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Gemini + Sag Friendship
Whats their Moon and Mercury? This really doesnt sound very Sagittarius to me.
Posted by dontgetmewrongI don't know her whole chart, but her moon is in Scorpio. And yes it does seem that she keeps not feeling understood by me, but I shut up and let her talk and just listen and she is never really saying anything I can help with it's just always repeating the same shit like "me, me, me" and I'm like "yes ok it's about you, I understand you, I'm listening, I'm here."
Does she have a lot of water in her chart?
I could NEVER tell her she's doing anything wrong or being a certain way and that kind of sucks in a friendship. I want to be able to tell her "hey you're being an asshole" like I could with other friends or like I would expect someone else to (she has NO problem telling me when I'm doing something wrong).
Posted by LeoSunSagMoonMoon and Mercury both in Scorpio.
Whats their Moon and Mercury? This really doesnt sound very Sagittarius to me.
I have another Sag friend who is the chillest, most calm and fun person ever. We don't have a super deep friendship, but she is SO easy to get along with, hates conflict, etc. Same with my two close male Sag friends. But THIS Sag in question is a mystery for me to deal with.
Posted by dontgetmewrongThat is helpful. I know she considers me to be one of her best friends (she doesn't have a lot of close friends much like me), and I know she trusts me and my loyalty. It seems she wanted to complain about me so I certainly wanted to listen to fix it but it was difficult to understand what she was actually saying. I will just try to kick back and keep it light and listen more, speak less.Posted by ashley1734All I can say Sags.really don't like talking about their problems unless the person is someone we can completely trust, and there's not many. Sags are usually happy and when around friends like to keep things fun, so that does give off a dgaf persona. Very different when we're alone or/and in our minds, we just don't feel opening up that part of us...like I said, unless we can trust you with our vulnerable thoughts and feelings.Posted by dontgetmewrongI don't know her whole chart, but her moon is in Scorpio. And yes it does seem that she keeps not feeling understood by me, but I shut up and let her talk and just listen and she is never really saying anything I can help with it's just always repeating the same shit like "me, me, me" and I'm like "yes ok it's about you, I understand you, I'm listening, I'm here."
Does she have a lot of water in her chart?
I could NEVER tell her she's doing anything wrong or being a certain way and that kind of sucks in a friendship. I want to be able to tell her "hey you're being an asshole" like I could with other friends or like I would expect someone else to (she has NO problem telling me when I'm doing something wrong).
I would just listen, don't try to interrupt her when she speaks until warranted...I think she may just wants to be heard, and let it out. She's frustrated bc she can't find an answer to am issue she's dealing with.click to expand
Posted by dontgetmewrongMy mom has a Scorpio moon with Aries Sun and she is the same exact way tbh. She is really emotional and thinks everyone is against her. She is the type that can dish it but can't take it. I have a friend who is sag sun with Scorpio moon and she usually is more optimistic like her sun thankfully. Do you think maybe she is going through some things she just doesn't feel like talking about? Sagittarius doesn't really like to open up with things that bother them emotionally. Trust me it's my moon lolPosted by ashley1734All I can say Sags.really don't like talking about their problems unless the person is someone we can completely trust, and there's not many. Sags are usually happy and when around friends like to keep things fun, so that does give off a dgaf persona. Very different when we're alone or/and in our minds, we just don't feel opening up that part of us...like I said, unless we can trust you with our vulnerable thoughts and feelings.Posted by dontgetmewrongI don't know her whole chart, but her moon is in Scorpio. And yes it does seem that she keeps not feeling understood by me, but I shut up and let her talk and just listen and she is never really saying anything I can help with it's just always repeating the same shit like "me, me, me" and I'm like "yes ok it's about you, I understand you, I'm listening, I'm here."
Does she have a lot of water in her chart?
I could NEVER tell her she's doing anything wrong or being a certain way and that kind of sucks in a friendship. I want to be able to tell her "hey you're being an asshole" like I could with other friends or like I would expect someone else to (she has NO problem telling me when I'm doing something wrong).
I would just listen, don't try to interrupt her when she speaks until warranted...I think she may just wants to be heard, and let it out. She's frustrated bc she can't find an answer to am issue she's dealing with.click to expand
Posted by LeoSunSagMoonThat is EXACTLY how she is. You cannot tell her anything without her getting super offended. She will be super drunk and I'll be trying to get us home or get her food or whatever else and she won't listen to reasoning. She will start being super aggressive with other people at the bar and I can sense their discomfort so I'll be like hey let's go outside and go on the patio or whatever and she will be like "oh so you just think I'm an embarrassing drunk! Great, I'll just go home. Can't take me anywhere, I get it" etc. And I'm just all wide eyed like what the fuck just happened.Posted by dontgetmewrongMy mom has a Scorpio moon with Aries Sun and she is the same exact way tbh. She is really emotional and thinks everyone is against her. She is the type that can dish it but can't take it. I have a friend who is sag sun with Scorpio moon and she usually is more optimistic like her sun thankfully. Do you think maybe she is going through some things she just doesn't feel like talking about? Sagittarius doesn't really like to open up with things that bother them emotionally. Trust me it's my moon lolPosted by ashley1734All I can say Sags.really don't like talking about their problems unless the person is someone we can completely trust, and there's not many. Sags are usually happy and when around friends like to keep things fun, so that does give off a dgaf persona. Very different when we're alone or/and in our minds, we just don't feel opening up that part of us...like I said, unless we can trust you with our vulnerable thoughts and feelings.Posted by dontgetmewrongI don't know her whole chart, but her moon is in Scorpio. And yes it does seem that she keeps not feeling understood by me, but I shut up and let her talk and just listen and she is never really saying anything I can help with it's just always repeating the same shit like "me, me, me" and I'm like "yes ok it's about you, I understand you, I'm listening, I'm here."
Does she have a lot of water in her chart?
I could NEVER tell her she's doing anything wrong or being a certain way and that kind of sucks in a friendship. I want to be able to tell her "hey you're being an asshole" like I could with other friends or like I would expect someone else to (she has NO problem telling me when I'm doing something wrong).
I would just listen, don't try to interrupt her when she speaks until warranted...I think she may just wants to be heard, and let it out. She's frustrated bc she can't find an answer to am issue she's dealing with.click to expand
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Posted by ashley1734Posted by LeoSunSagMoonThat is EXACTLY how she is. You cannot tell her anything without her getting super offended. She will be super drunk and I'll be trying to get us home or get her food or whatever else and she won't listen to reasoning. She will start being super aggressive with other people at the bar and I can sense their discomfort so I'll be like hey let's go outside and go on the patio or whatever and she will be like "oh so you just think I'm an embarrassing drunk! Great, I'll just go hPosted by dontgetmewrongMy mom has a Scorpio moon with Aries Sun and she is the same exact way tbh. She is really emotional and thinks everyone is against her. She is the type that can dish it but can't take it. I have a friend who is sag sun with Scorpio moon and she usually is more optimistic like her sun thankfully. Do you think maybe she is going through some things she just doesn't feel like talking about? Sagittarius doesn't really like to open up with things that bother them emotionally. Trust me it's my moon lolPosted by ashley1734All I can say Sags.really don't like talking about their problems unless the person is someone we can completely trust, and there's not many. Sags are usually happy and when around friends like to keep things fun, so that does give off a dgaf persona. Very different when we're alone or/and in our minds, we just don't feel opening up that part of us...like I said, unless we can trust you with our vulnerable thoughts and feelings.Posted by dontgetmewrongI don't know her whole chart, but her moon is in Scorpio. And yes it does seem that she keeps not feeling understood by me, but I shut up and let her talk and just listen and she is never really saying anything I can help with it's just always repeating the same shit like "me, me, me" and I'm like "yes ok it's about you, I understand you, I'm listening, I'm here."
Does she have a lot of water in her chart?
I could NEVER tell her she's doing anything wrong or being a certain way and that kind of sucks in a friendship. I want to be able to tell her "hey you're being an asshole" like I could with other friends or like I would expect someone else to (she has NO problem telling me when I'm doing something wrong).
I would just listen, don't try to interrupt her when she speaks until warranted...I think she may just wants to be heard, and let it out. She's frustrated bc she can't find an answer to am issue she's dealing with.click to expand
Posted by ashley1734Here is where I meant to reply my bad, I'm new 🙂Posted by LeoSunSagMoonMoon and Mercury both in Scorpio.
Whats their Moon and Mercury? This really doesnt sound very Sagittarius to me.
I have another Sag friend who is the chillest, most calm and fun person ever. We don't have a super deep friendship, but she is SO easy to get along with, hates conflict, etc. Same with my two close male Sag friends. But THIS Sag in question is a mystery for me to deal with.click to expand
My mom has a Scorpio moon with Aries Sun and she is the same exact way tbh. She is really emotional and thinks everyone is against her. She is the type that can dish it but can't take it. I have a friend who is sag sun with Scorpio moon and she usually is more optimistic like her sun thankfully. Do you think maybe she is going through some things she just doesn't feel like talking about? Sagittarius doesn't really like to open up with things that bother them emotionally. Trust me it's my moon lol
Posted by ashley1734Posted by LeoSunSagMoonThat is EXACTLY how she is. You cannot tell her anything without her getting super offended. She will be super drunk and I'll be trying to get us home or get her food or whatever else and she won't listen to reasoning. She will start being super aggressive with other people at the bar and I can sense their discomfort so I'll be like hey let's go outside and go on the patio or whatever and she will be like "oh so you just think I'm an embarrassing drunk! Great, I'll just go hPosted by dontgetmewrongMy mom has a Scorpio moon with Aries Sun and she is the same exact way tbh. She is really emotional and thinks everyone is against her. She is the type that can dish it but can't take it. I have a friend who is sag sun with Scorpio moon and she usually is more optimistic like her sun thankfully. Do you think maybe she is going through some things she just doesn't feel like talking about? Sagittarius doesn't really like to open up with things that bother them emotionally. Trust me it's my moon lolPosted by ashley1734All I can say Sags.really don't like talking about their problems unless the person is someone we can completely trust, and there's not many. Sags are usually happy and when around friends like to keep things fun, so that does give off a dgaf persona. Very different when we're alone or/and in our minds, we just don't feel opening up that part of us...like I said, unless we can trust you with our vulnerable thoughts and feelings.Posted by dontgetmewrongI don't know her whole chart, but her moon is in Scorpio. And yes it does seem that she keeps not feeling understood by me, but I shut up and let her talk and just listen and she is never really saying anything I can help with it's just always repeating the same shit like "me, me, me" and I'm like "yes ok it's about you, I understand you, I'm listening, I'm here."
Does she have a lot of water in her chart?
I could NEVER tell her she's doing anything wrong or being a certain way and that kind of sucks in a friendship. I want to be able to tell her "hey you're being an asshole" like I could with other friends or like I would expect someone else to (she has NO problem telling me when I'm doing something wrong).
I would just listen, don't try to interrupt her when she speaks until warranted...I think she may just wants to be heard, and let it out. She's frustrated bc she can't find an answer to am issue she's dealing with.click to expand
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