Courting Over Says Sag!

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Hey there folks, so I had a conversation with my Sag gf last night and im a bit confused. I remember someone telling me, why are you dating a sag? Sags and Cancers speak different languages!

So My sag and I live together and have been separated for 4 months and recently got back together.

When we had our talk about getting together I was being a snoop and I confronted her on it. She was honest and open and asks why do I still do that.

Last night as we chatted, I flirted around sex, and she said I'm very simple. Stay out of my personal things, (as I stay out of yours) and I will be super happy!

She said, Let me be free and live my life and there's nothing to worry about!

She said to me, you live in a fantasy where sex happens every night and the honey moon phase is over, having sex doesn't make me happy.

I courted you, I got you and that's it.


UM, i'm very girly about these things! How do we keep a spark ?

Is this Normal? I don't question her love for me, but her need to be free (I'm not concerned bust should I be)?
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Posted by dewiklaessen1991
Maybe she's bored and maybe you restrain her too much sagittarius are all about freedom let them free and they'll come back to you claim them or be clingy and they will run away sex has to be spontanious i don't know what your chart is what is your moon ascendant venus and mars ? and what is hers @Ssasy
Well she's not saying she's bored she's telling me I'm living in a fantasy and have high expectations for relationships.

But Im a caner/Scorp moon shes a Sag/Cancer moon

Bedroom is always passionate, she calls me all day everyday while at work.
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Posted by busyeyes88
Sags are not really physical people.. Not much emphasis is placed in it... So if you are a very physical person and Cancers are too emotional anyway sags are not for you!!

You split up already and you have just got back together with her and the relationship sounds stale!!!

Quit while you are ahead... This relationship sounds dead in the water anyway!!
Actually its not stale, I only stated what we spoke about, Ive noticed youre very pessimistic, We actually have a great time when we are together!

Im always out with her and her friends and Its not me being clingy. In fact shes the clingy one, no where did I mention her stating I was clingy, she only mentioned she didn't like the fact that I was snooping, which was one of the things that led to the break up.

Thanks but no thanks for your input.
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Posted by busyeyes88
Sags are not really physical people.. Not much emphasis is placed in it... So if you are a very physical person and Cancers are too emotional anyway sags are not for you!!

You split up already and you have just got back together with her and the relationship sounds stale!!!

Quit while you are ahead... This relationship sounds dead in the water anyway!!
And the physical part, I don't think that goes for all sags, because shes very affectionate and is always touchy feely she was only speaking on the sexual aspect.

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Posted by Ssasy
Hey there folks, so I had a conversation with my Sag gf last night and im a bit confused. I remember someone telling me, why are you dating a sag? Sags and Cancers speak different languages!

So My sag and I live together and have been separated for 4 months and recently got back together.

When we had our talk about getting together I was being a snoop and I confronted her on it. She was honest and open and asks why do I still do that.

Last night as we chatted, I flirted around sex, and she said I'm very simple. Stay out of my personal things, (as I stay out of yours) and I will be super happy!

She said, Let me be free and live my life and there's nothing to worry about!

She said to me, you live in a fantasy where sex happens every night and the honey moon phase is over, having sex doesn't make me happy.

I courted you, I got you and that's it.


UM, i'm very girly about these things! How do we keep a spark ?

Is this Normal? I don't question her love for me, but her need to be free (I'm not concerned bust should I be)?

My Guy Loves a great make-out session but isn't too big on having it all the time, he rather lay back and watch a flic or hang with me and my friends or me with his friends.

Def. Lay off the snooping, I think she's trying to tell you that being together isn't soo hard but to expect things to be exactly how it was when you first met.

Don't think so deep into it! Just enjoy your friend/Lover! I just recently got back with My Sag guy and its a lot better now so far.

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Posted by busyeyes88
Sags are not really physical people.. Not much emphasis is placed in it... So if you are a very physical person and Cancers are too emotional anyway sags are not for you!!

You split up already and you have just got back together with her and the relationship sounds stale!!!

Quit while you are ahead... This relationship sounds dead in the water anyway!!
My Sag Guy is very touchy, I don't think they should quit while ahead, im a cancer also and my guy and I are doing better this time around....Be Nice!
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Posted by busyeyes88
Sags are not really physical people.. Not much emphasis is placed in it... So if you are a very physical person and Cancers are too emotional anyway sags are not for you!!

You split up already and you have just got back together with her and the relationship sounds stale!!!

Quit while you are ahead... This relationship sounds dead in the water anyway!!
Fam.. You don't think a Sag can be with anyone man lol !!! Give us some credit. We are pretty loving creatures... Just because someone doesn't love the same way as you, don't mean it can't work out.. It's called compromise...
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Posted by Ssasy
Hey there folks, so I had a conversation with my Sag gf last night and im a bit confused. I remember someone telling me, why are you dating a sag? Sags and Cancers speak different languages!

So My sag and I live together and have been separated for 4 months and recently got back together.

When we had our talk about getting together I was being a snoop and I confronted her on it. She was honest and open and asks why do I still do that.

Last night as we chatted, I flirted around sex, and she said I'm very simple. Stay out of my personal things, (as I stay out of yours) and I will be super happy!

She said, Let me be free and live my life and there's nothing to worry about!

She said to me, you live in a fantasy where sex happens every night and the honey moon phase is over, having sex doesn't make me happy.

I courted you, I got you and that's it.


UM, i'm very girly about these things! How do we keep a spark ?

Is this Normal? I don't question her love for me, but her need to be free (I'm not concerned bust should I be)?
I don't think it's bad at all!! My longest, most stable, most content relationship was with a cancer. Many onlookers noted they'd never seen two people more in love or passionate about one another. We loved eachother soo much, and that's what counds. I'm going to respond to this a later in more detail.
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Posted by busyeyes88
Sags are not really physical people.. Not much emphasis is placed in it... So if you are a very physical person and Cancers are too emotional anyway sags are not for you!!

You split up already and you have just got back together with her and the relationship sounds stale!!!

Quit while you are ahead... This relationship sounds dead in the water anyway!!
Fam.. You don't think a Sag can be with anyone man lol !!! Give us some credit. We are pretty loving creatures... Just because someone doesn't love the same way as you, don't mean it can't work out.. It's called compromise...
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