Can I apologize to this scorpio girl?

I really like this Scorpio girl a lot last year, we constantly played the hot and cold game, but really never talked, but there was always this very strong sexual tension between us, she always acted like she wanted to talk to me but she would never because she would get too nervous/hesitant and any time we did talk she wouldn't be able to look into my eyes at all she got too nervous she always smiled, but the more I smiled at her the more nervous she got, she made me so confused and unsure, I didn't want to come on too strong, any time I did she would back off/ get more nervous, and any time I backed off she would come on really strong. it was a constant game of hot and cold and it was a bit frustrating. Anyways at the end of the year I was talking to my friend and I was just a bit frustrated about the relationship between the Scorpio girl and I, also she sits close to my friend and I, with another friend, so she always could hear everything I said, also she always stared at me with those hypnotic Scorpio eyes, anyways I was being a hothead , and very stupid, and I said quite loudly to my friend that I don't talk to other people in my class because I don't find them important enough to talk to, and I said it quite harshly (keep in mind that the Scorpio girl that I liked heard this, plus we never had a serious conversation). I looked over at her when I said this and I instantly regretted what I said she had a very hurt expression on her face, and she was trying to hide it, it kinda looked like someone had slapped her, I felt so horrible, I really didn't mean what I said, at that time I still really cared for her I was just so frustrated by the hot and cold aspect of the relationship, after that the last few days of school, she wouldn't even look at me/ she would ignore me, I think I killed the attraction she had to me, I still really care for her, I just don't know what to do, Is there anyway I can repair the relationship? This year she still looks at me in the hallways but if I look at her she has no expression on her face what should i do?

communication es key

Posted by westside
communication es key

I know that but how should I apologize and also do you think I offended her?

Posted by Suport
got any earth or water in you?

Yes I have more water than fire in my char actually

Posted by misopretty
Well you have to reverse what you said that may have of offended her. You basically have to retract your statement or alter in such a way that she doesn't feel she is included in this group of "unimportant people." Do this by your actions. You'll figure it out.. Also this may just be a little foreshadowing of the tone of any developing relationship being cultivated between you two with the "hot and cold" games. Just something to keep in mind. Clarify with your actions and be straight with your words. Damnit, i need some coffee.

Thank you so much for your advice, it is very insightful.

Posted by FireDragonScorpio
yep. she'll be analysing what you said over and over for sure. but if she likes you, it won't have been enough to put her off you, in fact it may get her liking you a little more. scorps love the unattainable side of aries men but only when we feel a part of your inner circle. fiery combo though...definitely not for the faint hearted. it was the most toxic relationship i had but i know others that have been very successful so it seems like it can go either way for scorp and aries.

So how do I make her feel apart of my inner circle though? and is it bad that she is trying to avoid eye contact with me? because I can feel her look at me, but If I look at her she acts like she doesn't notice.