Sag-Aqua, What do you think?

Im a Scorp-Sag cusp born Nov 22. I know this question is regarding Aqua, I was thinking that some Sags out there might have some experiences dealing with Aquas. So here it goes:

I was seeing an aqua guy for 3 months. I was seeing him at least once a week. He initiated most of them. Lately, I noticed that he started to open up to me more about personal things about him and his family which is unusual about him. Which I understand cause Im the same. I know hes really busy with school but was still able to squeeze me into his schedule.I also gave him space actually lots of space. Then one day, he told me that we should stop seeing each other. He said it was because he just doesn't have time to see anybody at this time, to have a gf ,him being even busier with school. He needs to focus more and he just wants to be completely alone.He said nothing personal and there isn't anyone else. I told him that it was ok with me if thats what he wants and if thats what it takes for him to reach his goal . Then we decided to remain friends and to keep in touch. What do you guys think? I heard Aquas pull away when things are getting serious. Do you guys think that he just lost interest or he still likes me but just scared to commit? I know I let him control things which is not typical for a Scorp but just didnt want to add to his already busy sched. Thanks =).

My first everything and such was an aqua🙂 They are so light hearted and strange I love it lol. My venus is in aquarius. They are very detached people but they make great friends. If they open up like that it means he's beginining to trust you. I don't think he has lost an interest in you, I think he just sees you in a friend light. This sign views EVERYTHING that way. So the better friends you become the more likely he'll probably come to like you romantically. They fall for their friends. I'd just stick to being his friend and you seem okay with that, and date other people, cause remember no matter what sign it is if a man says he isn't ready for a relationship that usually aren't ready for a relationship lol.🙂

Unfortunately, this probably isn't the right thing to say...
But he'll most likely be dating another girl in a few weeks.

I had a similar experience about two years ago with an aqua. He was a guy I had known my entire life - also a guy who had pursued me the entire time he had known me. He would show up at my house unannounced everyday(I guess cause he was comfortable with that knowing me for 10+ years,) and would insist on spending all his/mine free time together -this left me personally feeling a little suffocated,as a sagittarius. We were always good friends, but I decided to give it a shot romantically, since he was so persistent (this was probably a mistake.)

Anyways, after approx. 3 weeks of this, he decides to not call me for 3 days which I found odd given the circumstances, and when I finally call him to see what he's doing, and where he had dissappeared to - he tells me he wanted to talk to me in person but over the phone will do, and continues to tell me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationship and that maybe I wasn't who he thought I was? It was wierd. I dont know - it sucked cause I might have started to really like him. :/ And to make matters worse - not kidding - within 3 weeks he was seeing another girl, like 3 years younger than him. Bullshit. I didn't even bother confronting him. In fact I don't speak to him anymore at all because he sucks.

Hope you have better luck though. 🙂

^^ Yeah, that's what happened with mine. He went to church camp and met a gemini chick and told me it was over though a txt message. When I asked to him to call me and talk this over he said he couldn't cause his "voice hurt" After all we had been though, I didn't even deseve a call. But just the other day he came over to my house and cheated on his 7th month girlfriend with me lol. So there just really detached to everything, even when inlove. They make WAY better friends than lovers. I think the same about myself cause I have a venus in it🙂

you guys are giving novprin so much freaking ray of light

Lol what you mean?

no optimism?

No I think it could work. I'm a sag, of course I'm optimistic🙂

Some of these comments are pessimistic, but they pretty much are the truth. Aquas lack passion in relationships. I'm a sag and dated one for almost a year. As serious as we were, there was no passion there, so I left. They can be so detached from everything, that its hard to know how they feel. They're also very unpredictable, so maybe he likes you or maybe he will find someone else soon. good luck!

I agree 100% with above.

I ended my rant with optimism, you just missed it. 🙂

OF COURSE it could always work. Every person is uniquely "them."
While in general, those born in Aquarius have somewhat underlying similarities,
each Aqua puts their own little twist on "Aquaness."

Don't get me wrong either, for those short few weeks I was with the Aqua (despite him wanting to spend all his time with me) he was absolutely the best boyfriend I have ever had. He was so thoughtful and considerate, TRULY listened to me when I talked (like stopped whatever he was doing and gave me his full attention no matter what was going on,) always had little surprises for me, took me on "adventures." We had a real, mature, relationship and we really enjoyed eachother's company.
It seemed we had a real, mature, relationship for the right reasons. (We didn't even have a physical relationship and he never even tried which was wierd to me - but then again it had only been a few weeks.)

Anyways, they're flaky, that's all I'm saying. You just never know what's going on in their heads. You can just never be too sure or too confident with them. (Which I feel is in Saggies nature.)

"Anyways, they're flaky, that's all I'm saying. You just never know what's going on in their heads. You can just never be too sure or too confident with them. (Which I feel is in Saggies nature.)"

holy cow and a half!!

this in itself speaks the truth between a saggie and an aqua!
i absolutley loved my aqua to the depths but seriously hated him for not knowing what was on his mind.
him telling me he cares, and then acting very strangely out of no where.

uuhhgg i hate to love them..

whatever. 🙂

I wonder what happened with this one.
I was hoping she'd come back and prove me wrong.

They always act like they have no idea what they did wrong. So disgusting.

THEY KNOW

Yeah, my first heartbreak was aqua. (First person I slept with 2) Not first love though. Still holding out for that one. But yeah, he walked all over my heart and than some. It took me a 1 year to get over that and the relationship only lasted 3 months. I think my pride was hurt BAD. He dumped me over a txt for some fat gemini chick at church camp. I was a lot more reactive in those days though. I have evened out alot since than. But yeah, I forgive him and all and hope he's happy. I mean when you like at the skim of things it doesn't really matter. Like nothing really does in a way.