hi anyone have experience with a libra male

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funkhouse26
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yes i have...and it was the greatest love of my life that only lasted a month. at first i wasnt interested because he was only 18 and i am 23!!! which was very weird for me. but the more we hung out the more i fell in love. i feel that libras are amazing creatures .. artistic and in love with the beauty that is life. (so initially we had a lot in common) but really...they will just move on to the next beautiful thing and think nothing of it. which is rightfully so. i let him go and hope to see him again someday when he is older and more mature. but i still believe his libra ways will hold true. he will always be looking for the next capture of beauty around the next corner...and i will always be looking for the next adventure to go on.

amazing person...still love him to death...weird when just one month can seem like a lifetime...and you dont want to let it go...but you know you have to move on. it was a very sad but beautiful time in my life. i wish i could stay living in it forever, but i know that the libra must keep on in their search for beauty...and it is probably easier for me to let go than it would have been for some people. in fact...i think that i was jut a lesson for him to learn from...he saw me as beautiful and i showed him the beauty and zest that can exist for life.

good luck...and i'd like to hear about your experience with a libra as well!!
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I don't want to stereotype/ but I wonder if that's an overall trait: mine seemed a little bipolar too. He was highly possessive and jealous. And couldn't take ANY criticism/ not even positive. He just thought he was "the man" and I should think so too. He was also VERY negative all the time and had extreme mood swings as well as paranoia that I was lying to him or doing stuff behind his back. We'd be having a normal conversation that maybe wasn't going in his favor and out of nowhere he'd just start yelling and calling names - like a child.
When he was himself he was wonderful however, maybe just a chemical inbalance?
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i guess because they are unbalanced sometimes he would suprise me sometimes by his behavior first he would be laughing and so happy then he would stop calling me and be depressed and say i am a wonderful woman and i deserve more so it was like he was saying he wanted to break up i guess then few days after he would call me again he confused me so much i have never dated a man who played so many games 1 thing in particular i noticed is they do lead a "double life" they hide stuff i found so many emails to girl in tx and he lives in ny telling her he loved her and writing poems and he used to do the same stuff to me oh well after all that he has tryed to go back to me
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I'm a Libra male as well and I dated a Sag girl for a couple of months. We connected extremely well but our respective traits took over eventually (I was starting to woo another girl and she was getting ready for her next long adventure). The time we spent together was simply amazing. The only girl that actually liked my more undesirable Libra traits.

If there was anything in the relationship that wasn't picture perfect it was that she wasn't very sensual HAHAHA!!!! When it came to sex she wanted me to "pound it out of her". Where as I like it to be a long journey with twists and turns and all that. It is funny what was said above about lasting 15 minutes. I have alwayse had an opposite problem where I last way to long, sometimes hours and a lot of times just go without climax because of it. This was a bit much for her so she found a way to make me do it at her will, which was the same time she did. Is this a Sag characteristic? On the physical and emotional planes it was amazing sex. Not very intillectual or spiritual though.