Damn scorpio men seems crazy!!

I am 100% scorpio and i embrace everything about me and been a scorpio BUT scorpuo men seems to be getting very bad press lately.
The pattern here,seem they say the 4letter word then disappear....I never dated a scorpio so i havent been stung by one.
But are scorpio men so difficult to understand. I mean with scorpio females we love,stay loyal,want you to be there for us emotionally,will support our partner. Will only withdraw if we feel we arent been matched emotionally,after betrayal or we are putting too much effort into a relationship and not getting nothing back.
So are scorpio men that different??

Posted by FemmeScorpion
I am 100% scorpio and i embrace everything about me and been a scorpio BUT scorpuo men seems to be getting very bad press lately.
The pattern here,seem they say the 4letter word then disappear....I never dated a scorpio so i havent been stung by one.
But are scorpio men so difficult to understand. I mean with scorpio females we love,stay loyal,want you to be there for us emotionally,will support our partner. Will only withdraw if we feel we arent been matched emotionally,after betrayal or we are putting too much effort into a relationship and not getting nothing back.
So are scorpio men that different??

Im curious to know what level of betray is unforgivable? cheating is obviously the biggest one. But what about other things that all people do in all relationships? Lying...someone doing something you didnt want them to do (hanging with certain friends that you didnt like etc).

are you willing to leave someone you love because they commit a typical "relationship infraction"?

Posted by ellessque
even if you think that it wasn't that serious, we'll step back and agree.

....but we will keep tally.

Elle: This has got to be painful for you, no? Always feeling mistrustful? I do 100% agree on the tally part, making sure to be aware of any red flags, for self-preservation. The issue is how to accurately discern when someone is genuinely betraying you (selfish, self centered motive) or has made a simple Fuc* up with no intention of hurting you, or did something they thought was right, but you disagreed. Like the scorp who lied to me saying he was divorced, and the red flags were waving to me strongly. I had a choice:

1. ignore them, stay in denial, but always being suspicious and eventually hating myself
2. investigate them: looking to see if a divorce had taken place in his city n public records

I had already asked weeks earlier if he was divorced, to which he replied yes. I was willing to forgive his lie, and he said he forgave me, but soon after, he was gone into slience. So I am led to believe he didnt.

Its quite the hypocrisy.

I know 3 scorpio male and i worked with all 3.
The 1st i had to shadow,when i first joined my firm....he took me out to lunch on my 2nd day in the office just so he could show off. There was this other nicelooking guy in the firm that liked me and i thought he was quite dishy.
When the scorpio found out....he tried to mad mouth this guy. Saying stuff like he might be goodlooking but he his rubbish at sales.
When that didnt put me off mr goodlooking,the scorpio tried to lower my self esteem. Saying rubbish like i am goodlooking but this other girl in the firm is betterlooking than me.She's number1 and me number2.
To this day this scorpio guy despise me and i havent got the faintest idea why. I had to make a complaint against him for bullying.
Saw him 2mths ago at a work do and he was all smiles....trying to put his arm around my waist. His current gf who's also a scorpio gave me an evil look.
I never understood this scorpuio guy and i doubt i will ever do.

The 2nd scorpio...i currently work with. He is so bloody competitive we are all in sales and he would back stab are cut your throat to get that deal. He his nice and charming with me,he always make and effort to make conversation.
However 2nd time we had disagreement over a sale. So now am weary of him,and i am keeping him at arms length.

3rd scorpio,one of the managers. He's a doormat.....the other manager above him(who's female)walks all over him.
I like him because he seem caring and he knows his stuff but i dont like men with no back bone.

So there we go 3 very different scorpio males....i guess ur planet placement plays a significant role in how you behave in all your relationships.

Posted by LadyLeo

Posted by FemmeScorpion
I am 100% scorpio and i embrace everything about me and been a scorpio BUT scorpuo men seems to be getting very bad press lately.
The pattern here,seem they say the 4letter word then disappear....I never dated a scorpio so i havent been stung by one.
But are scorpio men so difficult to understand. I mean with scorpio females we love,stay loyal,want you to be there for us emotionally,will support our partner. Will only withdraw if we feel we arent been matched emotionally,after betrayal or we are putting too much effort into a relationship and not getting nothing back.
So are scorpio men that different??

Im curious to know what level of betray is unforgivable? cheating is obviously the biggest one. But what about other things that all people do in all relationships? Lying...someone doing something you didnt want them to do (hanging with certain friends that you didnt like etc).

are you willing to leave someone you love because they commit a typical "relationship infraction"?

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Ladyleo....yep cheating is a huge no no BUT what really gets to me is disloyalty...because am soooo loyal i want you to return back the same level.
For example i often butt heads with my aries because he often tries to play devils advocate....if i hate my boss. Bloody agree with me. SAY yes she is rubbish. Dont tell me rubbish like but @ the end of the day she's ur boss,so she can tell you what to do. Arrghhh!!
If you refuse to support me,i get turned off big time!!
Recently i fell out with a 3ppl and my friend who's capricorn...had my back. I was so angry i deleted them from my fB and blackberry messenger. My mate did the same.
It might seem petty but trust me enough if i make a stance and support my decision!!

Holy crap! Is this the guy you're supposed to have that date with that you wrote about on that thread?

Scorpio men are totally fucking crazy and I love them.