Sag-Sag date

I met a Sag a couple weeks ago while on my way to college??_he said he saw me from when I walked out of my flat and literally chased behind me for some time without me knowing (I had headphones in) but he caught up with me??_he said it was my fast walk that made him chase lol we spoke and exchanged numbers on a whim.

Anyway fast forward to last night, we had our very first date, at mine where he brought food to cook. Conversation was absolutely wonderful, the best ever. He basically fucked my mind all evening. He's was completely honest with everything, so refreshing! He managed to crack me open and we shared secrets. At one point he made my eyes glaze over as he responded to something I told him that is painful. He stared at me for ages and then he said if he knew me more he would give me a hug. I wanted one. He held me tight and gently rubbed a couple fingers in a circular motion around my lower back and placed his head on mine. We were there for 2 minutes, in which I nearly fell asleep; he was so soothing and safe and it felt right. He's not my type, but he has something charismatic about him, that sag charm and humour, that caring nature that draws me in. There's loads of simmering sexual tension. I can't really touch him if I'm near, because you know. Game over. He stares a lot, watches me and follows my eyes and moves. At one point he was telling me something and I looked down to roll my spliff for a split second and he said look at me lol.

He only lives round the corner from me and have been there for years. We were even born in the same hospital. We have some of the same contacts. But we've never met before.

Here's where it gets colourful.

He's got 8 children and 4 baby mothers. He loves children (obviously) but he said he??d never set out to have them initially. He sees them all on a regular basis, a devoted dad and he's financially set with his own business.
It's maddening and strange to me because I could actually see myself being with him??_and having a more clandestine relationship lol; which, although I??ve always said I don't want a man with baggage, he makes me wanna just go for it. Someday. o___0

Oh, and he's really interested in astrology. I did his chart and he has a Taurus moon so that explains all the children.

He left me with three kisses on the cheek, a firm hug and that was that. All in all a great night.

Have any of you been in a sag-sag pairing? Experiences? Thoughts?

i LOVE sag men. kinda childish at times but i think thats the attraction. for me, the pros outweigh the cons.

He's got 8 children and 4 baby mothers.

so he obviously doesnt do condoms and doesnt practice the pull out method. What is his venus sign? where is his neptune? he has some CHARM to him.

i say have fun but this venus in cap right chere would only consider him as a fuck thing and i def strap up.

Hey DMV thanks. He's a rasta so yeah...no condoms (I don't think). I've been off from bc for a few years now so unless he uses condoms I don't think we could get it on, but I haven't asked what he uses (if any). Strangly we both have Venus in Cap.


Here's his chart:

Sun Sagittarius 11.15 Ascendant Sagittarius 1.13
Moon Taurus 3.34 II Capricorn 4.54
Mercury Sagittarius 25.22 III Aquarius 17.58
Venus Capricorn 22.36 IV Pisces 26.54
Mars Sagittarius 8.51 V Aries 24.53
Jupiter Taurus 24.08 R VI Taurus 15.12
Saturn Leo 16.51 R VII Gemini 1.13
Uranus Scorpio 9.30 VIII Cancer 4.54
Neptune Sagittarius 13.36 IX Leo 17.58
Pluto Libra 13.39 Midheaven Virgo 26.54
Lilith Taurus 14.19 XI Libra 24.53
Asc node Scorpio 2.54 XII Scorpio 15.12

...and Mine

Sun Sagittarius 27.43 Ascendant Virgo 12.51
Moon Aquarius 16.52 II Libra 4.29
Mercury Capricorn 13.56 III Scorpio 2.30
Venus Capricorn 8.55 IV Sagittarius 7.25
Mars Aquarius 7.34 V Capricorn 14.50
Jupiter Scorpio 28.45 VI Aquarius 16.57
Saturn Scorpio 1.58 VII Pisces 12.51
Uranus Sagittarius 6.16 VIII Aries 4.29
Neptune Sagittarius 26.49 IX Taurus 2.30
Pluto Libra 28.59 Midheaven Gemini 7.25
Lilith Capricorn 20.15 XI Cancer 14.50
Asc node Cancer 4.10 XII Leo 16.57

LOL! Perhaps he's trying to bump his count to 10 kids, and 5 baby mommas?

Heh.

dont become baby mama 5

LOL I did ask him if he'd want more children. He didn't rule it out.

@ DMV Naaa girlie, not my style . They'll have to be some serious strapping up if I was to ever go there.

@ Wynter: I did think this! Like come join my tribe, you'll be well looked after! LOL

@ EEE It can be lucrative for some, I guess it depends. Back in the day up the duff = council property. It's more challenging in this day of course, but there are women still milking the system and through other ways (like classic baby-trapping the man).

With him being a Rastafarian his values and ethics are different. He supports his gang/tribe through his own means which I find admirable and they all appear to be well taken care of. Large families are not uncommon, and it is a business in a way; bar 1 or 2 each BM has certain goods to bring to the table and like he said he picks his women wisely LOL. But not gonna lie it was still a shock to hear about his 8 children.

I think a friendship is on the cards for this one.

Hey girl,

I was waiting for you to chime in and give your words...can't beat a bit of Ligeia perspective 😉


Dreamy is the right word. As soon as he got to mine we hit it off, and that hug he gave me...oh my Lord. He told me after I was lucky he let me go LOL. He's almost making me have a fuck it and go for it mentality...so not me and quite maddening but it feels so right LOL. I'm finding I have to reel myself in now and again so I'm not taken up and away by him. He has such a powerful persona but it's lovely and I want more LOL. Plus he's so honest about everything which I love.

Anyway in true sag style I've decided to see where we go on this one...no up the duff business but we've both agreed what we have is too good to ignore and toss aside. It would be easier if we didn't have sexual chemistry but that's there too so I'm kinda screwed. Maybe literally down the line LOL.

I'm scared and anxious and thrilled and excited.

I will check out the thread. Thanks!

Be Careful!

Don't trust the condom! Birth control pills, the patch, IUD, protect yourself! He ain't going to.

Only because we were up talking and chilling till late I made him stay over. We did some serious heavy petting and kissing LOL. 😉

We found out we love swimming so that will be our next date. He's unable to swim breaststroke and I'm unable to do backstroke, so we've agreed to teach each other new skills. We thrashed each other with games of cards. He cooked and fed me, made sure I ate.

We talked more about his sexual preferences. He doesn't use condoms. He said he's willing to wait but yeah. Somebody scream Keith Cheggggers! (preggers) LOL.


Got nuff Sagi love for him though. We absolutely adore each other. 🙂



I'm missing him already. Is it usually this fast and furious with sag-sag relationships?

somebody is having a baby

condoms protect against more than an 18 year jail sentence...get him tested, in fact go together..i even think u can do them at home now??