Break Up Story

so the final straw w/ the latest scorpio ex:

i help him clean his house and put his ikea couch together for his stupid derby party of which all his closest friends are attending

i am being my sweet little self trying to entertain all his friends/help out in the kitchen and all of a sudden his ex girlfriend's sister shows up and just takes over. (he never warned me she was coming, never made mention of it at all, actually)
then he proceeds to ignore me.
then his b*tch neighbor who is always super rude/insulting to me (in front of the ex even) shows up (because apparently he felt the need to invite her too)
then he proceeds to blatantly flirt loudly with his neighbor in front of every single one of his friends as i stood there blankly staring at them

it was so humiliating i will never speak to him again

anyone else have a "fun" story? lol

they say when some scorp men like you, they treat you like crap in front of their friends, but this took it to the extreme

Scorpra

First, define the flirt please!

I make jokes in public to the opposite sex sometimes, but they never should be taken seriously. When I have more of an interest in someone, I am more reserved and can run out of inventive lines.... instead of being flirtatious.


Too bad about the nasty bitch neighbour. If she wants to be bitch, then bitch her back. Sometimes that will be good way for bullying the bully! If you go complaining to Scorp guy, he will think you are controlling his life, you are too whiny and cannot handle pressure.


HOWEVER...


if you firmly believe that he flirted with that woman in a more serious way....

after all you have done for him to help out around HIS party, it means he took your good intentions for granted. As the saying goes

**NO good deed goes unpunished✨*


if so, then it is best that you move on rather earlier than later when you get more attached and have a disrespectful, insensitive, non-loving guy on your side and feel even more neglected and disrespected. You may realize that you are the only one doing all the work.


I'm not sure what the RULES of dating tell you today, but I am learning to tell the guy my piece of mind, which makes me feel good! Then I walk away with my chin up...

I used to stay quiet about these things, not anymore! I learned not to regret what comes out of my mouth



But that decision is yours of course....

FUMRedFairy_tales,

—Scorpra

First, define the flirt please!??

well, it probably wouldn't have bothered me as much, if the neighbor girl wasn't rude to me. but he sees her act like that (or maybe he is just oblivious). and when we go by her in passing, he ALWAYS has to stop and then they are like two chatty cathy dolls smiling, talking laughing on and on, and if i try to pipe in and include myself in the conversation, he will give me a weird look, so i just walk away now and let them talk, otherwise i would just be standing there looking at them and it would be like —their little world??, and i'm just standing on the outside staring in like an idiot.

then she makes underhanded comments and what seem to be —jabs?? at me all the time, right In front of him. it's just sooo weird to me, i don't understand what is going on, because she is engaged and lives with her fianc?.
but i HAVE expressed how i feel about all this to him before and nothing has changed, so when she shows up at the party and it all happened again right in front of his friends, i had had about enough of it.

LoL, you take a lot of crap.

well the way i handled it was, i sat my mojito down on the table and walked out the front door. then returned the next morning at 8 AM to get my shit. done.

so, no i don't think there will be any talking about it. lol.

plus i look at it this way, if i have to say "hey honey, can you not ignore me and treat me like crap in front of your friends this time?" we have a real issue.

if i ever see his stupid neighbor out anywhere, it doesn't matter where, when, how or who is around. i am going to rip her a new one so wide, she won't know what happened to her.

he wasn't an ex at the time of the party.

that's ok, i already cut him off.

🙂