Sag Woman Confusing Virgo...

We have been friends. Thgough there has always been the hint that we both admired each other.

She is a flirt, and hugs everyone.

But I catch her smiling at me with that wierd smile...you know the one.

She always hugs me and kisses me, sometimes on the cheek, but it's been hitting the lips lately. SHe actually leaned into me at a bar and just lay there for a few minutes, but she was really tired that night too.

SHe always tells me i make her feel good and cheer her up. She makes comments on my looks and on my personailty that are quite flattering.

But we discussed this once and her way is to be friends until something changes?


We are very similar in many ways. Value wise and humor. We crack each other up.

She is quite busy right now with some garbage in her life, I do NOT want to pressure her by letting her know she has gotten under my skin.

I WANT to let her know right now that she has gotten under my skin.

Her eyes and smile melt me to no end. Her intelligence is acceptable to the Virgo mind! She has thighs and hips that drive me entirely mad. I want nothing more than to start something more with her.

She seems to be sending mixed signals. Or I am just a typical Virgo romantic?

I could use some advice from some Sag ladies here. With her busy schedule, how do I break the news that I am into her without her feeling the pressure?

I would let her know how you feel. Then sit back and wait on her to make the next move. I got goose bumps just reading what you had to say, so make sure you tell her the same. Just don't push, lay out the facts and allow her to decide the next course. Even with an extremely busy life you might be what she needs to help relieve some of the pressure.

Good Luck!! 😉

That goes with my instinct. But you know, I would never, ever do anything to pressure her, or make her feel uncomfortable in any way. This woman came into my life like a whirlwind of unexpected fervor. I can actually sit and watch her all night long just walking about her business, and never tire of it. If she were to tell me she has similar feelings and nees time, well I would wait without hesitation. I truly see a potential soul mate as wella s best friend i her. I hope I am right.

That woman can take a weeks worth of anxiety and bad karma out of me with just one smile, I'm telling ya. She says I do the same for her. Somehow we tend to pull the best out of each other, and for someone to be able to get me off guard get me to talk about my feelings, well that in itself is quite a feat.

She's an amzing and magnificent creature! Thank you for reply, I will definitely take it to heart and plan this out a bit.

MMM yes. I think my real question is to you wonderful ladies is....does this sound like typical Sag character, or from what I have written, do you think there is a good possibility she likes me as well?

This will help my Virgo mind formulate the perfect question, so as to give her the info, state the fatcs, as well as give her a way out in a subtle manner if she so desires.

Oh, those hips of hers....grrrrrrowl!

I would definately let her know how you feel. If she likes you she will either let you know right away or if her life is hected she may put you off for a while. What other things goes on to think that you two should be together? Oh, remember she will always be friendly with other people and flirt but, if she really likes you that should matter to you because she will be with you and not them even if she does flirt.

Yeah, but putting a Virgo off for awhile can put them off for good, no? We tend to redirect very quickly if things look awry.

I just figured maybe you beautiful Sag ladies would see some clue in her actions that I as a man cannot see.

I do know she thinks I am the worlds last true Gentleman however!

P.S.- I truly do want to thank you both for your time and assistance. It will not go unrewarded!

hmmm. Well, I buckled down and put it out there..right after she told me how I always make her feel oh so good when I am around.

Got the old " Don't want to ruin a good friendship" talk from her. Major bummer. She really sent me, that one did.

The prize? me! 🙂 And you must have won, since you are the only one to reply 🙂

Thanks you so much, I just love good people! Now I slink off the lick my wounds......sigh.

Hey, Hey, what about me ;(

Sorry about the friendship talk but, I have to say that I have given that to someone before because at the time I wasn't ready but, then I really started to see that person in a different way after a while and then I broke the ice by kissing him. Don't give up...you never know 😉

Thank you sweethearts! Such an aptly named Lady you are! I won't hold my breath, but like you said, one never knows! 🙂

arrrggggghhhh! That 'woman" called me again! She heard I was headed to St. Thomas for some sailing and horseback in my buddy's plane, , and out of the blue..she's dripping with sweetness!....erff!

I'm not gonna fall for it, but if those legs and eyes of hers were not so beguiling, I'd shut her out forever. Now SHE'S gonna get the "friends routine from me! ha!

You ladies cannot be THAT fickle, can you Sags?


Grrrr......

I usually make a decision and stick to it.

But if she's wanting a friendship then maybe shes wanting to go with you as your friend?

Maybe giving her the "friend routine", (like bringing a date) would snap her out of it. Saggies tend to want what they can't have! 😉

Well, she didn't come across as that. You may be correct, but I still won't fall for it anyway. I'm too leery at this time I suppose.

She sounds exactly like a typical sag...you will never be able to change her..for that is her very foundation. It is who she is. The hugs and the smiles to everyone and anyone for whatever reason at all. Excitement and adrenaline are what drives a sag woman. Well ... me at least. The one time that I tried to date a virgoan guy...even once I tried to have a virgoan as a female friend. We just couldnt work it out. I was too wild and free and the virgoan was always wondering what was wrong with them and why I couldnt just commit myself. But fact was...I was out and about and the only people that could ever attract my heart for long enough were other fire signs. Those that did not care at all if I was out huggin and lovin on everyone..cuz they were out doin the same exact thing. Dont let her under your skin, just accept her for who she is and go on lovin her. But dont expect her to love just you...she loves everyone and anyone that will give her affection/attention and that can never change.

I have no problem with her hugging people at all. I enjoy her spontaneous and free spirit. But, she shows signs on a personal level that confuse me. She doesn't compliment everyone as she does me, but she is a a social butterfly! I do like her, but not holding my breath anymore. If she comes around on different terms, who knows. But right now I am on my own schedule and keeping my routines.

I agree with a previous post, that sag women want what they can't have. We LOVE nice guys but if they seem too easy to get then we unintentionally put them in our back pockets while we keep looking. We aren't doing this out of malice but we have a hard time risking a friendship by taking it to the next level. What usually happens is that we end up losing the window of opportunity because we wait too long and then our best friend buddy who was crazy about us, meets someone else.
Catching us is the hard part....but when you do catch a sag....she is all yours for the long haul.

lol funny you said that. All she complained about was ending up with drunks, and she hooks up with a 40 YO drunk who still lives with his mother and can't drive due to too many DUI's.

Wow, guess I had her wrong from the start. Bummer, she has much potential.

Sags are just the best 🙂
They are so...how should I say it....—

Almost all the saggis i know finally fall in love with their best friends with whom there wasnt ever anything sparky previously. Somehow she'll butt around with those jerky guys who will only break her heart and then finally tring tring she will look at the nice guy whose been her best friend thru all these break ups and say something silly like 'where 'v u been' !!!!!!

Saggis r like that - messy but adorable.

Seems she would do this as a last resort, when she has no one else to be with. Seems they go for the nice, decent men only after they have been tainted by the bad boys.

Such is life! But I know I'll never touch her knowing what she has been with....yeeewwwww.

It is very true, we almost always want what we can't have. However, I think in this case you should tell her how you feel -- we also appreciate honesty and straightfowardness.

Oh I told her. And she wants me around, but she doesn't, and I am not a game player. hell, she's 43 and I am 44. Love her dearly, but she has some serious thinking to do. She's losing her home, her business, she just throws up her arms and goes out to party. Funny thing is, she is NOT a drinker! One or two, but that's it. But she spends like no tomorrow and she seems to have little in the area of being responsible. She could have easily stopped all this from happening too, whiuch really amazes me. But damn, she has such potential. What a set of thighs on that woman! And those damn hypnotizing eyes!

I think in general Sagittariuses are pretty careless and not very good with responsibilty. Responsibility is commitment//and we're DEFINATELY not good with that. I tend to fing myself playing games with nicer guys, which is kind of messed up. I thought that was something you grew out of though. Sooo maybe not.

I know that I am really scared of commitment too. I dated this Virgo guy and he could just make my heart melt but, he kept me at a distance and it made me even more attracted to him. Well, now I'm dating a Gemini male and he is such a sweetheart and a gentlemen. He always wants to be around me and do things for me. I'm feeling a little smoothered right now but, I don't want to screw it up because we get along so well and have so much in common. We have been dating for over a month and I haven't slept with him yet. I am attracted to him but, not the same way I am attracted to the Virgo guy. It's screwed up. I see Virgo guy out and about every week and he looks at me and I just get lost in his gaze. The Gemini male I'm seeing well, I don't feel that and I want that with him. Maybe after we sleep together things will be different, Wow, I sure hope so otherwise I need to end it before I hurt him. This sucks.

Yeah we definately tend to like the chase more than anything.

I love to chase. I am not in denial about it but only a good chase! Just go with her flow, have fun with her. Introduce her to somethin new to learn about, she will appreciate it. dont give her too much of yourself, she will take notice the distance and wonder why you so far away? She will want you closer to her.