we cannot spend more time together. Backing up a few years, I have three teenage kids from a previous relationship where their father past away. I am truly a single parent with a lot of responsibility. Due to my responsibilities, I am only able to spend one day a week with my Virgo and it is hard on both of us but I thought we both had the mindset that we will be patient and strong because the kids will be all grown in 4 years. I thought we had the same mindset until recently he told me he was unhappy and needed space to figure out what to do with our relationship. It has been a week and we have talk very little. Yesterday, he told me that it was unfair to me to be waiting on him and I should move on until he figures this out. He goes on and on how much he loves me and if I wasn't so amazing this would be a lot easier. He also said doing what he needs to do in order to see me more he fears might make him more unhappy. I struggled with his decision all night and woke up this to go for a run and clear my head. In my run I got clarity and sent him a text that I was ready to move on. I told him that there were things at his place that I needed and to put in his mailbox so I can pick them up. When I got there he had all my things in a bag in his mailbox along with a golf ball that he wrote he loves me. I am so confused, why did he put the goofball in the bag? If he really loves me like he says, why would he let me go? Please someone help. I am hurting just waiting for him but I know myself well enough that when I let go and get over him there will be no turning back. Once my heart has been broken and I become numb from it, I will never see him the same. I don't know if I should let him go or hang on because he might be back.

He could say the same thing about you. Why didn't she fight for us? He asked you for space you went for a jog then after 2 1/2 years you TEXTED HIM, your break-up decision.Wow, that was brutal girl, and usually I love my Aries sisters, but wow! If I were him I would have fallen to my knees and cried. I am confused by your confusion. How would you feel if someone texted you a break-up?

In addition It appears that at one time the arrangements worked out, but almost 3 years later he recognizes his needs in an intimate relationship are different. His needs have changed, he doesn't have 3 teenagers, he wants a different experience, after close to 3 years his feelings did not grow to want to make a commitment and the circumstances are no longer favorable or conducive for him.He put space out there to see if you could step up to the plate, You can't squeeze a night or hour or two in outside of once a week. To ask a single man to be monogamous to a once a week romance is a little selfish. He readily backed your belongings without fighting for you because he needs more, your circumstances haven't changed, he's been thinking about this for a long time and your heartless text helped him to sever the ties. I would say he does love you, but there wasn't enough compatibility to further the relationship to marriage.

As stated on the Virgo board to this same thread ...... you and him are/were just fuck buddies.

Now, he's ready for someone of substance, so he has to break up with you .. he certainly cannot find a good woman with you hanging around, wanting to fuck once a week.

I dont think virgo-aries work.

Just an opinion. If you want him back, improve yourself. Work on the things that he isn't happy with, that you also know need work. Don't pressure him. Don't say you need want or beg him. Be reassuring that you care about him, if he needs it. But just work on you. Why, do you feel the need to move on? Work on yourself.f It would be silly if yo started seeing other people right after, that looks desperate and easy.