Is it just us—!!!

Okay,.. My love life right now is a TOTAL disaster! I resently broke up with a man after 4 years,He was my first love and first EVERYTHING (get my drift?🙂 I was scared off after he mentioned Marrage, Since he was the only one I had ever been with. Since then I have reunited with an old guy friend,.. And I am remembering why I liked him so much before. Prob. is, is that I''m sorta seeing this other guy I met a few months after my First love. Uuuh,... Anyways, I havn''t done anything with any of these guys, no sex or anything. I am scared, and not totally sure why. For some reasons I feel it has to do with my first love,.. I miss him and think about him alot, but I know I am not ready to Marry anyone! Sometimes I think I think about all of this WAY too much,... what do you think??🙂

Is it just us? Are sag's just doomed in LOVE, er what? Sometimes it feels that way...lol.

I "think" we think to much.
Go with what you feel. I am trying that for the first time in my life. It is great..

Your type of thinking makes my head hurt. Be still, think about solutions. Try checking with yourself how you feel about your solutions. If one in particular makes you feel YUMMY go for it.

It's so funny. You're just like my ex-boyfriend. I'm a taurus, but we dated for a while, and I absolutely fell in love with him. (the sag.) He said that he needed some time, because he had broken up with someone after four years, only three months before we started dating. I'm giving him time, but in the mean time, I miss, and love him like hell. Look at the other optins out there, and if this person who wanted to marry you is right, then you'll know. My ex-man always told me, if you love something, let it go, and if it comes back, then you know...If not a taurus's, take a sag's advice. Only time can tell...especially with sag's. Good luck!

Everyone gets hurt and it sucks. I have just gotten out of a relationship and it hurts to have someone you love leave you, and especially if he was your first like mine. My first was my first true love like you. The reason your afraid is because you don't want to be hurt again. Trusting someone is scarry because they can be gone just like a blink of an eye. Trust me you will always think about them and love them, but maybe agian you both could have loved each other you just weren't ready for each other at the time. My ex loved me to, but now he acts like It never happened. It's some sort of thing that guys do to forget the past. give him a couple of months maybe he'll be able to talk to you and tell you what happened. Give yourself time to heal before going out with another guy. You will know when your ready. Warning this does take time, it can take up to a year till your finally ready for a true relationship. I don't know my advice probably isn't to helpful. Just hang in there. Write a letter of goodbye to your ex. You don't have to give it to them. I think it might give you some closer. It will be ok. I'm sure your ex thinks about you to. Be strong.

I am a Sagittarius.
If there is one thing true about us it is that we live all our lives with an insatiable longing.
It is a state of being. We may already have the the object of our desire right in front of us but the longing will never abate.
I am also a musician. I would have gone mad had I not found a place to temporarily accomodate this yearning.

Love is a painful thing. You need to know what makes you happiest. Maybe you should take a break from guys for a while to figure it out.