Any advice will be appreciated

Hello everybody. Every since I told my Scorp that I had feelings for him he has been acting different. I've a bit more open with myself and my thoughts to him. He is calling more than usual and also has requested to see me. (he lives in another state). Any opionons or advice? I am kind of thrown off and do not know how to react. Should I continue to be open when needed. I'm just kind of bewildered and don't wantto take things the wrong way.

Continue to be open when needed, yes. As long as the rapport between the two of you is going well, keep doing what you're doing and don't change anything or he'll get suspicious.

Congratulations (right? you're happy about all this, correct? lol)! 🙂

First of all do you want this relationship?

Scorpio's are not very complex.

Only when they are insecure... That isn't a word that a Scorpio would say on their behalf.. But they are believe me.

They don't like games, they are not crude useless they feel people are crude to them, and then they are.

You need to put everything on the line at this point with your Scorpio. Your feelings, your heart, your future.

I am telling you the truth. He may go away, but he will ponder it. If you touch him profoundly, He is yours.

Libra that married Mr. Scorpio 3 years ago... Sure we are still two people don't ever forget that part. You can't change and neither will he.

It's pretty easy Huh~~~~

CG

The descriptions of Scorpios from outsiders who aren't Scorpios are interesting. I'm not sure we can truly be known, internally, enough for anyone to say that we are not complex. I should only speak for myself, though. I feel about eight hundred times more complex internally than anyone would ever guess I would be, and even though I tend to allow significant others a little more access to that internal life than I would anyone else, I have yet to fully let anyone in. Maybe that's how all humans are, though.

I guess my point is that I actually think we are always complex, but yes, far more so when upset/insecure/angry etc. When we are happy, our needs become very simple. But very definite. I agree with just about all that Candle Girl said.

Just a little friendly warning, softy. 😛 Maybe "preparation" would be a better word.

You know I really meant-- Not as complex as everyone makes them out to be. In other words, heck they can be very complex, but if they open up to you, you have a chance to understand that complexity easier.

I am a Libra with a Scorpio rising, though not a Sun sign Scop I have a big part in my chart of Scorp. Also my Dad, Stepmom, Husband, and three girlfriends are all Scorpios so I've been around them a lot.

I'm just trying to help!!

Idon't know if I should be happy....because whenever I think things might start to get deeper,,He keeps doing the push-pull thing. When he calls me, he sits on the phone and doesn't sauy much. Its as if we both feel akward and although I like him very much the akwardeness (is that a word) is atrting to become a bit much. Its as though I still get butterflies whhen I'm on the phone with him or around him....and he seems the same way. the only difference is that I know I feel this way because I have deep felings for him. I don't understand why he acts this way though. I would like to think its because he may care for me as well but with him being a Scorpio I just can't tell for sure.My intuition tell sme that he does,,,but its not a guarantee and I always doubt it.

Once agin, sorry for the misspellings. I can spell. I am just always in a hurry. LOL

Softy,

Don't doubt, Scorpios have a hard time expressing there emotions and he is probably scared of getting hurt too, you know I just remembered something, one night I was out with some friends and I left something in the car I was on my way back and I ran into this guy, he was attractive kind of mysterious looking, I politely said hello, he said hi you know should not be walking out here by yourself I said o, its okay my friends are over there, he said I will walk you, I said thanks, we started to chat and I knew, I said are you a Scorpio he started to laugh and said how did you know, I just know I said. I asked why he was going home so early he said he was tired and did not really care to be out, I said o, must be going home to your girl, he said no actually I don't have a girlfriend or have never been in a serious relationship, I asked well there must have been someone you loved or had feelings for he said no, I don't put myself in that situation. And then he said, I DONT WANT TO GET HURT. It must be true that these wonderful Scorpio's have such deep emotion they are so scared of revealing them to the wrong person and getting hurt in return. I guess you must be gentle with them, even though they look as tough as nails they all just want unconditional love like everyone else.

Candle Girl - I wasn't trying to criticize your post, I apologize if it came across that way. I just think about it in a different way and wanted to give that perspective too. No offense meant. 🙂