Confused regarding Scorpio man's behavior.

Just a side note: The country we are in is quite conservative so this information will be of help later on in the post.

I have known this Scorpio for more than half a year as friends. Lately I am pretty depressed and he has been there by my side. I am pretty confused since I don't usually sense much emotions from him (I know some scorpios are like this)..

Just some things he did:
1. He keeps on wanting to talk to me as much as possible. He mentioned many times that he hope that he can message/text me every 5 mins. When I asked if he will do the same to his other friends of his, he said no?
However in person he is actually pretty emotionless and doesn't talk much.

2. He will always pull me closer to him to give him a hug after each meeting. His expression seemed..a little off from his usual self though.

3. He keeps on feeding/stuffing me with food and keep asking me to eat more. (I am slightly underweight in terms of BMI but it got nothing to do with my diet.)

4.He says he cares for me a lot. There was once I wanted to cut off contact with him for some reasons (in person), and he was really upset - kept on crying & hugging me and said that he is scared to lose me.

5. He wants to accompany me wherever I go - without me asking him to come along. Just an example, there was once I wanted to visit my deceased grandma's grave and that I will be going alone. He kept insisting to go with me and just said that "he wants to" as a reason.

6. He said that he will answer everything honestly - as long as I am the one asking,told me all of his secrets and didn't want to hide anything from me.

However, he didn't initiate to go out with me that much.. so I am pretty clueless here since I do have strong feelings for him.

Anyone who can provide insight on perhaps what he is actually thinking??

Thanks a lot for the help!

He likes you a lot but doesn't feel like you like him enough so he's giving you space to let him in to your sentimental side when you're ready. He's waiting for an invite. Scorps don't go where their not wanted.

I have a few questions ...

Why do you feel that living in a conservative country will have an impact on this thread?

Is your depression related to the Scorpio Man/A condition you've had throughout life/Caused by something else ?

How old are you both?

What sign are you?

On the surface, this seems like a fairly simple issue. Show him your true feelings which will balance the power/energy of the relationship which will possibly help the Scorp to relax and not feel as though he will lose you.

Posted by greenlight
He likes you a lot but doesn't feel like you like him enough so he's giving you space to let him in to your sentimental side when you're ready. He's waiting for an invite. Scorps don't go where their not wanted.

I forgot to add that.. he still had feelings for another female, so should I give him time to get over her and just stay by his side patiently?

Posted by FixedWater
I have a few questions ...

Why do you feel that living in a conservative country will have an impact on this thread?

Is your depression related to the Scorpio Man/A condition you've had throughout life/Caused by something else ?

How old are you both?

What sign are you?

On the surface, this seems like a fairly simple issue. Show him your true feelings which will balance the power/energy of the relationship which will possibly help the Scorp to relax and not feel as though he will lose you.

Because of the hugging part.

It is a condition I had throughout my entire life - nothing to do with him.

I am a Capricorn (if it matters?)

The other reason I am confused is because he still had feelings for another female and he said to give him time to get over her. Should I just be patient and stay by his side like this?

I wondered ... I am assuming he recently admitted that he has feelings for someone else? If that is the case it sounds like a typical move designed to keep you at arms length. I couldn't say if it was due to the fact that he is scared of his feelings for you, is testing you, or has others he is interested in and cannot decide on one.

Have you expressed how you feel, to him?

He did admit to me that he still have feelings for her, and he promised that he will try to give up on her.

He knows about how I feel.
And he wants me to promise him that in order to get together with him 3 years from now (for a few reasons), I have to help myself with my depression.

I have met him quite often lately, he will always initiate the conversations. - like telling me when he is awake/doing something/going to sleep etc etc, and also about his day (sometimes)
However he doesn't ask me out, yet is willing to take out his day/time just to hang out with me.

I am more concerned that he seems a little distant in person than over text, and I got no idea how to make him warm up to me.

If the details matter 😢Just an outing we had today)

We went out to eat sushi (the one whereby you choose from a variety of dishes via a rotating platform). He was being gentlemanly (I believe?) by helping me to get the dishes I want, and fed me again with food (somehow we ended up sharing the same dish & ate from the same spoon - maybe he is too comfortable with me I guess..)

He actually wanted to take direct bus home from the interchange - we live in different areas, and suddenly (?) changed his mind and said that he will take the same bus and send me home instead, despite me saying that there is no need for that.

On the bus ride, he somehow ended up falling asleep on my shoulder (I got no idea if he is pretending to sleep or not since he acted weirdly and started hugging his backpack after he noticed that I saw that, and I was staring at him.)

We don't have any physical contact after that, and there is this vibe from him that he is still acting weirdly the entire way.

He sent me to the lift of my block and once again reminded me to take my medicine and to contact him after I reached home (I dont have any idea why he keeps doing that every single time) .

How old are you both?

You have 'known' him for about 6 months, how long since he broke up with the other woman?

You knew this was coming ... what is the significance of waiting 3 years to get together with him?

Probably the most important: Can you identify the "weird" feeling and label it for what it is?

I am 20, he is 18 this year.

Around a month plus to two months ago I believe.

Because he was worried that he may get STD and didnt want to pass it on to me. (symptoms usually take time to show)

Regarding the weird feeling, it is like he isn't his usual self (the usual him don't care about anyone to be honest), and is acting the opposite to me.

I am fine if we stay as friends, just that I am quite confused over why he would keep reacting this way.. it is like he is trying to hide his emotions (at least to me)?