Do Sagi's fall in and out of love quickly?

Hi Sagi's . Just curious: Do you fall in love quickly or take your time getting to know someone before you say the L word? Do you fall out of love quickly or does it take a lot for you to call it quits? Do you say it first or wait to hear "I love you" from the other person before you say it?

well I can't judge it because my Moon is in Pisces and in Chinese my birth year was a Cat year which is like Pisces again.

that means when I fall in love then I can't get rid of it for a long time. I get nostalgic feeling as soon as something reminds me of him.

but I do control my behaviour(Sag). when I have to leave someone I do it even if my hurt is full of this people. I talk about them everywhere and think of them but I don't go back to them.

"I love you"? it is not important to me who says it first. My Bull told me first, my Scorp told me never. I don't care. Not the form matters to me but the content.

even if my hurt is full of this people.

...heart...

aawwww Provs: that was great. Thanks for sharing the story and a peek inside what I wouldn't consider a flaw but more the moment of "discovery". lol

Yeah ARcher: I see what you mean about now being able to contain your feelings. I've recently started dating a Sag and he hasn't actually 'said" he's falling in love but he gives every indication that he is. But it surprises me because we're still very early in the dating stage.

Could also be infatuation and most likely will wear off but I hope not. I just know that I am much more guarded with my heart in relationships now and won't likely be the one to say it first. It surprises me that he seems so "sure" of himself in that dept.so soon. Or maybe he's strong enough to throw caution to the wind and take the chance of getting hurt where as I'm not so willing to put my heart out there just yet again with someone. I used to.........but not any more. I might be feeling it but I need more time to be sure of my true feelings...... I won't say it first because I wouldn't want to handle my rejection if he didn't feel the same.

Once I do fall in love it takes me awhile to fall out so I remain guarded to be sure I'm not getting involved emotionally with someone that might fall out of love a month later just as quickly as they fell "in" love to start.

How long had you been seeing this person Provs when "that" moment you described occurred ?

My bf is a Sag and he told me he loved me about 2 weeks in. He didn't neccessarily volunteer the information, a friend of ours accused him of falling in love with me and then he admitted it, profusely. It was sweet and wonderful. It came from the heart...

He hasn't said it since, which okay with me. He shows me with his actions...

I'm with you temple...I am hesitant to let my guard down lest he change his mind, but he keeps proving himself over and over. There's really no holes I can peer through, nothing I can find that leads to infatuation.

He said very very early to me "what are you doing to me!? I am not acting like myself!"

makes me feel it is not normal for him to move so fast, be so demonstrative. He's told me things he swears he's never told another and said he feels very close to me.

We've been together for 2 months.

I feel like I'm over the top sometime with my emotion and it leads people to believe I'm not serious or being genuine. Which I am. Sag's are like that, they get very excited about people they love and what to shower them with attention, support and kind words. I get really hurt when people pull away from me because this, cause they think there is some sort of agenda. Which their isn't. We are passionate people and upbeat. That's all.

I don't necessarily think that when Sag's fall in love quickly but they do tend to go a little overboard and get controlling, jealous, and very possessive! 😄

Just letting you guys know from personal experience with a Sag Girl. She came on strong and fast. Even for me that was real overwhelming and I'm a freaking cancer. Although I liked it at first but than it was just too much to handle. I mean who seriously says "I Love You" just one month into the dang relationship!? Ugh!!

And after we broke up she wouldn't leave me alone! And people say cancers are the worst when it comes to love. That could be true but Sag's are the scariest when it comes to love!

^^Ha, I'm not gonna lie. I scare alot of people off lol

But hell it beats being boring😉