Sag falling for a Taurus Man

I'm very confused. We met online about a year and a half ago. I'm 35 sag female he's 29 Taurus male. We met in person short after we hung out and have been friends all this time. We hooked up 2x but that's all it was and I don't like the thought of being someones piece of ass. He knows that and respects that. I tried because I wanted to please him. But now I have told myself I will not put out unless I am his girl. So we just hang out and chill and texts have been more frequently lately. With honey,sweetie, and ma. He is always touching the top of my leg and running his hands down my hair. He even changed my brakes on my car. He knows my favorite song and remembers everything I tell him. He says I'm a damn good friend and he appreciates me. He has a BM whom he lives with but he always cheating on her. And I live with my abusive BD. When I met him he told me his name and just last week he asked if I knew his real name and he told me. Which was a big shock, I had no idea. He has recently opened up to me and has showed me pics of his kids. I am not going to be the other woman. I have to much self worth and class.

I have always liked him but in all this time I'm falling for him. I think about him all day. I know zodiac signs say we aren't compatible but I have to disagree we have so much in common and when we are together we relieve each others stress and have never had any problems.
My question is, am I gonna stay in the friend zone forever or is he starting to care for me a lil more day By day too?? Please help me.,.

Hm I'm Taurus female with too many encounters with Sagittarius male.. too much I have let go and to satisfy them. Some are good, some have lots of fans, and I happen to attract them.. so it's usually just sexual, but they do communicate more and are honest..I want it two sided not one.

I love Sags and am with one. Compatibility often depends on a lot of other areas of the chart as well. In my case, my Sag has a ton of Cap, which makes her just boring enough for a Taurus...lol. You are both in a bad situation though. Both apparently with people you don't really love, or that don't really love you, and have kids with them at that. Your connection with each other is probably to express and receive the love you don't have/get with your partners. With kids in the situation, ideally you could try to rekindle with your current SO's. If you have given up all hope on that, you are probably kinda screwed, bc it seems unlikely the bull will leave his SO, even if he cheats. Cheating bulls seem to at least have a level of "loyalty" where they won't actually *leave* the person they are cheating on....as lame as that is.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
Id seriously make h walk the line and do right by his "bm" before even considering being with him.. but you've already crossed those boundaries.

Tread carefully.

Really depends on the nature of their arrangement, but if his BM really is under the impression that they are together in a committed relationship, and he is doing this? How could you ever trust him? This is who he is....

Thanks for the input. I am not going to have anything other than platonic relationship with him. If he ends up leaving her maybe there could be something. But I would never ask or imply. I'm not a home wrecker if its meant to be it will be and I want to do it the right way.

And to the ass who said I'm a dumb bimbo... You don't know me

Posted by Curiousram
taurus males are not known to settle down properly. One person isn't enough for them to love.

Except that....when your dad cheated all those times, he was acting like an Aries, with his Venus in Aries and all....lol.

Don't make the reputation of every bull suffer, just because the Universe used your dad to teach you which Aries traits were wise to avoid in life....lol. I don't mean to offend; just being blunt with my Merc in Aries....🙂

Interesting. I guess everyone missed that she is cheating on and lives with her BD "Baby Daddy" as well. Why expect him to commit and make all these changes when the OP won't be held to the same standard?

Yea I don't know why the both of them think about being with each other if they are taken already.. BD and BM.. Unless the both are into open relationships and every one is okay with that..