cancer and scorpio?

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freefallin
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Hey guys,

I (cancer female) met a scorpio male through a mutual friend and it was during a shitty period for him, where he felt like his fianc? was leaving him. We spoke during the shitty time and i tried to give what advice/opinions i had when he asked. He has said that in the end he just wanted it over and didn't care anymore. Anyways, have been communicating via text/email the whole time (2-3months?), and really click. He's commented on how much of the same wavelength we are, and Ive made similar observations- its as though we don't have to explain some things because we get it, without words. We've been talking (email and text, mostly text) everyday since I gave him my contact information. I honestly thought that him and his girl were going to work things out initially, i tend to give ppl the benefit of the doubt, and was kind of surprised to hear the details and the outcome. Especially since everything I've heard and am coming to see about him leaves me w the impression he's quite a catch.
We hung out recently and had a great time, though we had joked after about how we are each a bit shy initially, this wasn't a problem and we had a blast. We've made plans for a few more get togethers in the near future. He seems like great guy, and i can see myself being very interested in him romantically. i tend to slow-play relationships, go figure, and noticed he has been a little flirty with me recently. We're both "old fashioned" in the sense that neither of us are the type to just sleep around or rush into anything.. Ive a few friends who are into astrology who say that this relationship would be pretty great. I wanted to get more insight since I'm still learning about astrology, though everything i read online agrees with what my friends have said. The other part that I'm curious about is the fact that he is a scorp/sag cusp... and what kind/if that makes a difference. thanks in advance for any opinions or insight.
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DarkRoseNF14
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Well, if you really want to capture his heart, you have to SHOW him you care..
It doesn't matter how many times you tell him, he'll be doubtful, show him in the most
simple ways.. Cancers are very deep and sensitive so better watch what you tell him, and
the Scorpio/cancer combination is a great one, you'll be able to understand each easily and have fun
in the weirdest ways.. The fact that he's recovering quickly from his previous relationship could be
an indication that he wasn't truly in love or satisfied.. She probably didn't SHOW him she cared enough.
A cancer man will always look for a stable and serious relationship, which is great because you probably
seek that too since you're a Scorpio.. 🙂
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DarkRoseNF14
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Never mind I got confused, but all that I said also applies to a Scorpio, we like to be shown AND told we're loved.. If we don't have that in a relationship, no matter
how hard it'll be, we'll move on to something better.. We're love suckers.. Stable and serious relationships are what we seek, if you're just flirting, we'll pick it up and maybe consider as
a way of having fun if we're hurt, nothing more or serious.. However, if you show him you really like him, he'll feel loved and if he was hurt, he'll start feeling like he's healing.. Also, we have tendencies
To become very cynical and aggressive if hurt 'cause we're really sensitive.. Small meaningless comments, especially if mocking or criticizing, will have a great and not so great impact on him.. Watch what you say.. Water signs are really sensitive, but when hurt, a scorpio will take every opportunity to hurt you back.. Yeah, we're old school but deep down we have "desires".. So try something new every now and then, it'll strengthen your relationship.. take it nice and steady, not too slow, and see where it goes (: