SuperMissMan
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Cheering up a scorpio
I talked to him a bit and he responded well to me but not my bf so I feel like I opened up a bit of trust :/ but I don't feel like I'm really helping him emotionally. Think of grief and blaming yourself for it. You can just tell that's how he feels. It's really sad to watch
Give him some vag.
Just kidding 🙂
Just kidding 🙂
Hahaha I knew that would be said. But I really hope he's okay :/ I think talking-to him helped a little but but I still feel that sadness and I can't even imagine how it feels full on.
Just talk. Assure him he has a place he can vent and a person he can talk to.
He got himself in this and he has to maneuver his around it. Thats life.
He got himself in this and he has to maneuver his around it. Thats life.
I know butbit really hurts to sit at the sidelines watching
I know it does. It's going to take some time for him to go through his emotions and deal with the grief, but by being that person that he can vent to and being a friend to him, that's definitely going to help him deal with it
Posted by Blue18
I know it does. It's going to take some time for him to go through his emotions and deal with the grief, but by being that person that he can vent to and being a friend to him, that's definitely going to help him deal with it
I know and I did and he vented but he felt better and now it's really hitting him. Ad like I said we aren't close, like at all. He's my bfs best friend I barely even talk to him but for some reason I spiritually felt his pain and sat here the entire day crying on and off, and I'm not your usual emotional Pisces, this is very rare for me but I feel like I really understand his pain more than anyone else does because when I've told people pretty much how he's feeling and what he's gonna end up feeling like it all came true, and I know I can help him he just needs to open up more, I really can't stand to see him this way, it hurts
you want this dude... just come out and say it
Posted by AL4813
you want this dude... just come out and say it
I used to secretly like him at one point but I'm dating his best friend and don't even know him enough to like him. I just for some reason really empathized with him today, I always felt sorry for him because he seemed so down, but today made a difference, because I just knew exactly how it was going to affect him and it grieved me, and now that I sawbit happen I feel terrible for him 😢
That's life. He just needs to move onto someone that can give him and his kid a happy life. People do it everyday. Sometimes people find stepparents for their kid who most people make the mistake of thinking the step kid is really the stepparents biological parent because the chemistry is so good and the step parent could look like the step child. I see it all the time. And the step parent in and the toxic parent out is sometimes the perfect fit. He will get himself together don't cry for him. He's young too so just wait until he grows up a little and sees life for what it is. Children most of the time in bad deals with their biological family actually want the parents to split so they don't have to deal with the arguing and all that. He will eventually not be able to continue a deadend relationship and he will bounce but if he loves his kid that much he will llcontinue to love him and his kid will always know that and the kid will love him and that won't matter. You need to tell him to end it and start working on getting legal custody so when he can leave the woman. Because women use kids against men for their own sake all the time. She probably won't let it happen without a fight. She will try to make his life a living hell and tell the child bad things. If you want to help help him find a good custody lawyer and build a case against her. He needs emotional support so keep talking to him. Mistakes like this happen and he shouldn't blame himself or think he has to deal with that bs for the rest of his life. This is a new day in age where most people with kids lives seperately.
Thank you. He and all of us knew she would do exactly that and he started crying because he knew she'd tell his daughter all kinds of shit about him, it was terrible, but I'm going to tell him that and support him every step of the way. And the step parent thing is true, my dads girlfriend of many years is more a parent to me than anyone, and I love her like one.
Yes it will get better for him but it's going to get real bad first. He needs to stay strong and go through this custody battle. Once it's over he can start his life all over again and still have his child in his life. And it's tough women abuse men like this but as long as he fills his kid up with love his kid will never believe her lies and one day it'll all backfire on her and the kid will hate her for it. No matter what is going on with the parents the child should be able to see both parents equally.
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