Sagittarius and Libra - Unusual Topic, please help

This is going to be a very unusual topic. I am a 33 year old libra pre-op transsexual and I have been talking to a 55 year old male sag. he called me from an escort ad. It was just business at first and then it started into a personal relationship with texting and asking me out on dates and having me stay over night at his place. This started september 2012 and has been going on since. We have never talked about anything until recently. He asked me back in march to go on vacation with him for 5 days in may and all i had to do was pay for my ticket. I was so excited. Well things fell behind and by the time I was able to get my tickets the price went through the roof and I couldn't?? get them. He said he understood and left it at that. I started to get distant and not text as much. He texted me on the plain before they were going to depart and I asked him what we were. He said like —bf, gf, dating?? and i said yes. He asked, —well what are we??. and I said i dunno, that's why I'm asking you. (during a few times during sex he called me his girlfriend and i didn't know if it was the heat of the moment or what). I told him it takes a lot for me to let my guard down and I let it down with him and that i'm starting to get too involved and am a little confused. He said it takes a lot for him to let his guard down as well and would like to get to know me better and that 5 days in a hotel is a perfect way to do that. I said I know and that I'm really sorry. He said it's ok, we will go somewhere sometime. Then i said —be careful with the online thing (escort sites) because it can be risky anywhere. And he replied with —Oh i don't know what i'm doing other than laying by the pool??. (i think i may have offended him by saying that). Then I proceeded to open up more and tell him that i miss him very much, that I really like him, i think about him 24/7, i wait for the days that i get to see him and that every time I think about kissing him i get all flustered. he didn't respond right back, but when he did he just said —taking off?? with a few smiley faces. When he was in the air I texted him and said that i have a friend who travels and owes me a favour and she could use her points to get me to vegas (she had more than enough points). I told him that I can fly out the next day and be back on the return flight with him. i told him i wouldn't buy any tickets until i heard from him. Well it was about 2.5 hours after his flight landed and i

hadn't heard back from him so i texted him —hope you made it there ok??. He finally texted back about an hour later saying —sorry, phone died, fell asleep by the pool. I just need some relaxing time so no need to come down??. I was heart broken when he said that and i just responded —oh ok??. that night I texted him —good night?? and he texted back about a half hour later —good night??. usually he texts me —good night sweet dreams?? with a bunch of hearts or smiley faces or says something cute with it. I keep thinking I messed everything up somehow or maybe he was just not into me the way that I was into him. Please help.
update, well it's been a whole day and I finally got a text this morning. i told him good luck on his presentation today. he said thanks and that he was a little nervous. I tried to boost his confidence up by telling him he is going to be ok. he sent me a pic of him on a horse and i wold him he looks sexy on a horse and looks like fun. he said thank you. i asked what else he did. he asked what i was doing and filled him in on that. asked him what his plans were for the rest of the vacation. then i sent a pic of myself to him and he replied —you look great?? and i said thanks. then i said —you are one sexy man! but i will let you go. good luck. break a leg. you??ll be great! and enjoy the rest of your vacation cutie?? and he said thank you babe. But still no cute smiley faces like he always does. I'm still upset and everything, i really miss him but i'm holding my emotions in and just letting it seem like i'm ok.

I think you should tell him how you're feeling. Life's too short to wonder what's going on between you two. Just explain to him how you're feeling and be done with it. Maybe you'll find out that he did use you, sagittarius men, or men in general, are known for their meaningless hookups.. Atleast you'll find out what's up if you ask.

I wish you all the best, keep us updated. And please don't feel upset, everything happens for a reason. Hold your head pretty lady. Everything will workout just fine.

@Concerned:

I wouldn't worry too much. Him not sending smileys and hearts is part forgetfulness and part nit wearing it out. We tend to try to build anticipation. If you get flowers everyday, they'll love their meaning and it'll be like putting gas in your car. Just something you do. I sounds awkward but trust in the fact that you're close to his heart. Good luck!

*lose* damn typos!

Thank you. I'm just concerned that I pushed him away by opening up. After I opened up that's when he stopped his flirting and stuff. Maybe he was just in vacation mode. Who knows. Never really felt with a Sagittarius before

Good thing your up in age, otherwise I??d say you moved too fast pouring your heart out to him like that. Personally I don't think I woman should tell a man everything she's feeling for him until she knows his true intentions with her. Like when you asked what you were, he answered that question with a question and before you knew it, YOU were the one pouring your heart out, only for him to tell you —I'm in the air??, with no —real?? regaurd to the things you said. Smh. Bet you didn't even notice he still hadn't answered your question. Lol. Clever sagg, watch him. They are very VERY clever, and extremely smart. Don't let him fool you. They are also known to be able to get themselves out of any situation or conversation with one sharp look, quick tongue and sexy demeanor. Mark my words. Dated a couple. Related to a few. All very smart, very sharped tongue, and also VERY CLEVER, and not always in a good way, for you anyway.

Lets see..... He got back Sunday 19th and since then I barely hear from him. Not one flirt. No cute emoji's no nothing. It seems like he is trying to give me hint that he is not interested anymore. When he does text I do t text back immediately. I just answer with short answers and just try to talk less as possible. I'm so tired of thinking and wondering that I'm just burnt out. I don't even want to talk to him at the moment. For about 6-7 months its been non stop texting and flirting and then all of a sudden I open up and everything stops almost completely. It's very heartbreaking to say the least.

Oh that's nothing. He'll be back. You just have to be light, and ready for take off when he does. Leave all the lovey dovey gooey crap up to him, just enjoy the moment. TRY not to have sex with him either. Make him enjoy your company more than your body this way you will know it's not just lust that has him coming back. Sagg always dips in and out like that, it's nothing to worry your little head over. He's out on one of his many adventures when things slow down, he's likely to think of you and he'll call.

well it's been 2 months and i have not heard one word from him. I honestly don't think I will ever hear from him again. Its still very upsetting but I think I have moved on. I don't think I even want to talk to him if he did text me out of the blue one day. Oh well, I guess you live and learn. That's what I get for opening up i guess.

I'm sorry that this happened. Don't let this keep you from opening up. Its hard nowadays to tell who's really there for you and how long they'll be around. Open up for the right person. Peace, love, and best wishes _??_

Who needs him? No shade to you but you can't expect much from a man who hires an escort. He'll probably end up all alone.