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"Yup masturbation,im the best i've ever had.Sex means nothing when it comes to a great relationship,sometimes all it takes is a little training."

tia, your posts usually are a mess and i have a hard time deciphering them. this one, however is oh so clear, hehehe... how come? btw, i think you're right, if it's a good relationship then it's worth it to keep practicing, just not sure that sex means nothing... i'd rather keep practicing! hehehehe....
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If my Cancer guy hadn't had the guts to break up with me, I probably would have ended up cheating...Like falling in love with someone else, which usually happens when you are not in love with the person you're with. I was vulnerable to meeting others. Thank God we broke up. If I had met someone, I would have broken up with him of course.

Although I also see cheating as something that could happen to anyone really. Life is messy, and love is messy. Just hope it won't have to happen to me (cheat or be cheated-although being cheated on HAS happened already)!
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LOL thats wrong,but I sorta kinda can't talk much in that department.My mom was in the hospital for a week and she told me to bring her books so she won't miss the outside world as much.I threw in a playgirl as a joke,later my little sister found it in her drawer and was checking it out.My mr pisces brought home some silver bullet things for foreplay purposes but otherwise no.
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Exactly! I had a friend who was with a girl for 7 years and they were going to get married. They bought a house, shared credit cards...Etc. It was "the deal". And she started to cheat on him. And all their mutual friends knew--so doesn't sound like she was trying to be discreet, eh?

The thing is, at that point of the relationship, she couldn't have pulled him aside and said "look...this is not working for me. Let's cancel the mortgage and credit cards. I can't marry you". Imagine how painful and hard that would have been?

Cheating gave him a good reason to dump her...As painful as it was, it was probably a cleaner breakup than a "let's talk" kind of one.

Not to say that cheating is ok...People who cheat know it's not cool too. It's messy and everyone gets hurt.

Usually there's a message underlying cheating, although an unpleasant one. It's a red flag. One should try to find out what that message is. In my friend's case, it was that this girl wanted out.
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I am a female Scorpio and have never cheated. I am involved with a Virgo male and no I have not cheated on him since we met eight years ago. I have no desire to. Normally, it takes alot for a Scorpio to cheat on you. And if we do, it's because we are getting out of a relationship. I could never understand cheating. I take my vows very seriously indeed. I have been cheated on by my Scorpio ex husband.
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On cheating and being cheated on - Well, my thoughts are this. The number one thing for me - it STD's. I am sorry I value my life a lot. And you really don't know what another person is doing. It's like you are really sleeping with several people at one time. Men and women both leave bacteria in their partners. And well I don't think I would want to risk anything. AIDS is alive and well.....if a woman cheats on her man - what if he's cheating on her without her knowledge? That means four people are involved with this process here. I never thought too many sexual partners were cool. The AIDS virus can live in a the body for a long time - and you don't even know you are infected. That's scary to me. If I left my Virgo friend or he me.... speaking for me, I'd be scared to death to start up with someone sexually.....
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No,I was in a completely normal just there mood when that was posted.Talking and thinking about it,doesn't make it cheating.Actions are louder than words.Besides a little way off the topic anyways,especially being as noone said they cheated themselves.Godforbid people look at different angles and debate about it-sarcasm.That whole scorpio f-in anything that moves gets old too any ways.I was just bugging someone on the taurus board not to long ago to understand ongoing months/years cheating just to see what thier feelings/thoughts about it is because I don't understand it.