Confusing Scorpio!!

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Cancergirl17
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I've been seeing a Scorpio for awhile now. It's been almost a year now. We recently just started talking again. I think he likes me but then Im not sure if he does. Its hard to get that kind of info out of him. Sometimes whenever we're texting he'll just ignore my messages. Idk why he does that cuz sometimes he'll respond back and we'll talk for long time. Idk why he shows me a lot interest and then just disappears. I'm trying so hard not to get too emotionally attached but at the same time it's hard. Idk if it's a trust issue. I think it is. But I'm tired of these games he plays. I really like him and I don't wanna give up. Can someone tell me if he's interested or if he's just testing me? Should I just stop contacting him?
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DaLionessOfLove
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He's probably testing you. Just don't contact him for a while. For some reason I've learned that Scorpio men seem to act uninterested ,but inside they are just yearning for that attention. They won't tell you that though. The more attention you give while he's being "silent", the more in control he feels. If he's not going to respond, then don't let him. Don't wait on him.
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Posted by OceanDeep
Posted by DMV
you can text me on monday and i may not respond till sat 1am.



Is that in general for all people alone, and including your partner...is that just in the beginning of a rel, or even when it's a ltr? I don't want to assume anything by your post. Given OP is talking about her rel makes it appear you would ignore your partner for that long too...M-S. o.O
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thats generally with anyone. i just have the thought process that i will get to it when i get to it. i dont like to be confined or told that i have to respond like this or that. or i have to call back when this person wants me 2. i feel restricted. my friends have told me i suck at calling. they usually have to initiate.

the best partner for me would understand and relate to my communication style .

now if i need something from them....it can go both ways. i either need a reply back immediately or whenever they get around to it.
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Posted by OceanDeep
Posted by DMV
you can text me on monday and i may not respond till sat 1am.



Is that in general for all people alone, and including your partner...is that just in the beginning of a rel, or even when it's a ltr? I don't want to assume anything by your post. Given OP is talking about her rel makes it appear you would ignore your partner for that long too...M-S. o.O



thats generally with anyone. i just have the thought process that i will get to it when i get to it. i dont like to be confined or told that i have to respond like this or that. or i have to call back when this person wants me 2. i feel restricted. my friends have told me i suck at calling. they usually have to initiate.

the best partner for me would understand and relate to my communication style .

now if i need something from them....it can go both ways. i either need a reply back immediately or whenever they get around to it.
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Also DMV I think that is a sagg thing, you all have poor communication skills when it comes to devices such as a cell phone so the people who know and love you will understand.

It's funny my sagg always txting right back unless he is really really busy but it's normally that next day or night if he is, also he always mostly always answer unless he is sleep or just doesn't hear the phone.
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Posted by DMV
if i really freaking like you, youll never get me out of your face and youll never hear my voicemail.



I have Sag moon, can relate on sucking at keeping up in contact with most friends, etc. Makes me feel bad, can imagine they wonder what kind of friend I am when I only respond when I hear from them. Same goes on if I really freaking like someone, I leave no doubts in their head if I like 'em or not. Until something makes me go 'hmmmmm', then both my Cancer Sun and Sag moon comes out...pull back and stubborn about it comes out LOL