There's this boy i know who liked me last year, he told all my friends but was too shy to tell me, on one weekend alone and with some other friends he gives me all these signs and he even kisses me a couple times but dosen't tell me then the next day his friends say something and he starts acting shady like he don't like me no more. Then for the summer he goes to the Dominican and don't say bye. Now i'm in a class with him this year, he got back today and i haven't said a word to him yet, what should i do i'm going crazy. Help me out please!!!!!1
confusion and playin' games!!!!
alright girl, are you shure he liked or likes you?? or is he just a horny boy?? well this is what i would do first ask yourself do you like him?? if you do then eithier wright or talk to him(which ever is easier 4 you) and simply ask him what was last summer all about?? cause maybe he just heard you didnt like him or something bunk, but you did say he was a shy guy so...just talk to him DUH!! good luck!
Don't waste your time with this loser!
There's this boy i know who liked me last year, he told all my friends but was too shy to tell me, on one weekend alone and with some other friends he gives me all these signs and he even kisses me a couple times but dosen't tell me then the next day his friends say something and he starts acting shady like he don't like me no more. Then for the summer he goes to the Dominican and don't say bye. Now i'm in a class with him this year, he got back today and i haven't said a word to him yet, what should i do i'm going crazy. Help me out please!!!!!1
SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE- I'LL TELL YOU ONE THING GIRL .WHEN TWO PEOPLE ARE FRIENDS AND IF THEY CHOOSE TO TAKE IT A LITTLE FURTHER, ONE OR THE OTHER ENDS UP FEELING LIKE THE OTHER IS ACTING SHADY. UNDERSTAND?? OKAY SO HERE'S WHAT I'LL SUGGEST "GO TALK TO HIM!!!! TEN BUCKS SAYS HE THOUGHT YOU WERE ONE THE ACTING SHADY!!!"
For one, pay no mind to him for about 4 days...give me that time to settle down, and then ask him if you two could go some place private and talk, and tell him how you feel, and don't hold back..sounds scary, but practice first by writing him a letter, and write how you felt when he began acting shady...they do this not to appear too intereted and desperate..K? yes...they do get desperate..hehehe..they are just as scared of rejection (if not more),than we are..so he's shy and scared of you..afraid of pushing the envelope far...and I've read about this stuff from a man's perspective, so I'm not leading you on...just practice what you will say, and ask him to talk to you privately, and then tell him,"I like you, why not just be friends for awhile, at least until we get comfortable with one another, it'll be easier on both of us, and perhaps, we could go to a movie," take baby steps, one step at a time...K? Take it slow, and let it escalate where you wish it to go..K? Take care..and good luck..GO GET HIM! He's probably the guy for you..but you'll never know unless you put some of the effort in, meet him half way..afterall...it's the year 2001! Right? love,HC...let me know how it goes..K? Take it as it comes..
He's not worth it!
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