Niki
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20 YearsSagittarius
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SAGI girl needs more info about an ARIES guy
You are funny!! I hope it was laughing with approiatness?
Whats so funny about it—?
I am sorry, it just struck me as funny. That's all! I am Sag rising and sometimes I do stick my foot in my mouth sometimes! Sorry if I offended you!
Hi Niki,
I am so sorry to hear that you and your lover are separated. That is so very frustrating. My lover and I have been living in separate countries for over a year now. We have had visits but they are never enough.
Fortunately for us we are very good friends. We connected deeply on a mental and emotional level first. The physical which is a strong attraction for both of us was not what attracted us together initially.
I had a really frustrating moment in January and thought we should break off our relationship. I can't tell you how your Aries will handle your relationship as people are all different, but, we worked it out and our relationship is stronger.
My aries lover is older and wiser and not insecure. He strives to be good and loving and understanding and is quite successful at it.
We have had our difficulties but, I have found that the difficulties are few between us. That's the amazing part...our relationship is so easy.
What I have found is that excersising PATIENCE has been the most beneficial thing to do in any relationship. I am sag. My emotions are strong and I want to express them RIGHT NOW. But, I seek to express them only when I believe they will benefit us both. I try not to be selfish and think only of myself.
I try always to remember that emotion is a feeling provoked by my thoughts. If it's really important then a few hours or days of reflection before expressing will never hurt but in time clarify what I feel I need to express.
My goal in my relationship is to love and be loved...openly, passionatly and deeply for a long, long time. Fortunatley for me my lover has the same desire and focus.
Trust that if it really is love between you that all will work out...in time. Does it really have to happen NOW? If you are recieving love even though you are apart isn't that good? Better to have than have not. And if you are experiencing it now then you have much to hope for and look forward to.
Wishing you all the best.
Laurie
I am so sorry to hear that you and your lover are separated. That is so very frustrating. My lover and I have been living in separate countries for over a year now. We have had visits but they are never enough.
Fortunately for us we are very good friends. We connected deeply on a mental and emotional level first. The physical which is a strong attraction for both of us was not what attracted us together initially.
I had a really frustrating moment in January and thought we should break off our relationship. I can't tell you how your Aries will handle your relationship as people are all different, but, we worked it out and our relationship is stronger.
My aries lover is older and wiser and not insecure. He strives to be good and loving and understanding and is quite successful at it.
We have had our difficulties but, I have found that the difficulties are few between us. That's the amazing part...our relationship is so easy.
What I have found is that excersising PATIENCE has been the most beneficial thing to do in any relationship. I am sag. My emotions are strong and I want to express them RIGHT NOW. But, I seek to express them only when I believe they will benefit us both. I try not to be selfish and think only of myself.
I try always to remember that emotion is a feeling provoked by my thoughts. If it's really important then a few hours or days of reflection before expressing will never hurt but in time clarify what I feel I need to express.
My goal in my relationship is to love and be loved...openly, passionatly and deeply for a long, long time. Fortunatley for me my lover has the same desire and focus.
Trust that if it really is love between you that all will work out...in time. Does it really have to happen NOW? If you are recieving love even though you are apart isn't that good? Better to have than have not. And if you are experiencing it now then you have much to hope for and look forward to.
Wishing you all the best.
Laurie
Hi Laurie
Thanks a lot for your very comforting email. It really meant a lot to me. And I am going to read your email everytime I am in a down mode. Cause still me and my lover are still in a phase where we still have to know a lot about each other.
Well, as for my lover. I know he loves me a lot. He is much more mature n secure emotionally than me. I am not cause of my past experiences. Well, maybe I should keep my past hurt in love out of my present love cause all it will do is spoil it. My lover feels from the DAY 1 we admitted our LOVE for each other that we are each other's DESTINY. I am a person who doesnt believe in all this. But still my heart wants me to believe him. I feel ONLY TIME will tell if we are meant to be together.
Thanks again Laurie for your wonderful reply.
Thanks a lot for your very comforting email. It really meant a lot to me. And I am going to read your email everytime I am in a down mode. Cause still me and my lover are still in a phase where we still have to know a lot about each other.
Well, as for my lover. I know he loves me a lot. He is much more mature n secure emotionally than me. I am not cause of my past experiences. Well, maybe I should keep my past hurt in love out of my present love cause all it will do is spoil it. My lover feels from the DAY 1 we admitted our LOVE for each other that we are each other's DESTINY. I am a person who doesnt believe in all this. But still my heart wants me to believe him. I feel ONLY TIME will tell if we are meant to be together.
Thanks again Laurie for your wonderful reply.
Thank you! Laurie and Niki,
I am sort of in the same situation, but I am not sure if the one I love feels the same way I do. Although, I have a permanent smile on my face, my ears won't stop ringing, and my heart is happier than it's ever been!!!! So, if this isn't love, I'd like the to know what I've got so I don't lose it! HAH! The reason I feel like this is lover's destiny is, because he really doesn't have to say anything to me. I can feel it thousands of miles away! I like to be told it now and again, but I can feel the love and it is so strong that nothing needs to be said!!! I will be patient and I trust his judgement completely. When he is ready, then I will be there for him! I will still read your e-mails daily just because they are beautiful. Best of Wishes to you both, and I hope love finds you!!!
Babygirl@s
Sag rising
I am sort of in the same situation, but I am not sure if the one I love feels the same way I do. Although, I have a permanent smile on my face, my ears won't stop ringing, and my heart is happier than it's ever been!!!! So, if this isn't love, I'd like the to know what I've got so I don't lose it! HAH! The reason I feel like this is lover's destiny is, because he really doesn't have to say anything to me. I can feel it thousands of miles away! I like to be told it now and again, but I can feel the love and it is so strong that nothing needs to be said!!! I will be patient and I trust his judgement completely. When he is ready, then I will be there for him! I will still read your e-mails daily just because they are beautiful. Best of Wishes to you both, and I hope love finds you!!!
Babygirl@s
Sag rising
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