What do i do about the one that i love?

I have a problem with the one I love. We started as friends and now almost two years later I'm in love with him. We always had special moments but he always said we couldn't be together for different reasons. Everytime a different reason. Althought he loves me to. Now he went away for a while and I'm moving to FL. I miss him so much. What do i do. Please help me.

I sympathize with your problem, as I was in a similar situation once. The thing that I have found through experience, is that no matter how much two people love each other, if they're not both willing to commit everything they have to making a relationship work, it will fail. Giving excuses, or "warning" someone about themself is another thing that some people do to avoid taking responsibility for their actions in a relationship - after all, they told you from the beginning they were immature/a jerk/non-commital. I was devastated when I figured this out the hard way, but I think that once you find a great person who is just as crazy to be with you as you are to be with them, it will be so much sweeter, and you'll be glad you didn't settle. I know I am 🙂 Hope this helps.

Believe the old addage. If you let love go and it comes back to you, it's meant to be.
Move on and meet someone else. When "your love" sees you moving on they'll either come back or be happy for you.
Either way you win.

what is with us sag's and love?! goddammit!!! i've been friends with a guy for 5 years, and i was in love with him for the bulk of the first four. i have finally gotten over him and we are great friends but i just found out that he has fallen madly in love with me!!! ARGH!!!!!!! WHAT IN GOD'S NAME DO I DO?!? (that's kinda funny, cuz i'm an atheist, but it's just a saying)

If you love someone and at first can't live without them then u do everything in your power to get that person.

Hey I can relate to your problem. I have recently started a relationship
with someone who has been a friend for years. Its strange and different unique with the friendship thing coming first before that damn love/lust thing. But his life is very complicated and he is divorcing his wife. So there are many reasons why timing isn't great right now. So what are your friend/boyfriends reasons? Do they make sense or seem like excuses? That is what I would want to know. Good luck!!!!!!!

Maybe you should start making a list of all the things you want out of a mate and concentrate on that list a great deal. Are you really in love with him our are you just full of curiosity. If you had him, would he treat you perfectly? If he is the one, a calm should wash over you and these anxious feelings you have about the relationship will become a distant memory.

i no the feeling i am in love with my man it has been 2 years but i have many people attracted to me and it is very aggrivating i should just be a loner and i am bald to things off

i no the feeling i am in love with my man it has been 2 years but i have many people attracted to me and it is very aggrivating i should just be a loner and i am bald to top things off

Jazmin, I even though I have never been in your situation, I feel that you should do what YOU feel that

Jazmin, I even though I have never been in your situation, I feel that you should do what YOU feel that YOU want to do. If YOU want the guy back, go for it! But if you don't, tell him he's a dollar short and a day late and move on.

Veronica, you need to know exactly what you want from a future husband. This guy is wrong for you. Break up.