Cancer and Scorpio relationshiop ended. Help!

Hey guys I am new here so Hello to all! I just want to see what everyone thinks for the problems I have been having and really need other people's inputs.

Ok well I was dating a Scorpio for about 4 and half years. We did split last year because we agreed we where having problems. We would see each other EVERY day and I think that added to our fights. The Scorpio never would open up like they used to, to me. I did date someone new to make the other person upset and hoped they would open up to me and tell me how much they did in fact miss me. I know it was wrong but I hoped the whole —now that I'm gone you will see what I really mean to you!?? This plan backfired. I was devastated over all of it, but I did have a new person to lean on. I did not love this new person like I loved my Scorpio. I thought the Scorpio was over me so I did try to move on with my life. Me (Cancer) and the Scorpio did remain best friends and I would choose them over the person I was seeing. I would blow off the other person just to see the Scorpio because I still loved them. After a while I admitted how much the Scorpio did mean to me and ended my other relationship. Me and the Scorpio said we would give it another go, but they where not sure if they wanted to get back together. Well after a little while we would fight and I should of changed the ways I said or did things with the Scorpio. We also spent all of out time together and of course I know more then ever that it's a BAD idea. I was happy to be back with them because I am so in love with them, but they said we should not be together just yet, and the Scorpio called it off with me. They started to talk to another person ??_ a Sagittarius. From what the Scorpio is telling me they still think we will end up together again but they just want to —miss me??. From what I know Sagittarius and Scorpio signs don't work out so I have that hope going for me. I was also told that when I dated that other person my Scorpio was upset just never told me ??_. When I wish they did =/ But all said and done I made a mistake to make them jealous so they would open up to me about what I really mean to them. I just am confused that they tell me we will end up together one day ??_ I just want to know what everything thinks I should do so my Scorpio comes back to me. They are still my BFF but we are taking time apart ??_ I'm doing it in hopes they will miss me and to give them space. Please help if you can and thank you! I love the

They?

Is they a he or she?

Posted by BigGirlPanties
They?

Is they a he or she?

BGP ... Aren't you going to correct him or point out his wall of text?! Surprised you got through that first, and second without scolding OP 🙂

Oh man 😢 Have soooooooooooooooooo much going through my head right now. So many twists and turns now, and to come for you. I can seriously feel your pain, and would give you a hug right now if you were here. I need to collect my thoughts into proper form, otherwise it will be rambling.

Posted by BigGirlPanties
They?

Is they a he or she?

Maybe Im mistaken but I think its a he....at least that's the impression I had as I was reading the longgggg post.

Who cares how long it is.

Maybe I'm in a fowl mood, but I first hate how people rip people apart. Second, if it's such a pain in the fucking ass, then don't read it. *smh*

You both sound as if you're trying to play mind games with each other in order to wind back into a relationship. I personally think that sort of thing is both counterproductive AND completely and utterly destructive. You should just keep him as a friend and learn to let him go. Unless you're actually going to get back together, why bother? It's too much trouble for what its worth.

I would come clean and lay it all out there, tell them what you just told us. Then leave it in gods hands

Dazed and Fire Water are both right. Do what Fire Water has suggested; and anticipate, expect, and accept what Dazed has said. It very well is what is, and will happen. I know it's hard and I know you hurt. There's nothing you can do now, but what F-W has said and leave it in God's hands.

You have to stay strong, and also forgive yourself. You'll eat yourself up with pain and regret if you don't.

Posted by OceanDeep
Who cares how long it is.

Maybe I'm in a fowl mood, but I first hate how people rip people apart. Second, if it's such a pain in the fucking ass, then don't read it. *smh*

You might be in a fowl mood, but I'm too much of a chicken to even comment properly 😛

I wrote this on my phone so I'm sorry if it seemed off in a way ... but anyway they do know everything. Also the person is a he. I just miss him so much and I just don't understand why he thinks we will get back together. He says he still loves me in some way and to tell you the truth I don't understand how he can say that if he is the one who wants "take a brake" and talk to someone new. Part of me really wants to wait for him to come around. I have done my complete best to not really speak to him. He spoke to me today but only via text. I told him don't tell me things just to make me happy and if he really thinks we will get back together and he says he does actually mean what he says. Also he is not dating anyone new he's just talking ... so i still can have that hope. I hope by not speaking or seeing him everyday will make him miss me more and see what I really am to him.