Taurus-Sagittarius attraction

Hello everyone,

Just finished browsing the web looking for Sag-Taurus compatibility and they are rare,hence I would like to have you or any Sagittarius take a look at these positions and share any similar experience you've had.I would much appreciate it,thank you in advance!

Me-Taurus(april 20),Gemini rising,Gemini moon,Gemini Venus,Aquarius Mars,7th house in Cap.
Him-Sag(nov 30),Cancer rising,Aqua moon,Cap Venus,Cancer Mars.

We've been at each other??s necks for about 10 months now,without any commitment but emotions are being stirred,at least on my side.Don't even know what to do anymore but ignore him.The chemistry is out of this world,we cannot stop touching each other.Not much emotional affinity.We fight like nobody else yet we still stay in touch and do not commit to other people.Why?

I think taurus is the worst sign

ya i said it

Any signs can work. It's all up to the individual person.
Let me tell you from my experience. Short story here:
Me, a Virgo and my wife, a Sagittarius, we get along great. We make it work because we??re willing to compromise. Also, we've also taken a pre-marital class before we got married.

During our engagement we found each other Love Language. Hers is —Quality Time??, followed by —Act of Service??, then —Physical Touch??. This works. If you are having difficulties with your significant other, find their love Language" Explained.

We also did the Dave Ramsey??s Financial Peace University (FPU). I'm the Nerd and she's the Free Spirit, no surprise there. What's surprising is what Dave says. Every relationship needs to have a Nerd and Free Spirit, you need opposites. This keeps the relationship alive.

Anyways, my wife and I have two couples as friends, and they??re both a Taurus-Sagittarius relationship. The girls are Taurus, the guys are Sagittarius.

At first, it looked like both relationships were doomed. Why? Because sags loves their freedom and independence, wow! Do they ever! It took a bit for my wife get over her independence and learned to live as one. But when she did, she opened her heart like never before.

Taurus-Sagittarius relationship couple #1? At first he wanted things done his way. He was headstrong in his position. My wife told her don't back down and she didn't. She was moving out, packed and ready to go. He saw that she was serious. He finally caved in. They both changed their ways. THEY COMPROMISED! A year later, he proposed. They are the happiest couple.

Taurus-Sagittarius relationship couple #2? He's headstrong with his freedom. And baby on the way. No resolution yet.

I told couple #2, they need to compromise. You??re both living as one. Every decision you make involves the both of you.

What helped us was learning our love languages. When I do things for my wife without her asking??_ wow, her eyes light up. It's amazing learning more about my wife every day.

"The Five Love Languages" Explained
The Five Love Languages
- Words of Affirmation
- Quality Time
- Gifts
- Acts of Service
- Physical Touch

Sagittarius are OBVIOUSLY the BEST sign of the zodiac. They??re rare to find, one of a kind. Incredible, insatiable lovers. They??re exciting, never a bore. They a have a keen eye for fashion and trends. I needed help in that department. Did I say amazing in bed!!!

@Sag89

There's no such thing as 'worst sign'.

@muffdivingvirgo

Thank you for your thorough answer and taking the time to share your experience with me.Me and him are still young though and on our paths to individual success.I just feel a quiet,unexplainable love for him.

@everyone else

I am born April 20.All my life I thought I was an Aries,only to have recently done a birth chart and to discover that I am Sun in first degrees of Taurus.My Moon,Venus and rising are all in Gemini though.My Mercury in Aries,and 3 Capricorn planets in my 7th house of Marriage.I have Descendant in Sag so maybe that's why I keep attracting Sags in my life.

Needless to say,his Descendant in Cap and my Descendant in Sag just overlap each other(houses).I don't know much of how it would astrologically manifest,I just know that in this particular scenario with him,it's indescribable.We don't even have to talk,we look at each other and understand each other..and again,we cannot stop touching each other.We hold hands at all times.

I don't know how to continue with this so I am just ignoring him.

venus in cap in men are SLOW to commit, if they decide to commit at all. he peeped some red flags within you that he isnt quite sold on yet. so he's hedging his bets.

in the future, i would post the full chart including the outer planets because there may be some uranus or saturn at work.

id just continue to see other people, like u 2 have been doing.

So, what is the problem?

Do you want to be with him? Does he want to be with you?

If you want to be together, then make it work. All relationships take work. There's give and take.

I see many relationships where it is one sided. One person is selfish, the other submissive. Or I see couples are lazy at making it work. And they just go through the day to day life being complacent, wasting each other??s time.

Or, I often see the following:

Couples often —fight?? for months, sometimes years over a —thermostat?? setting.
What I mean is, he likes it really warm and constantly shows and wants to be shown love. She is likes it cooler and dislikes constantly being barraged with —love?? as it makes her feel emotionally crowded. She starts seeing him as —clingy and insecure?? and she withdraws. He clings harder, she pulls further back feeling ever more crowded. Sex dies and he frantically tries to raise the temperature using an ever increasing stream of love. She loses respect and ends it or has an affair.
When you overheat someone with too much love, THEIR natural reaction is to try to —cool off?? by giving you less love and less OR by provoking conflict to get you to go BACK UP. And they often reduce/stop having sex with you because when they already feel overheated/claustrophobic the LAST thing they want is the intense closeness of sex.

This happened in my last marriage. I??ve learned to find a balance.

Again, I'm not exactly sure what's happening in your relationship, but don't rely so much on the astrology side of things. Keep it simple. He's a Sagittarius, you??re a Taurus.

Sagittarius - the free spirit, too flighty, they love their freedom
Taurus - the nerd, stubborn, need security

You mentioned, you??re both young. Take this time to find yourselves. Get your careers going, especially you Taurus. Get that nursing degree, you have the need for security. You have a knack for living a life of comfort and luxury.

@DMV

Thanks for your reply.Yes I did explode a few times and then disappeared on him because I needed time to regain myself.I asked him what he wanted from me a few days ago and he told me he does not want a relationship right now because he has no time for that but he does not want to lose me either and if I decide to leave,he won't let me.But I do not need his approval so I left.Yes,I'll be dating other people and focus on myself.I include the whole chart,if you would be so kind as to peek at it.OR ANYONE ELSE-THANK YOU

ME:
Sun Taurus in house 11
Moon Gemini in house 12
Mercury Aries in house 11
Venus Gemini in house 12
Mars Aquarius in house 9
Jupiter Taurus in house 11
Saturn Capricorn in house 7
Uranus Capricorn in house 7
Neptune Capricorn in house 7
Pluto Scorpio end of house 5
True Node Pisces in house 10

House positions:

Ascendant Gemini
2nd House Cancer
3rd House Leo
Imum Coeli Leo
5th House Virgo
6th House Scorpio
Descendant Sagittarius
8th House Capricorn
9th House Aquarius
Medium Coeli Aquarius
11th House Pisces
12th House Taurus

Him:
Sun Sagittarius in house 6
Moon Aquarius in house 9
Mercury Scorpio in house 5
Venus Capricorn in house 7
Mars Cancer in house 1
Jupiter Libra in house 4
Saturn Aquarius in house 8
Uranus Capricorn end of house 6
Neptune Capricorn in house 7
Pluto Scorpio in house 5
True Node Sagittarius in house 6

House positions:

Ascendant Cancer 16??08'59
2nd House Leo 1??36'00
3rd House Leo 19??45'04
Imum Coeli Virgo 14??16'56
5th House Libra 20??33'58
6th House Sagittarius 7??37'02
Descendant Capricorn 16??08'59
8th House Aquarius 1??36'00
9th House Aquarius 19??45'04
Medium Coeli Pisces 14??16'56
11th House Aries 20??33'58
12th House Gemini 7??37'02



Sorry for the length folks.

@Muffdivingvirgo

We both do not want a relationship.We are busy with digrees,careers,jobs,travelling but we met and I admit I have caught feelings.bad.Naturally,as a woman,I would want more and I do,I just don't know how to go about it.I don't see him committing very soon.And I come across as a Gemini more,duality just defines my personality and life,completely.

interesting that you have Saturn in Cap in the 7th. From what ive read, people with Saturn in the 7th or even venus in cap in the 7th, venus sq saturn, etc dont have much success in relationships till well after their saturn return. with all your 7th house saturn going on, i can see why your attracted to him and him 2 you.. .

since the 2 of you have saturn affecting the 7th house, do you reinforce insecurity issues within each other?

also, if he says he isnt ready. BELIVE HIM. men with this placement are workaholics and until they get to a level where things will be EVEN financially, his mind wont be on you. it will be on the $ $ .
do you feel a bit of this in him or you?

also, im glad that you made it clear to him that you wont wait around for him. if you keep the friend thing going, benefits will come (wink wink) but you may grow together and learn all that karmic shit together.

@DMV

Thanks so much for your reply.YOU MAKE SENSE to me.Isn't a 7th house Saturn supposed to kind of make us repel each other yet also bind us together?

Funny you would mention 'insecurities'. Yes,I noticed that when we support each other and shower each other with affection,we both shine mentally and physically.We are each others fans.And yes,when we fight or when we do not communicate,it affects us also.I feel depleted and I have noticed that he comes around but does not know what to say or how to express himself.He'll just tell me he likes me so much-like a broken record.I need facts not words though.

He is a workaholic,very driven and motivated especially for his age.I've never met anyone this focused.I am the same but sometimes,with all my Gemini planets,I tend to lose focus.He grounds me.

I did make it clear but I know I'll hear from him in a few days,like nothing ever happened.That frustrates me to no extent.So I'll keep him as a friend and see how long it takes for him to crack.If ever.

First time we met,it was like coming home.At least for me,I never felt so glued to someone and I am not that romantic.And I have had difficulty leaving him behind before.For mysterious reasons,I cant just 'delete' him.For some reason,I want him 'there' too.And that's kind of what I feel from him too.

yes, saturn does bind people together because when to saturn people come together, the hope is they rely on the seriousness of each other.

but for some reason, the men with this venus take friggin forever to "come around" and see the light.

if you so choose to stay, 2 things will happen. 1.) you will have built the framework for a lasting relationship Or 2.) seeing that you both have saturn in the 7th (practically) you both move on to greener pastures.

if you were both over 30, i'd tell you to stick around. Since you both well under 30, you have so much more living to do that i would hope you both work out your issues through other people. gain some experience and then get into a saturnic relationship like this.

your post actually made me go "yup." because i fancy a sag with a venus in cap. A few users on DXP are involved with this combo. i am also a sag with a venus in cap. we both raise insecurities in each other but something keeps you going back. insanity maybe?

Funny you would mention 'insecurities'. Yes,I noticed that when we support each other and shower each other with affection,we both shine mentally and physically.We are each others fans.And yes,when we fight or when we do not communicate,it affects us also.I feel depleted and I have noticed that he comes around but does not know what to say or how to express himself.He'll just tell me he likes me so much-like a broken record.I need facts not words though.

yes yes yes. i get this 2. the hot and cold dance is wearing thin on my patience, but goat love is interesting.

.For mysterious reasons,I cant just 'delete' him.For some reason,I want him 'there' too.And that's kind of what I feel from him too.

you both also have pluto in the 5th. aww so do i and you attract people who dont wanna let go 🙂

use your moon in the 12 skills and blow his mind away with some of your intuition. his merc in scorp will get butterflies. 🙂

@DMV

Could you tell me more about Saturn in the 7th please?Especially how it plays out in our synastry here?I've only read negative things about it,like how we are basically doomed in relationships.I think that's fluff.I'm a very positive individual,I believe in experiencing life from a place of love and abundance at all times so these SERIOUS remarks make me go ''erg''.

It's funny you would tell us to do that.I feel however that I've been on this growing path for some time now and he came into my life at this particular time too.I don't wanna read into it though,I wanna break that habit.

Haha@insanity.Just a week ago we had another row and then I just texted him that he gives me headaches and then he told me to just go take an aspirin,cause he'd already taken 2 because of me.Made me burst out laughing and I forgot why we had been arguing in the first place.Uh,I love him like that.

This is my first goat.My previous relationship that lasted 6 looooong years was with a Pisces with Sag rising and Leo and Sag planets everywhere.It's like I keep attracting Sags somehow.


I do not want to let him go,I just wish he would be more expressive.With his Mercury in Scorpio though..blah.

Blow his mind how?HOW?Haha..well I kind of feel like he also has feelings for him but sits on them like a hen.I cant pull the words out of his mouth with tongs though can I?😄 I WISH.

So you are a Sag with Venus cappy.What is it about you people?Just when I think he's only another wild raging horse,he says or does something so GROUNDING that I'm left in awe.You see for me its crucial that I have respect for my partner.

When I go into Gemini bickering rage he listens,laughs,understands or tells me to shut it and I ACTUALLY feel compelled to,cause I know I can be overwhelming.Ah.

Posted by SUT2pointoh

Posted by Sag89
I think taurus is the worst sign

If Im looking at that statement from a Sagittarius POV I agree wholeheartedly. But there are no worst signs.

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Thanks. Well I mean I dislike it the most of any

Posted by Taurusgem
@Sag89

There's no such thing as 'worst sign'.

Exactly why I don't like them. Don't tell how to think like it's a fact. Soo boring snoreeee

Any Sag guy out there with a decent opinion? 🙂Especially a Sag with a Cappy Venus?

Thanks guys

Posted by Taurusgem
Any Sag guy out there with a decent opinion? 🙂Especially a Sag with a Cappy Venus?

Thanks guys

Decent opinion? Are you insinuating that you didn't get decent opinions from us?

I take my advice all back.

@DMV

I actually thanked you personally and wrote to you in length.Why so hostile?You r appreciated.

It was directed at those who came here only to talk about how bad a sign Taurus is.Like ridiculous.Why bother say smth if its nonsense 🙂

^ Guess what? People aren't always going to like you. Get overself.

@Sag89

Who are you talking to?LOL

I'm from the UK.
We use the word 'decent' casually,in everyday convos.'Decent' as in in depth-in this particular case.

LOL..why is everyone so serious,laugh a little 🙂

Posted by Taurusgem
@Sag89

Who are you talking to?LOL

You taurus lol but you seem to be handling it well, so maybe you and your sag will be just fine 🙂

@Sag89

Hahaha well thank you,that's sweet.He hasn't said shit in 5 days though.woke up today missing that sucker.Ah well.

You share the same bday as my sister,I see.Half the time I wanna strangle her and the other half I can't live without her 🙂

Wtf@butter

I bet he'll be back!