sag man preferance...

do sag men like to do the chasing with girls? do they prefer a girl who is more stand-offish or hard to get? i am asking b/c i have been hanging out with a sag who has had a thing for me for a year now, but now that we are getting to know each other better(in the last couple of weeks), he is distancing himself. i don't get it...

ARCHER IVE GOT QUESTION FOR U

lol.. i sorry.. caps lock was on from mesage to someone else..
just a bit overtaken at the moment.. Matters of the Heart type thing.. i was wondering if u care to toss some thoughts out there on my situation

Kay.. Im a Sagg as well so if things get a little wordy.. please let me know

im never good at the short story but ill try n give u the snipped version.. i guess if you not clear on something.. im clarify..

so.. to be blunt theres the love of my life.. almost 5 years weve known each other now.. we didnt have the whole How i really feel about u.. conversation until couple years ago though.. lol.. cant believe how time has flown.. i try not throw Virgo stereotypes in the equation.. because at the end of the day i doubt that has anything to do with his off the wall ness. There was a time when he did enough chasing after me for the both of us.. lol.. not bragging but i just mean that it was clear he was in pursuit.. honestly.. i just never really gave that much attention to the feelings i had for him.. it started like a crush or whatever but i was convinced he wouldnt want something with me seriously so i proceeded with such thoughts in my head.. lol.. so we basically over the years have gotten close but we could be whole lot closer.. i cant figure out where the games are coming from.. i mean on my part.. it was defense mechanisms.. at one point i just told myself i wasnt playing with him or anyone else for that matter.. i stopped all my idle male associations and went after this one Virgo.. topic of our discussion.. i dunno.. seems like he's regressed.. majorly.. lol.. i mean i have completely practically become the pursuer.. not that i mind it.. u know we dont lack much aggression.. lol.. but i just dont get why he wont just tell me he doesnt want to be with me.. instead he plays these little disappearing acts.. and im all looking for him of course.. i feel like he just bathes in that... i dont get it..

his latest houdini act.. he got a little attitude when i sent him tex.. about us going somewhere right? i told him where did he want to go.. and then he kept sending me messages back to back.. u know how your phone keeps going off when u get repeated messages? ? i told him gime a sec im talking... oOOhhh shit.. wrong move.. i couldnt get a hold of him the rest of that day.. then when i finally did that night.. asking him what he was doing.. he says.. Hold on im talking.. that was the last ive heard from him.. this was last week.. tried again to reconcile today.. to no avail.. see i dont know its my Sagg overthinkingIsms.. lol.. or im just being plain foolish.. i know how i feel about him.. most of the time i feel like i know how he feels about me.. but then theres times like these that make me feel like im just entertaining myself

Ohh.. i see... it takes much of my not so sturdy of virtue.. Patience.. lol.. but i do love mr. Virgo... so i shall try as u say not to burn him.. such a challenge for me to tone my bluntness down.. its just when he upsets me.. sends me mixed signals... i feel like hes trying to say something without saying it.. then i always assume wrong.. lol.. i think hes much more in tune with things than he lets on..

i thank you archer..🙂..
sometimes all u need is the Late Night outside perspective preferably Sagg 😉
to remind u of whats going on.. lol.. ill let u in on a secret.. sometimes i think its my cancer moon..mind of its own..

archer...

let me add that i just got out of a 2 year relationship only 2 months ago. this sag guy knows about my last relationship and realizes that i am still a little emotionally unstable from the break-up...so that could have something to do with him being distant.

yeah...he told me that he doesn't want to be a rebound...and that is his biggest fear, that he will end up getting hurt b/c i am fresh out of a relationship. so we are just taking it really slow, day by day. he ia a great guy and i wouldn't want to lose him as a friend, but i also wouldn't mind getting to know him better 🙂