ADVICE FOR A TAURUS DATING/FWB SAGGITARIUS

So we met and he swept me off my feet then backed out and said he wasn't ready for a relationship but would like to stay friends. I don't stay friends with my exes but considering that I've always been this way I thought maybe it's time change my ways. I didn't talk to him for a week and went on my business. Then he text me and said he doesn't like to change sex partners and would like to continue having sex (now I know this may have been what he wanted all along but since I know Skaggs move slowly I accepted it well not really but I'm working on it). Anyway or sex life is awesome but I'm falling so I try to keep my emotions in check by not seeing him too often though I would like to everyday. What I notice is when I don't see him for too long he starts to behave as if he is moving on and posting memes about going back to being a bachelor and inbox him and blah blah blah. But when I see him his posts are normal for a few days. It's like he wants me to be jealous or he wants to to chase him.... And I don't chase but I do text when I can't take it anymore and he comes over everytime I ask no problem. Also when we are together he acts like we are together but we're not and I try not to read into it. Can I get some advice I'm lost about giving this up or continuing. I love hanging with him but I've never done fwb or friends with an ex before.

Him dec 18, 1982
Me may 1, 1984

Oh and the reason I chose fwb is because I'm too busy for a boyfriend right now plus no one understands my lifestyle (in the entertainment industry) and how busy I get and we both have the same line of work. I know telling him I'm falling will drive him away so I act as if it's not affecting me. Also everytime we meet up he's doing more and more things differently to make me always think about not leaving. Like he's trying to keep me wanting him. It's weird but it feels like that.

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Posted by Shaniajam
So we met and he swept me off my feet then backed out and said he wasn't ready for a relationship but would like to stay friends. I don't stay friends with my exes but considering that I've always been this way I thought maybe it's time change my ways. I didn't talk to him for a week and went on my business. Then he text me and said he doesn't like to change sex partners and would like to continue having sex (now I know this may have been what he wanted all along but since I know Skaggs move slowly I accepted it well not really but I'm working on it). Anyway or sex life is awesome but I'm falling so I try to keep my emotions in check by not seeing him too often though I would like to everyday. What I notice is when I don't see him for too long he starts to behave as if he is moving on and posting memes about going back to being a bachelor and inbox him and blah blah blah. But when I see him his posts are normal for a few days. It's like he wants me to be jealous or he wants to to chase him.... And I don't chase but I do text when I can't take it anymore and he comes over everytime I ask no problem. Also when we are together he acts like we are together but we're not and I try not to read into it. Can I get some advice I'm lost about giving this up or continuing. I love hanging with him but I've never done fwb or friends with an ex before.

Him dec 18, 1982
Me may 1, 1984

sagittarius move fast taurus moves slow he's probably playing with you sagittarius just have sex for the excitement you should not believe everything he says because sagg men don't care as long as they get what they want it's just sometimes they want something and do everything for it unless it's too easy but again when it's too hard they move on to someone else quickly

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Yeah I kind of figured. I hate feeling unstable in my brain. And this is starting to weigh on me. Which means I'm doing something wrong mostly. Thanks for this

Oh and both of our moon is in Taurus. I thought he would be thinking like me... But now I'm lost

Posted by DwellingOnMove
I'm busy with thinking why men become bosses and women rarely.

Whaaaa? Lol

Posted by dewiklaessen1991

Posted by Shaniajam
Oh and both of our moon is in Taurus. I thought he would be thinking like me... But now I'm lost

http://www.librarising.com/astrology/tables/planettable.html look here you can find out all the planets

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Not very good at the degrees so can you help me with that link? Only know about moon Venus and Mars pertaining relationships

Posted by dewiklaessen1991
His Moon Aquarius Mercury Capricorn Venus Capricorn Mars Aquarius

With these placements i can see this man is very free and is picky when it comes to love he doesn't want his ego to get hurt
He can be a selfish lover and think alot about status and money most of the tim busy and you'll probably have endless discussions with

Yours Moon Taurus Mercury Aries Venus Aries Mars Scorpio


It's not bad the placements but you might get bored over time because he can come off as shallow and too down to earth you can have great conversations with him but you'll probably approach him more then he does

Thank you! This helped a lot.

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Posted by Shaniajam
So we met and he swept me off my feet then backed out and said he wasn't ready for a relationship but would like to stay friends. I don't stay friends with my exes but considering that I've always been this way I thought maybe it's time change my ways. I didn't talk to him for a week and went on my business. Then he text me and said he doesn't like to change sex partners and would like to continue having sex (now I know this may have been what he wanted all along but since I know Skaggs move slowly I accepted it well not really but I'm working on it). Anyway or sex life is awesome but I'm falling so I try to keep my emotions in check by not seeing him too often though I would like to everyday. What I notice is when I don't see him for too long he starts to behave as if he is moving on and posting memes about going back to being a bachelor and inbox him and blah blah blah. But when I see him his posts are normal for a few days. It's like he wants me to be jealous or he wants to to chase him.... And I don't chase but I do text when I can't take it anymore and he comes over everytime I ask no problem. Also when we are together he acts like we are together but we're not and I try not to read into it. Can I get some advice I'm lost about giving this up or continuing. I love hanging with him but I've never done fwb or friends with an ex before.

Him dec 18, 1982
Me may 1, 1984

U should never have done an FWB in the first place! U should have stuck to your intuition which told you that you would not have coped with one in the first place and kept it moving .. Now here you are!!!

I suggest you cut the FWB!! Give yourself some distance from him until you no longer have any kind of feelings for him and then go back to have a non sexual relationship with him ! If you can't do this!! Amputate !!!

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No matter how Blunt you be I must you give some good advice. Thank you.

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Hahaha...

Posted by sagiluv
Sag men! Those men are something else... Right now my ex who is. Sag came back and wants to hang out. I'm persistent about not seeing eachother & asking him to move on...! Especially because I'm already with the man I love a libra. He even invited me just for coffee to ensure I know that it's not a sexual encounter. But knowing this man, it will turn to that because sag men are all about getting what they want. I don't want what he wants. So be careful with your sag man. He seems as if he only wants sex but no commitment yet. He sounds as if he wants attention like most sag men. They love to speak clearly so be clear with him and I'm sure he will also be clear with you, most of us sags are!

Thank you. Just to update yesterday I was cramping... I had my monthly and he came by and massaged me and didn't ask for nothing in return and even stayed and talked deeply... Then today a post about well I'm still single I ain't on no in a relationship diet blah blah blah... I'm so happy that I pulled away the last time cause when he realized I was he came running back. I'm not playing this game. This whole week I intend to be busy not answer any texts and not reach out and just do me. I'm not feeding Into this. It seems he had feelings for me yet he doesn't want to be committed and that's not what I'm about, I got myself in this mess and I'm gonna get myself out. He wants friends and that's fine. I'm just reminding myself that until he says this is a committed relationship then I should act otherwise and stop looking for things that aren't spelled out.