WHY can men sleep with so many girls and its OK—

Why is it that men can sleep with mad girlz and he''s cool but if a girl sleeps with over 5 guys they''re considered a whore?And why is it that some guys LIKE girls who sleep around?I find male-whores a turn off but some guys like it that a girl sleeps around?Why—??Do they like diseases—Do they like sleepin with someone who is as wide as a pool—I figured they''d rather have sex with a clean girl but i guess not huh??

i don't understand either. it's nice to have a variety of mens underwear to play with.

I think that we live in a "double-standard," society, where women have been looked down upon for so long, look how long it took us to get to where we are according to "Women's Liberation." Seriously. You are entitled to have sex with whoever you wish, just as long as protection is used, and that should be all that matters. Well,to some people, they get jealous when they discover a girl scored with a numerous amount of men, I'm not saying you per se, I'm just saying women in general...and it's an insecurity trip that our society has been on for years. I heard this quote once,"A man can sleep with 100 women, and wake up a man,but if a woman were to sleep with 3 men, they are a whore," and we ask ourselves, where is the line drawn, and who's the lesser of the two evils? Do you know what I mean, I'm definitely on your side on this issue...it's sick how "us" women get pinned and stereotyped, but men don't. They are called "playas," and it's considered,"cool, or hip," but if a women does it,"oh, what a whore, slut, "chicken head." See my point? It's sick, but it's your body, and I keep my secret sexual rendevous a secret, it's no body's business but ours..right? So, why do guys spread gossip? To look good in front of his "homies," or "boys," and it's sad, and pathetic...that's why I lay the rules down before hand,and they act all shady. If you only knew what I'd been thru, and I'm sure you have too...it's unavoidable. Men can be the sweetest on earth, but behind your back, they can be deceptively cruel...to no fault of yours. I'm a Karma believer, "What goes around,COmes around," and this goes for gossipers too..esp them. See where I'm going with this?Anyhoo...I hope this claifies things for you...I'm in your corner, and I understand..and I also think that as long as we ae using protection, precautions, and what not, that's the only thing that should be important, and on top of that...it should be "love," that brings things into perspective..I've learned this thru experience...a man could tell you he loves you..it's all about actions speak louder than words, just don't take "I love you," and leave it at that...K? This guy once told me he loved me, and three months later, he dumped me, and said he never loved me, and he used me for sex, and I don't think that I've ever felt so low, dirty, and my self esteem took a fall.So, there you have it...k? Keep in touch...k? Love,new bud,Heidi C.

Those guys who like girls who sleep around are pigs. I know there are better guys out there, and if we're lucky we will find them. People sleep around because they want to fill I quess cared about. Myself personaly I don't think people should be sleeping around with people. It's not cool, if a guy told me that he had all these girls I would strait up tell him he's sick and he aint getting anything from me. There is more to people than just one thing, get to know people, find out who they are. I think waiting to have sex is a good thing, then you can find out if the guy really likes you, because if you start off with sex maybe that's all he likes about you.

I don't know why guys do this, it has to do a lot with are society thinking it's alright. Look at tv, sex, sex, and more sex. We all learn at an early age. It's up to the people who raise us to tell us what right or wrong. It's not ok to have sex with people, I know that one day people who do that they will end of with a kid or much more than they bargained for. Everyone just please use protection.

I do not think it's OK for a man or woman to sleep around. I do see that in this day and age and over a lifetime of trying to find someone to share a life with, that a person could end up with more than 5 partners.
As for me, I have had 3 in my life. Though that's going to change since I just ended a 24 year marriage.

Guys are just stupid sometimes. They will realize that when the do get infected with something nasty. I don't understend neither.

u r strange. eva heard the more the merrier? thats how sum peeple feel personally id rather sleep with a bloke that hasnt slept with loads of peeple but thats just me!

I'm just as stumped as you are.

i so agree with the "unknown" i think u are so sweet and nice. im like u i want to wait to have sex with someone special and someone who is going to love me for the rest of my life, but i feel that my dream will never come to reality. all guys i attract are so sleezy easy and nasty, it makes me sick that they even think that they have a chance. i lost all my hopes of ever finding true love, these days everyone is so sex obsessed and i dont understand why.people get shocked when i tell them im still a virgin coz im almost 20, and they are all like well u r so pretty what the hell have u been waiting for. and i hate it, that is why i prefer to stay single, until i find true love.

Because they are MEN! I guess they can do it and not be emotionally attached and maybe some women can to, but not usually! Not me!

Why is it women complain about this one double standard when men have a lot more that go against them?

No woman wants to be cheated on! I hope you don't think that I condone it because I don't!!!

And 63,

I don't understand your comment! What do men have more going against them—

Please do explain!

men that treetrunk around are hoes themselves.

haha tree trunk.. -_-'LuZ

I think that men look at it as a whole they think that they are doing something right and that they will have braging rights later. I think that it makes a man feel macho. I know alot of girls that sleep around and alot that bragg about it. I think that for both sexes it is wrong and should not be done and then u have the ones that go out and get drunk and get the first peice of ass that falls in thier lap (guys and girls). I have an old friend that just popped up to see me not to long ago unexpected and she told me at age 19 that she had been with 22 people, *URGH* I couldnt imagine. I feel that sex is something very spirtual that you want to share with someone very special in your life, not just give it up to who ever had some peice of equipment u would like to borrow for the night (get my drift). I think that anyone who has to be looking for sex all the time from someone is not happy within themselves therefore they go looking for it, maybe it is to be at peace with themselves and feel wanted. I dont know that is all that I can think about that....oh one more thing.....masterbation works really well, so for those to find the need somewhere else try and explore yourself first you would be surprised the outcome that you will get.

Nite everyone have a good nite, I would be looking for your responses to my post very soon. 🙂

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205, YOU have a great sense of humor....Happy Discovering 🙂

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