taurus/sag

i am a sag female and my man is a taurus and he always complains that i am not romantic enough with him, and i treat him like sh.., i personally feel that no one should be with a person they are not happy with, i hear taureans do not like to change, and seem to stay in long term relationships even when its going bad....some1 tell me whats'up, do you feel that sags are not romantic?

What a great question. I think I'll post it for the other Sag women on the board to answer as well?

It's not that we are NOT romantic it's that we don't like to be smothered by Fido 24/7. We Sag women are practical, supporting of a mate and not into that gooey mushy kissey face stuff when ever our significant other is around us. BUT in the sheets we are hot, sensual and passionate!!

I went out with a Taurus and a Pisces. I found them both to be over smothering romantics and it seemed that's all they wanted to do. Don't get me wrong I love romance but both the Taurus and Pisces took it to extremes to the point where I wasn't getting a free moment to myself. It was sickening and childish IMO.

Personally a Sag is better off with another fire sign (other than a Sag) or definitely an air sign. And yeah a Taurus is stubborn and will not change. If you're not happy why are you with him?

i'm still with him, and i find that funny, because everything he complains about,will stay the same. I hate to change for someone whom i feel is not worth it. I like his personality, but by now he should know that i dont like to be smothered, i feel as though he just doesnt have what it takes to get me fully aroused. A guy who can do that will definitely have no complaints about our romance. Sooner or later he will know i'm not the one for him, i just dont want to break it down to him yet, thanx 4 your comment..peace

just a note for you ~ i was in a marriage for
22yrs to a taurus male ~ and i tried everything i
could think of to make it a happy one ~ and
yes, they do have a tendancy to smother and have
a wicked "ME" syndrome ~ they don't want
you to be around anyone but them, they want you
all to themselves ~ and will play the martyr when you start
to pull away and some time for yourself. funny thing is,
i'm taurus rising and is probably why i tolerated the
relationship for as long as i did ~ it wasn't until about 9 yrs
ago that i finally said enough is enough and started doing what i
wanted to do that the proverbial "sh_t" hit the fan ~ and then things
went from mediocre to really bad ~ so sagpashon ~ i think that you know what
you need to do ~ just don't do like i did and waste precious time staying
with someone that doesn't appreciate you for who you really
are ~ the gregarious, fun loving, adventurous creature you are!
"Be True To Yourself"

MP & BB
saggirl57

oh and by the way.....i divorced him 2yrs ago and am now
the massage therapist i always wanted to be & am in a very happy
realtionship with a man who is 13yrs younger than me and understands me
more than anyone has ever understood me in my life on this plane....so dreams do
come true....sometimes they just take time and patience....LOL

MP & BB
saggirl57 😉

Take it from a Taurus Girlie, sweetie. It's not that we Taureans mean to be jealous, possessive, and smothering, It's just the way that we work. Our possessiveness comes from our need to be with our partner. Your boyfriend's possessivness is probobly a sign of his affections for you. Taureans are extremely sensual and affectionate when they care about someone. And they, in turn, expect that affection to be returned to tehm.

Tell him how you feel and be open with him. Maybe he didn't mean to off as he did. And yes, Taureans are prone to stay in unhealthy realationships. We do this because we feel that maybe we need to give it another shot. Talk to him and ask him if he's unhappy with the relationship. Because if you are both are truly unhappy with your relationship you should go your separate ways.

Don't feel down though Saggie, Taureans can be some of the loving, generous, affectionate people you'll meet. Good luck to ya!

68.129.81.194 ~ yes you are right, they are passionate & loving, but they are also the cruelest when they when things don't go their way.
When my ex and I had our falling out, he totally disowned me like I never existed before, this after 22yrs of marriage and me telling him that he needed to be more open w/me and tell me what was going on!
So when I did leave, he acted like it was the biggest surprise in the world & I was the most evil person who existed in it. All of this after staying w/him through a breakdown, a radical job change after 21yrs and putting all my wants and needs on the back burner, so yeah maybe I am a little "pissed". LOL..
I know Taurus's can be slow and methodical & take their time when coming to a conculsion or decision, but goddess sake! 22yrs!!??
So Taurus's aren't the only ones who "stick" in a realationship, us Saggie's are known for doing the same thing, even though our instincts tell us diff. When you love someone, you have a tendancy to not listen to your inner guides a lot. 😉
And, you're going to love this ~ I'm a Taurus rising...LOL so I know all about the passion & committment, but I also know how to forgive past disgressions, whereas he didn't, couldn't or wouldn't. After forgiving him for all his past hurts to me...he couldn't forgive the one time I "strayed". So go figure...

Anywho, just wanted to respond to ya....i actually enjoy taurus, until they get the "me" syndrome going too much and then I can't take it anymore. As a friend put it once: "you've pushed those buttons until they are worn out and falling off, there are no more button's for you to push"

MP & BB & May the Goddess Light & Love Shine Down on You and Yours,

saggirl57

My sag - former boyfriend - is a fantastic lover, extremely erotic and a greta pleaser While In the Act and loves to brag about good sex he enjoys (with whatever mate he has at the time). BUT when it comes to "Romantic" , as in a continuing relationship and feeling of affection - he doesn't know the meaning of those words.

I dated a sag shortly after ending it with a taurus, so I feel you when you say that sags are not as romantic. My taurus was very sensual, and oh so yummy. He made me walk on air. My sag kissed me alive when I was with him, and he was definitely a better match for me than taurus was, but I really wished he was a bit more sensual. The floor lights in his romance department were definitely switched off.
...He was very charming none-the-less.
Goodluck with yours.

Posted by sagPashon
i am a sag female and my man is a taurus and he always complains that i am not romantic enough with him, and i treat him like sh.., i personally feel that no one should be with a person they are not happy with, i hear taureans do not like to change, and seem to stay in long term relationships even when its going bad....some1 tell me whats'up, do you feel that sags are not romantic?

I know three cases so far. One in real life. Two on dxpnet.